DISASTER.....follow your Instinct - Page 20

Originally posted by: desertrose21

I said this in another thread...Akshara supporting Naitik or Akshara supporting her inlaws...either way there is tension involved...just a matter of what kind of tension we want to see.<br><br>

she must support him emotionally and let him talk to his family..akshara must not involve herself in this issue..

Originally posted by: _charu_

it will not create a rift in the family.....at any stage, the wife has very less to do with husband's decision regarding business or job ! see there was tension b/w them even when Akshara was not a part of their family....and Naitik wud have gone ahead with what he was doing with/without Akshara's support, which he will again do....the problem with elders is that they don't want their children to do mistakes..they're so overprotective about them....it's not a big deal...If Naitik's decision is wrong, let him face the consequences, let him grow up, let him handle the problems in his way...Daddaji wants Naitik to become his carbon copy..howz that possible ? how can the thinking of the two generations be the same? afterall Naitik is Daddaji's blood....once he has taken a decision, he'll not budge from that....don't know how he'll react to this news of rejection....i hope he gets what he wants....Daddaji must also learn that "change" is inevitable !

Realistically you are dead right charu.. one example for this is Lalit Modi..(modi group of cos) came out of his family business and started something of his own IPL is one it.. as he always wanted to do something of his own..

i like your point that ""at any stage, the wife has very less to do with husband's decision regarding business or job !"" i do not know that.. but when i look around you are right.. guys won't listen to their wife related to this issue..

Originally posted by: _charu_

she must support him emotionally and let him talk to his family..akshara must not involve herself in this issue..

what do you meant by emotional support.?? crying along with him?😆

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>Realistically you are dead right charu.. one example for this is Lalit Modi..(modi group of cos) came out of his family business and started something of his own IPL is one it.. as he always wanted to do something of his own..<br><br>i like your point that ""<font color="#ff0000">at any stage, the wife has very less to do with husband's decision regarding business or job !</font>"" i do not know that.. but when i look around you are right.. guys won't listen to their wife related to this issue..<br><br>

lolzzz Lata, tdy i'm very happy tht u agree with me ..must be my lucky day 😆

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>what do you meant by emotional support.?? crying along with him?😆<br>

emotionally matlab "secret support" , means she must support him but be diplomatic in front of her in laws

Originally posted by: _charu_

emotionally matlab "secret support" , means she must support him but be diplomatic in front of her in laws

🤣🤣🤣 OMG i learnt something from you..🤣🤣

Originally posted by: lats55

🤣🤣🤣 OMG i learnt something from you..🤣🤣

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>🤣🤣🤣 OMG i learnt something from you..🤣🤣

tht's how personal life and joint family is balanced...for a wife, her husband's support is enuf, even if he can't show it to others and same goes for the wife...that't bec. the opinion of our loves ones matter to us .....like naitik might be supporting akshara in her studies in future but he can't go against his family's traditions and rules made by Daddaji , same with the pallu thing and lots of other issues...

for a daughter in law, to get involved in these serious issues of the family takes a lot of time..and it depends on her position in the family , which she makes for herself, whether she can have a say in that matter or not...it's naitik's decision and he'll expect Akshara's support...it's natural.....it's a complicated situation for her..lets see how well she handles it

Charu Akshara kaise Handle karengi? any predictions

Originally posted by: lats55

it is a good point, in fact forum Bidaai do not allow to open so many topics of the same nature.. they keep only one thread for discussions.. this forum only i can see so many threads of same .. they should restrict to one thread only who opened first should remain, rest should closed down..

Yes i agree too..it is hard to keep tracks...i hope today we should do Date wise....