realistically...this is what happens

i know too mnay ppl wont be happy with this topic but the truth is realisticallly this is what happens in realationships. esp when u don't know eachother that well.

I don't oppose his behaviour at all............It's good of him to be a caring brother and all..........But, I would certainly question his decision to trust Gulabo(a mere servant at the Singhania household) than his own wife(with whon he has taken the seven promises in front of the whole world, with whom he says that he is madly in love).......It's kind of ok since they are just discovering each other, but he atleast need to know, from whatever time he has spent with Akshara that she will not intentionally hurt anyone..........After all only she is going to be there with him, all through out his life(and not any Gulabo/ Nandini, for that sake).......Only if they give each other a chance, they'll be able to move forward in their relationship..........I dunno, this is my personal opinion......I'm not married......I really don't understand what kind of love, Naitik's is???????

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel

I don't oppose his behaviour at all............It's good of him to be a caring brother and all..........But, I would certainly question his decision to trust Gulabo(a mere servant at the Singhania household) than his own wife(with whon he has taken the seven promises in front of the whole world, with whom he says that he is madly in love).......It's kind of ok since they are just discovering each other, but he atleast need to know, from whatever time he has spent with Akshara that she will not intentionally hurt anyone..........After all only she is going to be there with him, all through out his life(and not any Gulabo/ Nandini, for that sake).......Only if they give each other a chance, they'll be able to move forward in their relationship..........I dunno, this is my personal opinion......I'm not married......I really don't understand what kind of love, Naitik's is???????

Totally agree wid u... very well written😊

The problem is that he jumps to conclusions too quickly, behaves in an immature manner and has bad manners.

Originally posted by: kannine1

i know too mnay ppl wont be happy with this topic but the truth is realisticallly this is what happens in realationships. esp when u don't know eachother that well.

basicallly akshara has only been in the house for a week. how can naitik know her so well as to trust everything she says and does. they both need time to unerstand eachother. they had hardly any interaction before marrige. people are getting so shocked at seeing Naitik's behavior. but u have to rmemeber. he's lived with nadini his whole life and akshara for a week. if he see's his sister cry he;s gonna be upset.

i got married a few years ago and my husband and i still have small msunderstandings like this all the time. its normal and natural.

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel

I don't oppose his behaviour at all............It's good of him to be a caring brother and all..........But, I would certainly question his decision to trust Gulabo(a mere servant at the Singhania household) than his own wife(with whon he has taken the seven promises in front of the whole world, with whom he says that he is madly in love).......It's kind of ok since they are just discovering each other, but he atleast need to know, from whatever time he has spent with Akshara that she will not intentionally hurt anyone..........After all only she is going to be there with him, all through out his life(and not any Gulabo/ Nandini, for that sake).......Only if they give each other a chance, they'll be able to move forward in their relationship..........I dunno, this is my personal opinion......I'm not married......I really don't understand what kind of love, Naitik's is???????

you are right, he should not have believed the servant, at least spoke to nandini to clear this matter then and there, when akshara says she didn't say anything to hurt her.. it is not misunderstanding, it is TRUST.. misuderstanding and Trust are two different things..

he and his family behaviour towards her was not pardonable.. i thought at least daddaji will show some sense .. in fact he insulted food by refusing it.. he can broke the rules.. so much the family talk about their tradition, customs etc, all show off.. in reality they are empty inside and outside..

yaar...but he should belive her ateast a bit
he belives gulaboo and othrs....well any relation the base is trust...if u dont have t then what is the point i t