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Posted: 16 years ago
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I see what you guys are saying, and yes we should have expected this from naitik since he didn't read the letter.

but if he can smile and be fake happy for his family's sake, can't he do the same for akshara and her family's sake?

what use is it thinking about RR over and over and over again? even when you standing on your own mandap? how much longer would he have waited if daddaji hadn't come and told him to put the garland?

you know what, I am really glad RR did what he did..you know, come in the way. it just goes to show you how far deep naitik has been hurt. hell will freeze over, but he won't get over the fact that akshara had said yes to RR.


i think they should've shown atleast some level of maturity in naitik after all that he went through (breaking glass, questioning his marriage, etc) some kind of growth, a little bit of healing, maybe?

...but i guess that is only to come after marriage.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: desertrose21

I see what you guys are saying, and yes we should have expected this from naitik since he didn't read the letter.

but if he can smile and be fake happy for his family's sake, can't he do the same for akshara's sake?



u know thats a good point.......his anger towards aks is not justified at all..........
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I was so mad😡........I so had hope that he read the letter and as soon as he saw RR, he frown🤢......come on.......well in a way i think naitik will have his own marriage after all the MU is over, so hoping for that😍
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Posted: 16 years ago
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EGOISTIC Naitik.... He doesnt deserve Akshara and he is still not ready for marriage..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: desertrose21

I see what you guys are saying, and yes we should have expected this from naitik since he didn't read the letter.

but if he can smile and be fake happy for his family's sake, can't he do the same for akshara and her family's sake?

what use is it thinking about RR over and over and over again? even when you standing on your own mandap? how much longer would he have waited if daddaji hadn't come and told him to put the garland?

you know what, I am really glad RR did what he did..you know, come in the way. it just goes to show you how far deep naitik has been hurt. hell will freeze over, but he won't get over the fact that akshara had said yes to RR.


i think they should've shown atleast some level of maturity in naitik after all that he went through (breaking glass, questioning his marriage, etc) some kind of growth, a little bit of healing, maybe?

...but i guess that is only to come after marriage.

In a way it's good that he's not pretending in front of Akshara bec. I want Akshara to know that he's upset..only when she'll know that there IS some problem , she'll think of the possible solutions.....
He did smile when he looked at her and when he was abt to put the jaimala..tht's enuf for me .....n i'm sure with time, he'll be ok......i can understand ur frustration but frm 4 weeks i've been going through the same emotions, same thoughts again n again n i'm kind of used to it now....I know where YRKKH is headed to but still...therez just one hope tht their relation will grow after marriage
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: serendipityusa

...no words to explain how i feel........i am truly hurt.........i am hurting coz aks is hurting and i am hurting coz naitik is hurting.........someone pls call the 'love doctor'.....

I knw Akshara must be hurt......but she too needs to grow up now...Naitik will treat her the way she will let him treat her...i'm not blaming nybody..It's not akshara's fault and it's not Naitk's fault ..circumstances are such that they have to go through this heartache...may be for their good..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

In a way it's good that he's not pretending in front of Akshara bec. I want Akshara to know that he's upset..only when she'll know that there IS some problem , she'll think of the possible solutions.....
He did smile when he looked at her and when he was abt to put the jaimala..tht's enuf for me .....n i'm sure with time, he'll be ok......i can understand ur frustration but frm 4 weeks i've been going through the same emotions, same thoughts again n again n i'm kind of used to it now....I know where YRKKH is headed to but still...therez just one hope tht their relation will grow after marriage

How is it good that he is acting disinterested and morose during his wedding in front of everyone and let'ting his his own insecurities and doubts overshadow the joy and anticipation of his future partner? It's one thing to show that you are upset with your loved one (I am using this term loosely since I am getting more and more convinced that Naitik loves himself and his ego more than anything else) in private but to put your bethrothed in the most awkward situation imaginable during your own wedding is anything but the act of a person who cares and cherishes about his partner's feelings and honor. Your own wedding ceremony is NOT the place to show your disenchantment.. do it before or don't go through this charade.
As I have said in another post.. If one is consumed by his own thoughts and emotions all the time, to the exclusion of all others and all occassions, then maybe he is not ready to take up the responsibility of being a husband.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes guyz Naitik should sop this now......
Awwww poor Akshi.....
He is hurting her feelings......
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Akshara has been looking forward to this day all her life, and she wants it to be perfectly special, and shared with Naitik
Didn't like his behaviour :(
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Yes i felt the same too....

Poor Akshara i felt soo bad for her....

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