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Posted: 15 years ago
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First of all Nandini realized she love mohit after Akshara teased her then she said its not right and with drew. Then Mohit came andhe felt the same. The she agreed to seeing a guy. Then Mohit wanted to meet her and Akshara made it happen even when Nandini did not want to.
Akshara knew its a conservative household. She had seen her dad's reaction on Shaurya and Varsha. Its not like she comes from a very liberal family. She knew when she told Naitik he would not be happy so she kept postponing telling him.
So why is it that she should not be blamed? Infact she is m ore to be blamed than Nandini coz she kept stepping back and Akshara kept pushing her on Mohit's behest.
IN an ultra conservative family [don't compare this family to your's] as the Singhania's have been portrayed this is a big deal akin to someone dying. In this case their reputation. Naitik knows them all thie life and Akshara for less than a year so in a moment of sheer rage and betrayal him ganging up against Akshara is really not that unusual. In his mind he is not insulting his wife but the person who betrayed his family. I really can't seem to fault that.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree, but the manner in which natik expressed his anger, was wrong, to shout at ur wife in front of everyone is like humilitating her, the situation was made worse, if he had spoken to akshara first and given her a chance to explain, they they could have together spoken to the rest of the singhanias, but that doesn't mean mean naitik has to agree with akshara, he could just say, ok what you have done is very wrong and i do not agree with for a second but as your husband i have promised to support you, so i will support you but not because you were right. and even if akshara did encourage nandani, nandani is older than akshara and knows her family much better aswell, nandani could use her own brain and just tell akshara sternly that stop, and that i will do whatever i feel is right and you should acept it. regarding mohit, and akshara taking nandani to meet him, that was wrong, she should have said no.
the only thing i thought was so sad and very wrong was how all the singhaina's kinda ganged up on akshara.
also akshra didn't put it off, she tried to tell him and natik fell asleep, then mohit said that he will tell naitik cos he doesn't want his friend to hear it from someone else. but mohit didn't speak to natitk.

honsetly i think akshara was living in dream land if she thought her in-laws would ever support nandani and mohit's relationship. for starters they would be like mohit is to young and nandini is older and ofcourse mohit's mom hates nandani.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mitushib

First of all Nandini realized she love mohit after Akshara teased her then she said its not right and with drew. Then Mohit came andhe felt the same. The she agreed to seeing a guy. Then Mohit wanted to meet her and Akshara made it happen even when Nandini did not want to.

Akshara knew its a conservative household. She had seen her dad's reaction on Shaurya and Varsha. Its not like she comes from a very liberal family. She knew when she told Naitik he would not be happy so she kept postponing telling him.
So why is it that she should not be blamed? Infact she is m ore to be blamed than Nandini coz she kept stepping back and Akshara kept pushing her on Mohit's behest.
IN an ultra conservative family [don't compare this family to your's] as the Singhania's have been portrayed this is a big deal akin to someone dying. In this case their reputation. Naitik knows them all thie life and Akshara for less than a year so in a moment of sheer rage and betrayal him ganging up against Akshara is really not that unusual. In his mind he is not insulting his wife but the person who betrayed his family. I really can't seem to fault that.

well the facts u hv put forward r right..........
but.......
akshu didnt keep postponing telling all this to naitik........
plz recall tht nandini hd given her kasam and tht too after both mohit and nandini hd pleaded soo many times to akshu abt nt telling abt their blossoming luv to naitik yet akshu kept saying v shud tel him everythng,............
secondly,
in a way,akshu has just supported luv which is nt wrong at all according to me.....
ya its true tht she should hv remembered tht the singhania's r extremely conservative..........
but n e ways.....u dnt need to push any1 to fall in luv......
even if nandini hd opposed to their luv,i dnt think both cud hv stopped or rather controlled their feelings for each other.........
n e wayz.........nadini-mohit tyrack was unnecessarily pushed into yrkkh.......
coz luv cant blossom sooooooooo quickly!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: krutiv100

i agree, but the manner in which natik expressed his anger, was wrong, to shout at ur wife in front of everyone is like humilitating her, the situation was made worse, if he had spoken to akshara first and given her a chance to explain, they they could have together spoken to the rest of the singhanias, but that doesn't mean mean naitik has to agree with akshara, he could just say, ok what you have done is very wrong and i do not agree with for a second but as your husband i have promised to support you, so i will support you but not because you were right. and even if akshara did encourage nandani, nandani is older than akshara and knows her family much better aswell, nandani could use her own brain and just tell akshara sternly that stop, and that i will do whatever i feel is right and you should acept it. regarding mohit, and akshara taking nandani to meet him, that was wrong, she should have said no.
the only thing i thought was so sad and very wrong was how all the singhaina's kinda ganged up on akshara.
also akshra didn't put it off, she tried to tell him and natik fell asleep, then mohit said that he will tell naitik cos he doesn't want his friend to hear it from someone else. but mohit didn't speak to natitk.

honsetly i think akshara was living in dream land if she thought her in-laws would ever support nandani and mohit's relationship. for starters they would be like mohit is to young and nandini is older and ofcourse mohit's mom hates nandani.

agreed........
watever b the situation,
a husband shouting so rudely on his wife and her in-laws(+mamaji and his wife who r their relatives and r nt included in the actual singhania family) silently(nt exactly but somewat with respect to stopping naitik to behave in this manner)witnessing her insult does nt suit any ijjatdaar khaandaani marwari or rather any damn family...............
if nandini and mohit were so confident abt their relationship,they shouldnt hv kept akshu hanging like a pendulum-sometimes nandini says she will continue luving him,the next moment she opposes herself only!!!!!!!!!!!!!
n e ways,watsovere b the case,
this doesnt suit any respectful khaandaan to behave in this manner with their bahu.........
y a daughter's mistake is comparatively nothing as to a DIL's???????
y r they showing so much of indifference towards nandini's fault!!!!!!!!
did naitik even once till now think tht his sis was at fault (a major fault actually) too???????
he has cursed mohit,shouted at akshu, but nt even once did he say tht nandini didi has also committed a big mistake!!!!!!!!!!!!!
naitik cud hv talked with akshu personally 1st..........there was no need 2 immediately start shouting @ akshu infront of her in-laws............
atleast some witty behaviour of naitik cud b expected by the audience.........which v didnt get 2 c anyway........
he should hv thought abt wt he was going to do and its immediate as well as long-term consequences...........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SM28

I agree completely.

btw with whom do u agree???
Edited by manasi_31 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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to make my point short -
1 - akshare encouraging was wrong
2 - nandani is 10 years older than akshara, she knows her family better
3 - mohit knows the family better
4 - mohit will know how naitk will react
5 - naitik reaction to akshara was wrong in the living room.
so who fault is it?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mitushib

First of all Nandini realized she love mohit after Akshara teased her then she said its not right and with drew. Then Mohit came andhe felt the same. The she agreed to seeing a guy. Then Mohit wanted to meet her and Akshara made it happen even when Nandini did not want to.

Akshara knew its a conservative household. She had seen her dad's reaction on Shaurya and Varsha. Its not like she comes from a very liberal family. She knew when she told Naitik he would not be happy so she kept postponing telling him.
So why is it that she should not be blamed? Infact she is m ore to be blamed than Nandini coz she kept stepping back and Akshara kept pushing her on Mohit's behest.
IN an ultra conservative family [don't compare this family to your's] as the Singhania's have been portrayed this is a big deal akin to someone dying. In this case their reputation. Naitik knows them all thie life and Akshara for less than a year so in a moment of sheer rage and betrayal him ganging up against Akshara is really not that unusual. In his mind he is not insulting his wife but the person who betrayed his family. I really can't seem to fault that.



@blue : Really....wasn't Nandini day-dreaming about Mohit already. "Kya yeh meri kalpana hai"....didn't that happen before Akshara mentioned anything to Nandini. Nandini so desperately wanted to meet Mohit in the mall or called his place so many times. So Nandini was already in love, but she was just denying it. No one can make anyone fall in love, it just happens.

@purple : Akshara knows that her in-laws are conservative, but what about Ms. Nandini. Doesn't she know about her family more than Akshara ?

@Orange : Naitik is not insulting his wife but the person who betrayed him .... Are you serious ? That person is his better-half. Just because, she is his wife so he can treat her worse than a maid. If she has betrayed his trust then why make it public ?? Can't he discuss this matter privately with her ?



Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kuli

to make my point short -

1 - akshare encouraging was wrong
2 - nandani is 10 years older than akshara, she knows her family better
3 - mohit knows the family better
4 - mohit will know how naitk will react
5 - naitik reaction to akshara was wrong in the living room.
so who fault is it?



  1. Akshara also encouraged Nandani to post her article in newspaper. she didn't told her in-laws about it.
  2. Nandani expressed her feeling first Mohit didn't. (i think he started to feel foro her after she confess her love for him)
  3. Shankari tai has no right to talk to Akshara or Nandni like thah
  4. I am still wondering what will Singhanniya will do to Akshra when they will come to know about Nandani's writing
so I think Akshara and Nandani both are at fault 60/40 bcoz Akashra is Bahu
Edited by PCRocks - 15 years ago

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