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DMGFan-2b-not2b

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Posted: 15 years ago

After watching the episode today, I must admit, the Vajpayees are a nauseating family, barring Abeer of course! The old dadi, is of course an undisputed hag and a witch, but even Sudha and TN appal me with their silence. Sudha, I can still understand – married into an orthodox family where clearly "the man" rules the roost as does the ma-in-law – is hesitant to speak her mind, but TN?

Instead of keeping his mom in check, and, recognising the fact that she is responsible for all the natak that happened today, TN is busy lecturing the Shuklas on their upbringing. I am waiting for the day Abeer faces upto him for his love. I am sure he'll have a lot more spine than Madhav!

I wish Madhav would finally scream at his parents and at dadi esp the latter.

Shuklain keeps ranting at him about her upbringing, shouldn't he ask her about her maternal instincts? They paled in front of "biradri" considerations? That "dadi" became more important than her own son? Didn't the fear that she might lose her son ever bother her? Maybe this time, the nincompoop will open his mouth finally!

But what an episode! And Rashmi was fantastic! She finally provided a soothing balm to my anger with Madhav and his moronic parents and my frustration with her for putting up with this! Good riddance to bad rubbish, girl! Well done!

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sam.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Did u miss the episode were TN-Abeer have a father -son talk were he advices abeer not to intefier in what dadi and shuklain are doing saying "Men should not get involved in such family matters"🤢And that he should follow a policy of i see no evil,i hear no evil.That pretty much explains TN's silence in this matter.

I have no hopes from madhav even tomorrow he will probably continue being the crybaby that he is.

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Ekta

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Posted: 15 years ago

Fab post!

Although ... I wouldn't call the Vajpayee's "strange". Me thinks .. Sudha is the kinda person who will speak when she is pushed to the edge. Like she herself has said in her interview .. "Sudha has the capacity to raise her voice against injustice, if need be." So am guessing .. when it comes to her son .. and what will happen to him .. she will speak up!

About TN .. he is the sorta person who speaks less .. but when he speaks .. bhagwan bachaye! 😆 Ofcourse, I'm hoping he says something to his mother. If he does .. he might tell her off in their home .. and not humiliate his mother in front of everyone.

Edited by Ektaj - 15 years ago

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Hina

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Ektaj
Fab post!

About TN .. he is the sorta person who speaks less .. but when he speaks .. bhagwan bachaye! 😆 Ofcourse, I'm hoping he says something to his mother. If he does .. he might tell her off in their home .. and not humiliate his mother in front of everyone.

nice post hun
but Eks he idnt say enythin gto him mum at all,not today atleast and I dont see it happening tomorrow either ... TN minds his own business but yes he'll speak and speak loud when it comes to Abeer ...

Sudha as well,she'll have a voice when it comes to her son,she'll speak in suport or against,we'll have to wait and watch ....

Hina

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Ekta

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: hinanaziri

nice post hun
but Eks he idnt say enythin gto him mum at all,not today atleast and I dont see it happening tomorrow either ... TN minds his own business but yes he'll speak and speak loud when it comes to Abeer ...

Sudha as well,she'll have a voice when it comes to her son,she'll speak in suport or against,we'll have to wait and watch ....

Hina

Hina .. Agreed, he may not have said anything today .. but its not like he has been totally quiet either! The other day .. he did blast the Shukla's for all that is happening and asked them to pull up their socks and get the marriage over with! He indirectly also told his mom off .. and he was so angry, his mom couldn't retort back at him! If it could happen back then .. maybe it happens again .. who knows! We can atleast hope for it .. coz I feel at some level, Boodhha needs to think that she went overboard with it. No one from the biradri is gonna say anything .. Sudha won't say it .. Abeer is forced to shut up .. so who's left - TN, I guess!

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Dimdim

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hats off to Rashmi today.
Wish there were more GIRLS.....like Rashmi.

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

Can someone tell me what right does Boodhha Bin Laden has to speak in Madhav's wedding???? She is not Madhav's dadi is she....😕

She is Abeer's dadi....and Madhav-Abeer are just friends...How can she have so much power in other family's matters...I understand mrs. Skhukla is involving her but still..

May be I am not sure about this relationship...pls correct MOI if I am wrong here...😳

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Ekta

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Can someone tell me what right does Boodhha Bin Laden has to speak in Madhav's wedding???? She is not Madhav's dadi is she....😕

She is Abeer's dadi....and Madhav-Abeer are just friends...How can she have so much power in other family's matters...I understand mrs. Skhukla is involving her but still..

May be I am not sure about this relationship...pls correct MOI if I am wrong here...😳

I'm guessing since Boodhha Bin Laden is the older most in their community .. in their mohalla atleast .. she is looked upto for advice and what to do what not to do .. by all in the biradari 😕 It happens .. when you don't really have such an elderly person in your own family .. you seek advice from family friends. And in this case .. Boodhha is hosting the wedding .. so guess she feels she has the right to taang adaofy in Shuklas' matters 😕

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Lathika

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Posted: 15 years ago

why should TN and Sudha speaks up, it is none of their business to involve in someone else family matters.. they just allowed shuklaan's to conduct their son's marriage in their house.. then involvement of Dadi is been entertained by shuklaan themselves .. mrs shukla could have avoided dadi's involvements .. she encouraged it.. for that why should TN/ sudha speak up?

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: lathika4u
why should TN and Sudha speaks up, it is none of their business to involve in someone else family matters.. they just allowed shuklaan's to conduct their son's marriage in their house.. then involvement of Dadi is been entertained by shuklaan themselves .. mrs shukla could have avoided dadi's involvements .. she encouraged it.. for that why should TN/ sudha speak up?

Totally agree...Did anyone notice the disgusted look TN had on his face while this hungama-ruckus was going on by Dadi & Shuklain 🤔