Originally posted by: 5cents
LOL Ritu, Hubbies for Dummies manualđđ Abhi aksh isbusy building a Ram setu b/w her & Naitik .....
So she got some pravachan on MIL management fr Dadi..... we had missed that part....Naitik swooning mai miss ho gay hoga đ
Lata, don't get upset....... we love kick-ass heroines đ more. BUT Polite women.... Shy women..... Women who never think of that witty comeback...... until it's too late to be effective...... Women who don't know how to change a flat tire......., but try. I like such women too .......they just need to learn some tact . Well, I don't need a man to survive, but I surely like having my man around.đł The thought of him rushing to rescue me from the bad guys makes my romantic heart flutterđł swoon......kuch jyada ho gaya ab mai sooti hoonđ
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you are unable to reach akshara's level of thinking .. here it is.. what she wanted is the 3rd stage.. which dadi advised her... that is the ultimate, where there will be no arguments or fights or misunderstandings.. right now she just started her journey trying to understand her hubby.. please raise your standard of thinking level
""Love can have three dimensions. One is that of dependence; that's what happens to the majority of people. The husband is dependent on the wife, the wife is dependent on the husband; they exploit each other, they dominate each other, they possess each other, they reduce each other to a commodity. In ninety-nine percent of cases, that's what is happening in the world. That's why love, which can open the gates of paradise, only opens the gates of hell.
The second possibility is love between two independent persons. That too happens once in a while. But that too brings misery, because there is constant conflict. No adjustment is possible; both are so independent and nobody is ready to compromise, to adjust with the other. Poets, artists, thinkers, scientists, those who live in a kind of independence, at least in their minds, are impossible people to live with; they are eccentric people to live with. They give freedom to the other, but their freedom looks more like indifference than like freedom, looks more as if they don't care, as if it doesn't matter to them. They leave each other to their own spaces. Relationship seems to be only superficial; they are afraid to go deeper into each other, because they are more attached to their freedom than to love, and they don't want to compromise.
And the third possibility is of interdependence. That happens very rarely, but whenever it happens a part of paradise falls on the earth. Two persons, neither independent nor dependent but in a tremendous synchronicity, as if breathing for each other, one soul in two bodies -- whenever that happens, love has happened. Only call this love. The other two are not really love, they are just arrangements -- social, psychological, biological, but arrangements. The third is something spiritual."""""
Edited by lats55 - 16 years ago
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