Aksh innocent but irritatingly childish.. - Page 4

Originally posted by: fsurve117

yes if we remember the Wedding than Naitik deserves this. But actually somebody on the Forum has mentioned this and even I agree to their view that Akshara has already forgiven Naitik for that Misunderstanding.

its very difficult to describe Akshara, she has hardly confessed her feeling, I think only with Varsha she is very frank and open. So basically she in Introvert and has difficulty in expressing her love.

we already had a long discussion on this why she forgave him so easily...

he was Akshara's culprit more than anybody else's and he's repenting his actions..when you start thinking from your heart, this is what you do...it's upto them..they wanna live in the past or thinking abt their present and future..one can never change the past so why crib about it? if Akshara is doing all this to teach him a lesson then it's her stupid thinking..

Originally posted by: _charu_

we already had a long discussion on this why she forgave him so easily...

he was Akshara's culprit more than anybody else's and he's repenting his actions..when you start thinking from your heart, this is what you do...it's upto them..they wanna live in the past or thinking abt their present and future..one can never change the past so why crib about it? if Akshara is doing all this to teach him a lesson then it's her stupid thinking..

Originally posted by: pinky35

all this because of daadi.khamoshi ki language is daadi's funda.

i wonder how daddaji would have learned this khamoshi ki language if he would have been alive he could have taught naitik but now what will naitik do kiske pass jae for tutions.

Akshara gets influenced by people very easily...when her friends told her that in arranged marriage, boys act like they've done a favor to the girl by agreeing to marry her, she believed them ! when dadi asked her to understand his silence , she believed her and started acting on it....but where did her khamoshi led her, she's already seen an example of that..now again she's onto khamoshi and it's zuban, it's really irritating to hear ....

and Sonu , i can't believe that after years of marriage a couple develops that much understanding b/w each other ke they understand each others silence....how is it possible and why is it required? just say it clearly na whatz in ur mind? when in today's times it's difficult to understand each other's viewpoints then howz it possible to read silence perfectly? if a couple is SO perfect then they can read each other's mind from day 1 itself ! it's either there or it's not there..how can it come with time? u said it right...she's looking for perfection in Naitik and her marriage and tht's what the process of understanding relationship is all about..that nobody can be perfect..that's how acceptance come..

Originally posted by: pinky35

that is ok but di they are god who r worshipped n we r human beings galti kar kar ke sikhte hai humans cant be compared with them.i dont think say is wrong i keep fast on every monday as it is lord shiva's day but this is what i asked my mom yesterday aftter the episode so she said tum aak kal ke baache only want to party watch movies.

Bhabhima that is why said that it is difficult to accept the person as it is and it takes years to understand and accept a person completely but we can always try. I think she did not mean to compare / behave exactly like god but to try to be "ek doosre ke poorak".

If you are keeping fast on Monday with faith then you are an example of today's generation person who likes to party and watch movies but carries tradition and faith along. Give yourself a pet on your back. ⭐️

I dont see anythin wrong with akhara's character..i think shes pretty sensible...and anyway, she is young.. only 19 or 20 yrs old??....

Originally posted by: pinky35

that is ok but di they are god who r worshipped n we r human beings galti kar kar ke sikhte hai humans cant be compared with them.i dont thinksay is wrong i keep fast on every monday as it is lord shiva's day but this is what i asked my mom yesterday aftter the episode so she said tum aak kal ke baache only want to party watch movies.

oh Pinky therez no need to think abt it so much..bhabhi ma was explaining her the importance of vrat and with ardhnareeshwar roop and Shivji's story ..but she explained the husband wife relationship very well..u will know when ur married :)

Originally posted by: _charu_

oh Pinky therez no need to think abt it so much..bhabhi ma was explaining her the importance of vrat and with ardhnareeshwar roop and Shivji's story ..but she explained the husband wife relationship very well..u will know when ur married :)

Originally posted by: amisha1

I dont see anythin wrong with akhara's character..i think shes pretty sensible...and anyway, she is young.. only 19 or 20 yrs old??....

i wudnt say shes childish or too innocent either...compare her with Siddeshwari in AJMBHK...and omg u wud know then wat "irritatingly childish" means...innocence tt gets on your nerves...!!

akshara on d other hand is sensible, and she is maturing slowly....with new resposnbilities since her wedding, im sure her character wud mature to be as sensible as varsha is too...

no offence to naitik lovers..but each has their own opinion, and i feel that d immature one here is actually naitik... he completely acts like a mama's boy...and is v childish...he is in love with akshra..but his love for her is too possesive... he doesnt know how to express his feelings,...even akshara doesnt...but tts okay,since shes a gal..

i liked d way akshara handled d suhaagraat situation, when RR had come into their room... being a husband, naitik shudnt hv allowed RR to enter in their room like that... tt really showed how much more mature she is , compared to naitik...

Naitik was always immature...I always believed that Akshara is more mature than Naitik...but her expecting everything to be perfect from day 1 is wrong , expecting so much from Naitik that he will read her silence is not right.....specially after knowing Naitik so well...just bec. she got married, and husband wife complete each other and they can read each other's silence etc. etc. doesn't mean she's come to that level of understanding with her husband..she needs to develop that with Naitik ..the process can never be one sided..efforts are missing from Akshara's side so she must work on it now...

Amisha, ur very rite 😆 Siddeshwari is irritatingly childish..no wonder her husband is 🤔

Originally posted by: tvrocks

Bhabhima that is why said that it is difficult to accept the person as it is and it takes years to understand and accept a person completely but we can always try. I think she did not mean to compare / behave exactly like god but to try to be "ek doosre ke poorak".

If you are keeping fast on Monday with faith then you are an example of today's generation person who likes to party and watch movies but carries tradition and faith along. Give yourself a pet on your back. ⭐️

Originally posted by: _charu_

Akshara gets influenced by people very easily...when her friends told her that in arranged marriage, boys act like they've done a favor to the girl by agreeing to marry her, she believed them ! when dadi asked her to understand his silence , she believed her and started acting on it....but where did her khamoshi led her, she's already seen an example of that..now again she's onto khamoshi and it's zuban, it's really irritating to hear ....

and Sonu , i can't believe that after years of marriage a couple develops that much understanding b/w each other ke they understand each others silence....how is it possible and why is it required? just say it clearly na whatz in ur mind? when in today's times it's difficult to understand each other's viewpoints then howz it possible to read silence perfectly? if a couple is SO perfect then they can read each other's mind from day 1 itself ! it's either there or it's not there..how can it come with time? u said it right...she's looking for perfection in Naitik and her marriage and tht's what the process of understanding relationship is all about..that nobody can be perfect..that's how acceptance come..

Sorry for jumping in...

"i can't believe that after years of marriage a couple develops that much understanding b/w each other ke they understand each others silence....how is it possible and why is it required?"

I beg to differ. I think after knowing your partner for years you slowly start understanding what is going on in his/her mind most of the times. I think not always but most of the times one can understand the others silence. May be not everyone but many do. It is however not required at all. It is also possible that from a couple, one does and one does not.

It is difficult to read one's mind from day one as it takes time to know the person completely just the way a newly wedded bahu (specially in arranged marriage) takes time to adjust into her new family.