Conditional love.... - Page 2

I just think he needs a bit of time to change! We know hes a good person hes just a pampered prince which will change with aksharas goodness and when gayatri stops pampering him!

I completely agree with you! Naitik needs to grow up and that is not happening if Gayitri fdoesnt stop mollycoddling him!

Originally posted by: yrkkhluvinangel

Well I think Naitik is like that...............It's not that his love for Akshara is conditional..........It is that, when he gets angry, his anger overshadows his love..............He still loves her a lot, but then, his love becomes tender and his anger and frustration controls him more..............He is a blind lover............at the same time is vulnerable.............you should understand that he is only 22/23.............too young to have a wife.................his childishness has not left him and it's quite natural............He is the only son and is pampered a lot...............He has never faced rejection or defeat in his life..............He has fallen completely in love for the first time and needless to say, it is his first marriage!!!!!!!!!In my personal point of view, he is too young to get married and to understand the complexities of a post-marriage relationship between a husband and wife...........I think they shouldn't have married him off this early............He needs to learn to choose between his love and anger..............and face defeats in a more matured way.........
For Gayathri, it is quite justified that she feels jealous of her bahu, because, till yesterday, she was everything for her son and one fine day, some other girl comes into his life and he gives all the attention to her.............She would obviously start to feel lonely right.............I'll tell you something from my personal experience.......My brother used to be my best friend right from the day I was born........He used to clear all my doubts, take me for movies and buy me new books and clothes and even console me when I used to feel depressed...........Later when he went to the US for his studies and work, he used to call me everyday and used to bring me a lot o stuff whenever he used to come back.........My parents and I later got shifted to Yorkshire, where we currently live and still he used to come for my birthdays and spend a lot of time with me...........About an year back, he got engaged to my bhabhi and from that day on he started to call me less often and I started to feel lonely..........I did not have any other best friends and his absence caused a lot of mental problems to me...............Things became worse when he got married about 5 months back...................Now, he calls us like once in a month and most of his calls go to my bhabhi who works in Bangalore.............But, still, I love my brother as much as I used to before and I'm sure he does the same too............My bhabhi is probably the sweetest person in the world and has eventually become my best friend...........So, I've learned to cope with my brother's absence in my life and I think Gayathri would also do the same as time passes by.............

I agree, naitik needs to grow up and guys do mature much more later in life then women..hes still a baby and has the responsiblity of a wife, that is a lot...i do hope oever time we get to see these changes

naitik just needs time to grow up! hes been too spoiled by his mum!

Originally posted by: mitushib

I agree with every word you said. Very well put.

I also completely agree! I think many r being a little harsh on naitik

Naitik has to grow up and realize that he's married now!..he cant keep on treating Akshara this way..

YEH HE JUST NEEDS TO GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i completely agree wid everyone..generally the only son is pampered so much tht he dsnt attain maturity soon..same wid naitik..slightest wishh is everyone's command,especially wid the women of the house..and i second the aspect of the adjustment of the room and cupboard..wen gayatri is talking abt duties of the bahu,isnt it the right of the bahu to get space for her clothes in her bedroom?i mean its a bare necessary..

very well said