<br>Very true all moms r not so possessive like Mata G there are quite progressive open minded MIL's like my dear MIL . I may not like the joint family sys & can never imagine arranged marriage...... marriage without falling in love neverrrrr...... but I live happily with my MIL. When my hubby got this transfer to mumbai.... I freaked out...... it was she who gave me confidence & now we all live happily together but respect each others space & time. It is very important to try to bond with MIL.....but to bond she has to be in your level. So firstly get to know her in & out with the helpof hubby..... then bend forward & understand her then make her bend forward. Both MIL& DILhave to take baby steps .....if hubby is out then u bond better......just the story of my life. We do have difference of opinion but I have the same with my mom too. We agree to disagree😆. I'm brutally truthful with her so is she with me. <br>
🤗 a bear hug frm me 😊
tina ur presence is required in this thread...its incomplete with ur valueable comments :)
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