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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know that there is no fault of Majumdar's in this rasm thing and the people at fault are Madhav and Abeer and to some extent Leher as she being a sensible girl should have advised against this drama or consulted Majumdars beforehand. Also Majumdar's could not force their apprehension and thoughts against doing the rasm before Madhav's forced emotional wish.

Having said that I would like to say that Shukla's are fully justified in misunderstanding the whole thing . Madhav was a mitti ka madho and a statue the whole time and the whole scenario which appeared like was.

1.Majumdar's are doing some secret rasm without telling Madhav's parents about it.

2.Majumdar's are trying to snatch away Madhav from his family and customs/ values by forcing him to eat non - veg.

3.Majumdar's do not value or pay respect to Mdhav's family and are only concerned with Madhav.

Means already Shuklas were angry with Majumdars that they did not talk with them even one time regarding marriage before coming to Lucknow and communicated only through Madhav and now this whole rasm thing confirmed their doubts according to them.

This was just a peek from Shukla's point of view solely for this rasm thing. Though their attitude since beginning is incorrect. It would have been better if they had refused for this marriage rather than all the insults and drama that they did !

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Totally am with you ^^^^..

This is why marriages should not only be discussed between bride and groom...Parents need to be involved..By saying that is use proper protocol...\
Generation to generation conversation....
Madhav and Rashmi along with A-L has really put Rashmi's parents in this Insulting-humilliating position-situation...They are good people and if they were presented-introduced in proper manner it would not have been this bad...Shuklas still might have some issues no guarantee on that but Majumdars could have been avoided from some hardcore insults..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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completely agree with the both of you!


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree ..
Just feel really bad for the Majumdar's .. for all that they have been subjected to for the sake of their daughter's happiness. But guess .. most parents would do that. And so .. it most definitely feels right at how Rashmi is taking it now.
We may think that the Majumdar's should not have bowed down so early so quickly .. but fact is, we still live in a socitey that goes by the "ladki waalon ko sar jhuka ke rehna chahiye" notion when it comes to marriage. And here .. the Majumdar's were from a different caste.
In any case .. Shukla's also were sorta forced to accept the marriage (their love for their son). Shuklaain got her voice when Boodhha decided to step in and supported her .. brainwashed her that she was doing wrong in accepting the marriage .. and both together decided to ruin it all. But I feel .. had Boodhha not stepped in, the Shukla's would still be very hostile .. though ofcourse, it would not be as bad as what is happening now.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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So lets remove BBL (Barooden bichha do) 😈 out of this equasion so M-R and both families can get along and enjoy the wedding if any hopes left for that relationship to survive....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am just glad that finally Rashmi decided to call off the wedding. But felt bad for Majumdars, they took multiple loans to get through all the rituals and now all that has gone to waste. They were insulted, spent more than they could afford, spent so many days in Lucknow all for their daughter's marriage, which will now not take place. For Rashmi, it might be easy to move on with life once she goes back to Kolkata as she would have barely any love left for Madhav after today's episode, but her good-hearted parents will have to face the brunt of the society. Well out here, only Madhav can be blamed. Yes Abheer is involed, but this is Madhav's marriage, not his. It is due to Madhav that this marriage is being called off. Rashmi would not have minded the insult if at any point Madhav stood up for her and her family. Dont know where the creatives are heading to. But now even if Madhav begs on his knees for marriage, I dont think so Rashmi will agree. She has had enough.

So creative spent more than a month on this marriage and now it wont take place. I guess by showing that the marriage does not take place even if there was love between the couple, they want AbHer to realize that how hard it is going to get in the future if they even think of loving each other. Through this marriage, AbHer came closer, and now due to this marriage, AbHer will have to subdue and ignore their feelings for each other. But the thing is, AbHer have not even consciously realized that they feel something for each other, then how will they realize that they need to give their growing feelings a full-stop. I wonder, after today's episode, will AbHer's relationship be back to square one, or will it move forward from here with more trust and confidence. I feel, the next AbHer interaction after this incident will be the deciding factor.

I am not able to comprehend about Madhav eating fish and Abheer advocating for it in the name of rasam. How is it possible. It would have been better if they carried out this rasam without the fish or did some other rasam which did not involve eating non-veg. I thought the friday precap might be misleading. But it seems like Madhav was ready to eat this fish had dadi not stoppped him. This just does not make any sense to me.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anvi .. totally agree with you on the precap misleading part. From the episode .. didn't look like Madhav even stopped to think that he is actually gonna have to eat fish in the rasm. He was readily having it. I wish the fish had been left out .. and Madhav or anyone could have said to Shuklaain & Dadi that the fish was there .. but Madhav was not gonna have it. But that was not the case .. as Madhav was just about to eat it when Dadi stopped him. Naturally .. Shuklaain & Dadi were bound to get hysterical over it!
Coming to AbHer's relationship .. I'm hoping Leher does not blame Abeer for the fiasco in any way. Yes, Abeer was involved .. but Leher has come about to realise that Abeer is the kinda person who goes all out to see the other person happy. I hope Leher sees that .. and sympathises with him .. knowing that he too will hear it from his Dadi & parents.

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