Its all about relationships, Mr Sahai!

Why is it that all tele serial makers believe that relationships are based on a complete lack of understanding between the people involved in a relationships?

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

Why is it that all tele serial makers believe that relationships are based on a complete lack of understanding between the people involved in a relationships?

Why do they believe that all men and women who get married are immature and childish and haven't grown outside their parent's influence?

Why is that their characters have no strength of characters or common sense or trust and faith in their friends?

Naitik runs his apparenly large family business, has studied overses (am not sure), has been married for a while, has been close buddies with Mohit for God knows how many years and supposedly is in love with his wife.

So what does he do when he sees his wife clandestinally abetting his best friend and sister's budding romance?

He refuses to confront his friend and asking him if he is serious about his sister! What does Mohit feel about Nandini? Is he serious of is he fooling around?

He refuses to ask his sister what she wants. Is she in love with Mohit? Is she happy with this engagement? Have Mohit and she thought through this relationship?

He refuses to talk to his wife and ask her why she did not confide in him? Why she didn't trust him to understand her or help her through this? He refuses to get Nandini and Akshara together and chide them both for lying and trying to understand their point of view!

Instead he sulks, gets furious at his wife for lying to him and promptly denounces her in front of the family so that she looses their respect!

Great that's what husband's are supposed to do! Strip their wife of dignity in front of their family, gang up with the family so that she is the outsider!

Great going Niatik, wonder when you will grow up?

Sure Akshara hid something from you, but this isn't thefirst time that someone's aided a blossoming romance - its up to you to understand where you've gone wrong that your wife was reluctant to confide in you.. its upto you to talk to her and make her understand how much she's hurt you with that action of hers....

Finally Mr Sahai, its about understanding ahusband wife relationship an how it works... certainly not in this fashion!

Akshaa has acted foolishly for not telling Naitik abt Mohini & Naitik acted foolishly by shouting endlessly at Akshara and didn't even tried to look into this matter .

He became angry with Akshara i agree with that but this is not the way to behave.

I think its more of Naitiks ego that aksh didnt involve him thats why he is upset with aksh for not telling him not becos mohit and nandu are in love...its damn right silly behaviour from naitik

just like there r so many possibilities for naitik, there were lots of possibilities for akshara following which she cud have avoided this confrontation , where does HER understanding of the family and her husband comes into picture? nowhere ! Naitik cud have done all that IF he thought that it was possible for Mohit and Nandini to get married..This is his POV and (in my opinion he is right) that this is WRONG , so he never took Akshara or Nandini or Mohit's side..When he was kept in dark by his sister, best friend and wife, he will obviously react on that much info which he has ...which was tht nandini accepted the marriage proposal & was ready to get engaged but Akshara convinced her to act otherwise ! she took nandini to the park without her knowledge and fixed up a meeting with mohit......when akshara lied to him so many times, how can he trust her and go and ask her the truth? what's the guarantee that she will not lie this time? she will not try to cover up for nandini and mohit ?

Akshara has been married in this family for a few months and she must have experienced that her in laws are more conservative than her parents..she must have had an idea of their thinking and their views about marriage..when love marriage was a strcit no no in HER household then Singhania's r way backward for this concept ! how can she not know that daddaji is dead against the idea of love marriage? how can she not guess that when this truth will come out, specially when a rishta for nandini is almost fixed, how will they react? on what basis was she opposing this marriage proposal? on what basis was she encouraging nandini and mohit ? a guy like mohit moron who knows nandini will not be accepted in his family, yet instead of talking to them first, he went n confessed to nandini and try to stop her rishta by convincing her to tell everything to her parents? ''

yes, the family is the last one to know about blossoming romance but there was no reason for akshara to hide such an imp. thing from naitik and hence, dig the foundation on which she laid the taj mahal of her love...can't SHE convince nandini to tell this to naitik ? if hiding this truth frm naitik is OKAY then she herself wouldn't have said it time n again that naitik must know...

love, trust, understanding can never be a one way traffic bec. naitik is not a saint like akshara...i think it was high time tht the family must know about nandini's affair...naitik couldn't have contributed to Akshara & Nandini's lies by hiding the truth frm them..yes, it cud have done in a better way but may be he didn't get time to think & react bec. Akshara herself made it so complicated for him...and in a way it was important bec. akshara was flying high with the appreciations she was getting (mainly frm her maayka) which made her so overconfident tht she alone can handle this sensitive matter...

Naitik couldn't have asked nandini and even if he had asked her, he wud have got confused replies only and akshara's mistake wud be glorified..god knows how many times Nandini said yes/no for mohit and yes/no for this rishta...in front of mohit she wants to marry him, as soon as she sees her parents, she changes her mind..n that's where akshara's fault come into picture tht she was the one who drove nandini towards mohit when she made up her mind twice tht she will forget this affair

I didnt like the way Naitik yelled at Akshara in front of the entire family but to think of it, he did not have time to talk to her in the room. Nandini and Abhimanyu were about to get engaged and in their family, getting engaged is just as important and breaking it off is totally unacceptable. Naitik had to stop the engagement which he did. Since the entire family was present right there, he couldnt have possibly taken Akshara to their room to confront her. However, he should have questioned Nandini and Mohit first. He should have told DJ to ask his daughter if she really wanted to get engaged instead he lashed out at his own wife. Akshara was caught off guard...she wasnt even prepared for such a situation. She never knew Naitik was aware of the truth...she was shocked. Akshara was wrong and she has to pay the price but it seems like Nandini and Mohit have been let off very easily and only Aksara is being held responsible which is very very unfair 😭

Originally posted by: anu-s

Akshaa has acted foolishly for not telling Naitik abt Mohini & Naitik acted foolishly by shouting endlessly at Akshara and didn't even tried to look into this matter .

He became angry with Akshara i agree with that but this is not the way to behave.

He should have talk to her first ,within the four walls of their room, before reacting like this..

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

Why is it that all tele serial makers believe that relationships are based on a complete lack of understanding between the people involved in a relationships?

Why do they believe that all men and women who get married are immature and childish and haven't grown outside their parent's influence?

Why is that their characters have no strength of characters or common sense or trust and faith in their friends?

Naitik runs his apparenly large family business, has studied overses (am not sure), has been married for a while, has been close buddies with Mohit for God knows how many years and supposedly is in love with his wife.

So what does he do when he sees his wife clandestinally abetting his best friend and sister's budding romance?

He refuses to confront his friend and asking him if he is serious about his sister! What does Mohit feel about Nandini? Is he serious of is he fooling around?

He refuses to ask his sister what she wants. Is she in love with Mohit? Is she happy with this engagement? Have Mohit and she thought through this relationship?

He refuses to talk to his wife and ask her why she did not confide in him? Why she didn't trust him to understand her or help her through this? He refuses to get Nandini and Akshara together and chide them both for lying and trying to understand their point of view!

Instead he sulks, gets furious at his wife for lying to him and promptly denounces her in front of the family so that she looses their respect!

Great that's what husband's are supposed to do! Strip their wife of dignity in front of their family, gang up with the family so that she is the outsider!

Great going Niatik, wonder when you will grow up?

Sure Akshara hid something from you, but this isn't thefirst time that someone's aided a blossoming romance - its up to you to understand where you've gone wrong that your wife was reluctant to confide in you.. its upto you to talk to her and make her understand how much she's hurt you with that action of hers....

Finally Mr Sahai, its about understanding ahusband wife relationship an how it works... certainly not in this fashion!

Well said.. they are showing all these in the national television whereby uneducated people will try to emulate character naitik.. since this guy is educated it would have been better to deal the situation in an intelligent way rather than screaming and shouting at his wife, whom he 'love' which i cannot believe that as 'love' now..

As person who is in totally completely 100% in love with his wife cannot behave the way he was behaving.. yes hurt will be there, but behaviour cannot be what is shown on the national television .. he was behaving as if he hated his wife, and was insulting in front of his family and accusing her too..

RS/SP team is bunch of foolish people and mixing the story of hatred behaviour of a husband with a loving a husband.. they needed to rework on their strategy, what is their aim of this show? Love after arranged marriage... it look like Hatred After Arranged Marriage

RS draw something from your own personal life, at least you are an experienced person.. do you behave the way the character naitik behaves.. bring some sense to what you are showing.. shame on you.. such a good platform to bring good things about a relationship where are just showing some stupid negativity ..😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

just like there r so many possibilities for naitik, there were lots of possibilities for akshara following which she cud have avoided this confrontation , where does HER understanding of the family and her husband comes into picture? nowhere ! Naitik cud have done all that IF he thought that it was possible for Mohit and Nandini to get married..This is his POV and (in my opinion he is right) that this is WRONG , so he never took Akshara or Nandini or Mohit's side..When he was kept in dark by his sister, best friend and wife, he will obviously react on that much info which he has ...which was tht nandini accepted the marriage proposal & was ready to get engaged but Akshara convinced her to act otherwise ! she took nandini to the park without her knowledge and fixed up a meeting with mohit......when akshara lied to him so many times, how can he trust her and go and ask her the truth? what's the guarantee that she will not lie this time? she will not try to cover up for nandini and mohit ?

Akshara has been married in this family for a few months and she must have experienced that her in laws are more conservative than her parents..she must have had an idea of their thinking and their views about marriage..when love marriage was a strcit no no in HER household then Singhania's r way backward for this concept ! how can she not know that daddaji is dead against the idea of love marriage? how can she not guess that when this truth will come out, specially when a rishta for nandini is almost fixed, how will they react? on what basis was she opposing this marriage proposal? on what basis was she encouraging nandini and mohit ? a guy like mohit moron who knows nandini will not be accepted in his family, yet instead of talking to them first, he went n confessed to nandini and try to stop her rishta by convincing her to tell everything to her parents? ''

yes, the family is the last one to know about blossoming romance but there was no reason for akshara to hide such an imp. thing from naitik and hence, dig the foundation on which she laid the taj mahal of her love...can't SHE convince nandini to tell this to naitik ? if hiding this truth frm naitik is OKAY then she herself wouldn't have said it time n again that naitik must know...

love, trust, understanding can never be a one way traffic bec. naitik is not a saint like akshara...i think it was high time tht the family must know about nandini's affair...naitik couldn't have contributed to Akshara & Nandini's lies by hiding the truth frm them..yes, it cud have done in a better way but may be he didn't get time to think & react bec. Akshara herself made it so complicated for him...and in a way it was important bec. akshara was flying high with the appreciations she was getting (mainly frm her maayka) which made her so overconfident tht she alone can handle this sensitive matter...

Naitik couldn't have asked nandini and even if he had asked her, he wud have got confused replies only and akshara's mistake wud be glorified..god knows how many times Nandini said yes/no for mohit and yes/no for this rishta...in front of mohit she wants to marry him, as soon as she sees her parents, she changes her mind..n that's where akshara's fault come into picture tht she was the one who drove nandini towards mohit when she made up her mind twice tht she will forget this affair

Originally posted by: p@ras

I think its more of Naitiks ego that aksh didnt involve him thats why he is upset with aksh for not telling him not becos mohit and nandu are in love...its damn right silly behaviour from naitik