very tricky question Naitik asked.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: piyualka

First of all I didn't like the question, something too personal especially in the beginning of the relationship as well reflects immaturity of Naitik.

Secondly, Rituraj was someone whom Akshara liked just because he was someone whom she took as her future husband. After meeting she was 'just happy' as he was the first boy of her life with whom she managed to spend some times and nothing else.

Originally posted by: CeruleanSky

Akshara isnt very....um , wise to the world I guess. I think she will tell Naitik the truth/N might change the topic seeing that she's uncomfortable.

Though I agree that the basis of any relationship is truth , better in this instance not to tell N the complete truth I think....Akshara neednt tell him the fact that she had a crush on Rituraj [ which I dont think anyways she will ] but she can tell him the fact that two guys had been to see her before N .... I dont think that should bother N but if he finds out A had a crush on Rituraj , he probably will get a little huffed up....bahut possessive hai *grins*

Anyways , lets see what happens : )

Originally posted by: -Maya-

ya Rithuraj was just Akshara's crush..if u tell ur fiance abt all ur crushes then then the marriage'll most probably mess up..so its better to hide such stuff..most girls n boys these days have boyfrnds n girlfrnds n they don't tell abt it to their spouses so why talk abt crushes n rishtas which didn't work

Originally posted by: Sweet-farah

yeah we all know that rituraj was just Akshara's crush and not more than that ..
but i don't understand that why by telling the truth about our crushes .. to our fiance .. the marriage is going to be messed ? by hiding this .. are we doing the right thing ? should we ? i mean some where we are going tofeel guilty like we arevnot truthful with him/her .. n maano abhi yeh kuchh keh diya .. agli dafa koi aur baat bhi ho oosey bhi hum chupaadey .. just only b'coz v dont want to break the realationship or to be get messed .. bfore moving further .... ???

and the stuffs you are saying about girls and boys .... which they are hiding .. though they dont share this b4 marriage .. but after marriage by any reason if this thing comes between and any of them commes to know about it .. then its too bitter and bad .. to be longer involved in that relationship ...


well what i want is ki even if akshara tells the truth .. naitik shouuld understand .. that it can come to any one though it will be a bit shocked for him to know ki that guy rejected Akshara the one whom he just liked her in the very first sight .... will be a bit ajeeb ... but still i think he will understand .. but as we all know that akshara nahi keh paayegi .. coz voh janti hai uskey kuchh keh dene se baat bani hui bigad jati hai ... as per as jaisa voh sochti hai ...
par lets c .. monday tak ka yeh intezar kya hotz hai ... :)



farah 😛

Originally posted by: piyualka

I agree with Charu plus right now they are not even engaged. Such personal things if needs to be discussed then after developing a deep understanding of each other as then there are chances of beingaccepted by other side wisely.

Here, I must say Naitik didn't bother to find about the name of Akshara's college in first meting instead discussed those ladies whom he is not even related ( even far off). and now..................., can I say he needs to widen his horizon of thoughts or he wants to satisfy his ego through Akshi's statement "You are the first one".

While concluding, i would say may be creatives of the show are trying to show that immature people become mature when certain responsibilities are shouldered on them.

Originally posted by: _charu_

but Farah, whatz the point in discussing it when it was not serious? Akshara didn't have an affair with him , she just had a crush on him ..it was totally one sided....If she doesn't tell Naitik about it , perhaps he won't come to know frm elsewhere ...but if she tells him the truth he might think that Akshara liked some other guy in the past n start imagining stupid things like he normally does so i think she should not blurt out ny truth..bec. it's very easy to misunderstand these things...2 and 2 will be made 22 n u know what might happen 😊

Originally posted by: piyualka

"yeah we all know that rituraj was just Akshara's crush and not more than that .. but i don't understand that why by telling the truth about our crushes .. to our fiance .. the marriage is going to be messed ? by hiding this .. are we doing the right thing ? should we ? i mean some where we are going to feel ............"

It's not telling about but the timing, you said fiance ... but Naitik is still not plus he doesn't know Akshi properly.

Secondly, if its nothing then why waste time over it, life has much better things tto discuss.

Initially I was looking forward to their meeting but this question has just erased my excitement......