Aksh innocent but irritatingly childish.. - Page 6

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sonu i completely understand your POV...but aisa sabke saath kaise ho sakta hai? you can obviously guess somebody's reaction, what they want, whether they're happy or sad etc. etc. but how can you guess what the other person is thinking? yes after knowing somebody all these years, you know a person's likes dislikes, his habits so well that it's easy to guess...but still, it's possible to make a mistake then? then why rely on this one thing ? i don't know if i'm able to explain my POV..but relying on these things to keep ur relationship going is so silly...is it a sign of a sign of a strong relationship (like what akshara thinks) or is it better to try and communicate so that therez no room for any doubt..

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No I'am not saying ki aisa sabke saath hota hai...but i have come across many such couples mostly the older ones like our parents or elder siblings....
And what you are saying is what it leads to...jab liking disliking ,behaviour pata hai toh you can guess na what/how the other person will react......ofcourse its not foolproof...and we saw that in YRKKH hai...
It is anyday better to communicate....but there are times when you want to stay quite...it helps at that time..
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Where Akshara is wrong is that she wants it like her parents which is not right...their personality is different than her and Naitik's personality...so thats why in her situation she should talk according to me...or for that matter any newly married couple ...agar baatein nahin karoge toh how will you understand the other person....

Originally posted by: pinky35

i said it was like brett lee's bouncer "ek doosre kr purak".......

i thought a lot par nahi samaj aaya.

a husband and wife complete each other..jo kami ek mein hoti hai, woh doosri poori karta hai..

like Naitik is an impulsive liar and Akshara, satya vachan bolne wali nari ..u know..everything in this universe is so perfectly balanced ! what is missing in one can be found in other

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sonu i completely understand your POV...but aisa sabke saath kaise ho sakta hai? you can obviously guess somebody's reaction, what they want, whether they're happy or sad etc. etc. but how can you guess what the other person is thinking? yes after knowing somebody all these years, you know a person's likes dislikes, his habits so well that it's easy to guess...but still, it's possible to make a mistake then? then why rely on this one thing ? i don't know if i'm able to explain my POV..but relying on these things to keep ur relationship going is so silly...is it a sign of a sign of a strong relationship (like what akshara thinks) or is it better to try and communicate so that therez no room for any doubt..

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Get hold of The Bridge Across Forever: A Love Story by Richard David Bach you will understand what sonu is trying to explain..

Originally posted by: _charu_

a husband and wife complete each other..jo kami ek mein hoti hai, woh doosri poori karta hai..

like Naitik is an impulsive liar and Akshara, satya vachan bolne wali nari ..u know..everything in this universe is so perfectly balanced ! what is missing in one can be found in other

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

yes what is missing in one can be found in other in an ideal world...

and mindreading too !

Originally posted by: lats55

Get hold of The Bridge Across Forever: A Love Story by Richard David Bach you will understand what sonu is trying to explain..

if you try u can read ur life partner kamoshi .not all times but most of the times .in akshara's case it's too early for her and naithik to understand kamoshi ka juban . she can't think about that right now.they didn't even hardly spend time with each other and they don't have any idea about their partner likes and dislikes and how they react in certain situations.
couples has to communicate with other in their early days of marriage.other wise how will you know about ur life partner.

Originally posted by: lacchu21

if you try u can read ur life partner kamoshi .not all times but most of the times .in akshara's case it's too early for her and naithik to understand kamoshi ka juban . she can't think about that right now.they didn't even hardly spend time with each other and they don't have any idea about their partner likes and dislikes and how they react in certain situations.
couples has to communicate with other in their early days of marriage.other wise how will you know about ur life partner.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Lata, it's wrong to think that couples never meet/interact each other in an arranged marriage...they get time to know each other and unlike what was shown in yrkkh, the parents also want their children to be comfortable with each other so they hardly object to them meeting before marriage...

In yrkkh, Naitik and Akshara were totally in love before marriage..from the time they agreed to marry to their engagement to the time when they interacted in the temple, to their wedding, they went through the process of falling in love..YET therez a lot to be desired bec. in love/arranged marriage you actually know your partner only after marriage....so therez this process of getting comfortable in each other's company and know each other inside out....Naitik is not a stranger to Akshara, yet may be, due to any reason she might be feeling the hitch (ab that toh only she knows what's the hitch)

i know people who never even had a single conversation between them before marriage.. it is still existing in india.. esp when the boys are shy to take initiative..

those interactions which we have seen in YRKKH is very limited, i can say still after 3-4 days of marriage he is a stranger to her..as well as she is a stranger to him

Originally posted by: _charu_

in married relationship husband is the one who should know you in and out, not others.

Lata, in a married relationship, it's important to know each family member for a peaceful and happy life (it's difficult and very less cud achieve but it's very easy for the tellyland bahu)..but ur rite...the relationship with husband is different from the rest & it's very personal so it's ok if her attitude is different with Naitik..and she knows Naitik more than anyone else in the family, that too makes a difference

I can say, Akshara is right too, it is not easy to confess ILU so fast when a person is so shy
Lata, when she loves him , it's not difficult to say i love you..it should be difficult for her to confess but she's already done that...saying i love you is just next to nothing but still if she's shy then let her take her time

It is not that she does not wanted to confess, but always the situations taken different mould whenever she was ready and naturally it might have put her of

confession is what she said on their SR...the next night, the way she started off,
what's the point in starting with "humari shadi mein kitni gadbad ho gayi..and shadi kitni ajeeb si feeling hoti hai..." obviously naitik will understand that she's upset abt the wedding and wanted to make her smile....if she had started with tht dialogue which she said later "mujhe lagta hai shadi aise hai vaise hai aur main isko..etc. etc." may be the scene wud be different

what i mean to say here was tina's talked about akshara being stubborn with naitik, not with others, so i wanted say that..in married relationship husband is the one who should know you in and out, not others. yes of course it's important to know each family member, but depth of knowing will be different .

i am not sure about that statement ..for a beginner it is difficult to express esp when you are so shy..

You cannot keep on repeating the same sentences everytime, that day, she somehow gathered some courage to make those conversations with him and it didn't click.. as usual he behaves like a fool infront of her..so why blame the poor thing..

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>i know people who never even had a single conversation between them before marriage.. it is still existing in india.. esp when the boys are shy to take initiative..<br><br>those interactions which we have seen in YRKKH is very limited, i can say still after 3-4 days of marriage he is a stranger to her..as well as she is a stranger to him<br><br>

they might be strangers to each other but they confessed their love for each other..i love you are just 3 words..either you don't love a person or ur confused but when she's accepted tht she loves him then why this hitch of saying i love you? Akshara didn't feel shy while writing that letter right? and she's not introverted either..she got along well with Naitik's family from day 1..she's comfortable with them, talks to them, smiles with them, listen to them ...just like her own family but Naitik is an exception...