Naitik gave up on i love you :D - Page 28

Originally posted by: simran85

Yeah, from Naitik's pov i can understand that he is expecting a signal from her. But at the same time it is also very clear that akshara didn't understand his pov. Well we all know that she is not that extra-intelligent kind of a person! Clearly their is a communication gap between them that's why I think they need some more time together to understand each other. I don't want either of them to do anything forceibly.

I'm not against Naitik. I love both Naitik and Akshara equally. I love his many qualities (in fact his character has lot of simmilarities with my hubby 😃), but what I don't like is criticising always Akshara only regarding this whole ILU thing. I think in the arranged marriage and that too within 2-3 days of marriage when the hubby has not even said ILU then her shyness to say ILU is justifiable. I think it would have been easier for her if Naitik himself said ILU before.

Simran, we were not criticizing Akshara, we too love her equally.... u know being crazy fans we get desperate to see these things..i never said she should say it anytime soon....but it's not that it's sodifficult to say i love you..fine it's been just 2 days since they got married but they know each other before and they went through the process of falling in love...it's not like they are strangers who are yet to know each other , that's why this hesitation is there...if you love somebody then you obviously WANT to say i love you that person, and specially when you have confessed ur love..Naitik confessed his love for Akshara and Akshara too, with that letter.......tht's the only hitch...baaki we're not expecting her to wear her NG and woo Naitik 😛 i think she's not saying it just to tease him..or whatever reason

Originally posted by: _charu_

Simran, we were not criticizing Akshara, we too love her equally.... u know being crazy fans we get desperate to see these things..i never said she should say it anytime soon....but it's not that it's sodifficult to say i love you..fine it's been just 2 days since they got married but they know each other before and they went through the process of falling in love...it's not like they are strangers who are yet to know each other , that's why this hesitation is there...if you love somebody then you obviously WANT to say i love you that person....tht's the only hitch...baaki we're not expecting her to wear her NG and woo Naitik 😛

Originally posted by: simran85

Yeah, from Naitik's pov i can understand that he is expecting a signal from her. But at the same time it is also very clear that akshara didn't understand his pov. Well we all know that she is not that extra-intelligent kind of a person! Clearly their is a communication gap between them that's why I think they need some more time together to understand each other. I don't want either of them to do anything forceibly.

I'm not against Naitik. I love both Naitik and Akshara equally. I love his many qualities (in fact his character has lot of simmilarities with my hubby 😃), but what I don't like is criticising always Akshara only regarding this whole ILU thing. I think in the arranged marriage and that too within 2-3 days of marriage when the hubby has not even said ILU then her shyness to say ILU is justifiable. I think it would have been easier for her if Naitik himself said ILU before.

you got a good point here..it is not only ILU issue there are other issues also they don't like of this character.. they say i always criticise naitik, reason being is that i am trying to defend akshara and in turn it is always says things against naitik... infact they needed to see both the person point of view to discuss issues, where they always call Akshara stupid, dumb etc etc which is not correct, as missing to see her point of view, and i came out with a defence and people think that i hate character naitik, it is not so..

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sonu, i was looking for this message to reply 😊 had to go through a lot of pages to find it...

you have a point...she still hasn't learnt the importance of communicating in a relationship...neither through words, nor through her actions...

i don't know the marriage can turn sour if the wife doesn't express her love for her husband....it depends on individual..In Naitik's case, I feel that Akshara must not say it easily , that's bec. Naitik is so used to getting whatever he wants and hence he hardly values it......but this time he must learn that love can never be forced...if you love someone then there should be no condition or demand..if his love is true then she will acknowledge it .....his love will force her to say i love you sooner or later....

Yes Charu communication is important and i was saying this for both of them...it applies equally to naitik too...and i agree that usually it is the boy who takes the first step and here he is expecting her to say it first....that's because he is a like that if he wants it then he has to have it kinda character......And thats why i think she should say it because one cannot change in few days(Naitik) and they both have to live with each other so someone has to take a step forward and i think she is more mature in such things and thus i as a viewer can expect this from her...and plus i think if you know that the other person loves you then it doesn't matter who says it first...agar uske pehle bolne se he is happy then why not...it is common to see in marriages to giving up is also love...haar main bhi jeet hai.........

And one more thing i think Naitik hasn't realised that he hasn't himself said ILU once Akshara will say ki aap kahiye then i'am sure he'll say it...

Also i think this shyness from each other is going on for very long which i mentioned in some other post too as a conv. with Lata that they need to move ahead and ILU is one such normal and first step in the romantic journey of a couple.......

Wanted to write more to make myself clear as i'am not too good in expressing myself in words but i'am busy for the next few days.....

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>you got a good point here..it is not only ILU issue there are other issues also they don't like of this character.. they say i always criticise naitik, reason being is that i am trying to defend akshara and in turn it is always says things against naitik... infact they needed to see both the person point of view to discuss issues, where they always call Akshara stupid, dumb etc etc which is not correct, as missing to see her point of view, and i came out with a defence and people think that i hate character naitik, it is not so..<br>

i understand ur point of view ..as far as "bashing" goes, when i'll feel that somebody is really bashing Akshara, then i'll be the first one to defend her....

Originally posted by: sks7

<br><br>Sonu, i was looking for this message to reply 😊 had to go through a lot of pages to find it...<br><br>you have a point...she still hasn't learnt the importance of communicating in a relationship...neither through words, nor through her actions...<br><br>i don't know the marriage can turn sour if the wife doesn't express her love for her husband....it depends on individual..In Naitik's case, I feel that Akshara must not say it easily , that's bec. Naitik is so used to getting whatever he wants and hence he hardly values it......but this time he must learn that love can never be forced...if you love someone then there should be no condition or demand..if his love is true then she will acknowledge it .....his love will force her to say i love you sooner or later....

<br><br>Yes Charu communication is important and i was saying this for both of them...it applies equally to naitik too...and i agree that usually it is the boy who takes the first step and here he is expecting her to say it first....that's because he is a like that if he wants it then he has to have it kinda character......And thats why i think she should say it because one cannot change in few days(Naitik) and they both have to live with each other so someone has to take a step forward and i think she is more mature in such things and thus i as a viewer can expect this from her...and plus i think if you know that the other person loves you then it doesn't matter who says it first...agar uske pehle bolne se he is happy then why not...it is common to see in marriages to giving up is also love...haar main bhi jeet hai.........<br><br>And one more thing i think Naitik hasn't realised that he hasn't himself said ILU once Akshara will say ki aap kahiye then i'am sure he'll say it...<br><br>Also i think this shyness from each other is going on for very long which i mentioned in some other post too as a conv. with Lata that they need to move ahead and ILU is one such normal and first step in the romantic journey of a couple.......<br><br>Wanted to write more to make myself clear as i'am not too good in expressing myself in words but i'am busy for the next few days.....<br>

Sonu, i understand what you're saying but i don't think the creatives have anything like this in their mind..Naitik is not on an ego trip...nor Akshara..if they're not saying i love you's, it's okay....now whether it is to spice up their love story or they want some light moments b/w them or whatever..they're teasing each other..what is surprising is that Akshara doesn't say a word whenever Naitik asks her..if she had said "aap pehle kahiye" ya anything.."i'll not say it", it was understandable...but abhi toh kuch samajh nahi aa raha :S

Good he finally gave up! Itna torture nahin karna chahiye usse Munni ko..🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

<br><br>Yes Charu communication is important and i was saying this for both of them...it applies equally to naitik too...and i agree that usually it is the boy who takes the first step and here he is expecting her to say it first....that's because he is a like that if he wants it then he has to have it kinda character......And thats why i think she should say it because one cannot change in few days(Naitik) and they both have to live with each other so someone has to take a step forward and i think she is more mature in such things and thus i as a viewer can expect this from her...and plus i think if you know that the other person loves you then it doesn't matter who says it first...agar uske pehle bolne se he is happy then why not...it is common to see in marriages to giving up is also love...haar main bhi jeet hai.........<br><br>And one more thing i think Naitik hasn't realised that he hasn't himself said ILU once Akshara will say ki aap kahiye then i'am sure he'll say it...<br><br>Also i think this shyness from each other is going on for very long which i mentioned in some other post too as a conv. with Lata that they need to move ahead and ILU is one such normal and first step in the romantic journey of a couple.......<br><br>Wanted to write more to make myself clear as i'am not too good in expressing myself in words but i'am busy for the next few days.....<br>

Sonu, i understand what you're saying but i don't think the creatives have anything like this in their mind..Naitik is not on an ego trip...nor Akshara..if they're not saying i love you's, it's okay....now whether it is to spice up their love story or they want some light moments b/w them or whatever..they're teasing each other..what is surprising is that Akshara doesn't say a word whenever Naitik asks her..if she had said "aap pehle kahiye" ya anything.."i'll not say it", it was understandable...but abhi toh kuch samajh nahi aa raha :S

As long as I'am glued to the TV for YRKKH and posting on this forum it is okay with me...let them scratch their heads to surprise us and keep the viewers happy :-D)))))
I don't want to give this ILU any more importance now ......Its a long sunny weekend so time for the family.....see ya all later....😊

Originally posted by: sks7

<br><br>Sonu, i understand what you're saying but i don't think the creatives have anything like this in their mind..Naitik is not on an ego trip...nor Akshara..if they're not saying i love you's, it's okay....now whether it is to spice up their love story or they want some light moments b/w them or whatever..they're teasing each other..what is surprising is that Akshara doesn't say a word whenever Naitik asks her..if she had said "aap pehle kahiye" ya anything.."i'll not say it", it was understandable...but abhi toh kuch samajh nahi aa raha :S

<br><br>As long as I'am glued to the TV for YRKKH and posting on this forum it is okay with me...let them scratch their heads to surprise us and keep the viewers happy :-D)))))<br>I don't want to give this ILU any more importance now ......Its a long sunny weekend so time for the family.....see ya all later....😊<br>

right..enuf of this analysis..she might say it this week...lets not discuss it further otherwise the discussion will start going in some other unknown direction