Foolish Doolha Foolish Dulhan

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I do not understand whether Abeer and Leher are elder or Madhav and Rashmi. Abeer is reduced to be an agony aunt to Madhav ( crybaby) and Leher try too hard to pacify Rashmi who is of extreme impulsive nature.

Why are dulha and dulhan are committing one foolish act after another .Madhav can not control things and Rashmi could not control her toungue. And if Madhav is hell bent on doing the rasm ,then they could do it in Kolkata also . Madhav is looking at a bigger picture according to himself and then why is he hell bent on doing that fish eating rasm here only. Anyone could have told his family about it .Why buy a car you can not push ! Also by doing such acts ,his brain is not able to analyze that he is jeopardizing his marriage. He is hell bent on testing the depth of water with both feet.

There are enough people already to destroy prospects of this marriage and why Madhav and Rashmi hell bent on including themselves in this list .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agreeee ... God, right now I feel like pushing M-R into the river there!! Ufffff .. sab ulta pulta ho gaya!
I don't understand what was the need to surprise Rashmi with doing the rasam 😕 Doing the rasam would make Rashmi happy .. but standing up for her in front of his family would make her happier, na? Speak up .. and that would hold your marriage, idiot .. not just the rasam! 😕
Moreover .. was it not decided that they would have the rasam's done in Kolkata? Then what was the need for all this???
I'm just hoping that Boodhha's outburst after seeing all this .. will backfire! I'm hoping Madhav does not eat the fish .. and the Majumdar's don't feed it to him, knowing he is a Brahmin
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hoping that Madhav does not chicken out this time and behaves in a more accountable manner.As Ekta said hope Dadi's outcry backfires and Madhav for once puts his brave foot forward rather than discussing the post-analysis of the episode later with Abeer on the terrace ....repenting and feeling sorry for rashmi and her family (since this is not helping in improving the situation at all) . And ,hope Abher is not again blamed for everything that is happening ...poor guy Abeer ...has been cheerful throughout the episode.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good topic here.....There is many pehlu to this sawal...
Lets look at few.
To begin with There is absolute NO denying that Madhav is Spine-less....
& with every episode his Oh-I-am-so helpless-look is getting on my nerves.
He is a perfectly bad example of those who are dying to be the Modern Day Romeos...
Only they want their Juliets to drink the Poison Alone!
if he knew his family was & is sooooo orthodox he should Not have taken the first step....
I Know I know......& agree Love is Blind...BUT Lovers are & shouldn't be!
If he can not deal with the situation....My advise stay away from Love & Marriage!

Rashmi on the other hand is spirited girl with a flare of temper.
She has been reduced to a puppet NOT coz she has no guts, but coz she does not wish to her parents to go through more insults then they have ALREADY jhelloed so far.
Her position is not ONLY delicate but rather precarious.
It's NOT her parents who are on insulting spree...but rather on the receiving spree....
hence for her if she opens her mouth, she is rebuked, eg yesterday and If she doesn't, she becomes the mute viewer of this Dumb Charade played tactfully by Shuklayein & Dadi!

It's a tricky situation...no black & white answer, But I think right now the Onus to SPEAK up rest SOLELY on Madhav.
It's his parents & his side of the family & he needs to speak up, & speak up NOW!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh God they are both DUMB
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Posted: 15 years ago
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But this time I think it was Abeer's fault....after all he was the one who suggested this plan, tho how he came to know of this rasm, Im at a total loss. Besides, he should know that even if an inkling of this plan reached the Shuklas or Vajpaees, they will make things horribly miserable for the Majumdars and having seen them insulted all this while, he should have just backed off and let the final marriage proceedings start.
And finally, being a Brahmin himself, how he can encourage another to eat fish is just beyond me
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ektaj

I don't understand what was the need to surprise Rashmi with doing the rasam 😕 Doing the rasam would make Rashmi happy .. but standing up for her in front of his family would make her happier, na? Speak up .. and that would hold your marriage, idiot .. not just the rasam! 😕
I'm just hoping that Boodhha's outburst after seeing all this .. will backfire! I'm hoping Madhav does not eat the fish .. and the Majumdar's don't feed it to him, knowing he is a Brahmin



VERY RIGHTLY SAID EKTAJ ..TOTALLY AGREE 2 THAT! 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice post SeverusSnape! 😊

Wow, this forum is pretty unanimous regarding the present track. So far, we all agree on 2 things, 1) Madhav needs to speak up, 2) This marriage should be done and over with SOON without any further drama and delay. We all are getting tired of seeing monotonous Majumdar torture.

On Monday, everyone is going to do exactly what is expected of them to do. Dadi will create a mountain out of a molehill, manipulate the whole situation in her favor, insult Majumdars to no end. Shuklian will support dadi 100% and will say the most insulting things. Sudha will remain quiet. Majumdars will look down, with tears in their eyes, and Mr. Majumdar will keep on saying sorry Mataji. Rashmi will give angry looks. Lehar will look at Abheer and Abheer will look at Lehar. Rest of them will be silent spectators. But this time, I want only Madhav to do something different than what he has done so far, which is give sad and angry expressions. I want him to SPEAK UP. Abheer, Rashmi, Majumdars should not say a word. This time, Madhav can either break or make his marriage, but remaining silent is not an option. I dont care if it is Abheer's plan, but he agreed to it and he has to take full responsibility. He can either show dadi and his mom their respective place and shut them up or take the full blame. If he stays quiet this time also, then I have no doubt that Rashmi herself will break the marriage. If he cannot stand up for her (specially in this situation as she or her family are not at fault at all) before marriage jab pyaar jawan hain, then post-marraige is highly unlikely. And if he speaks up this time, which will be the right thing to do, then he will make Rashmi and her parents more happy than any rasam, like Ekta said.

I am mad at Abheer for getting involved even further. Up until Antakshari, I did not mind his interference. But now it is becoming too much. He should know by now that even a smallest mistake or action can cause great trouble to Majumdars as he has been a live witness to all the drama that took place during the 3 rituals and post-Antakshari. I know his intentions were good this time also, but he forgot that today was the MARRIAGE DAY and the best thing would have been to just let the marriage get over and go with the flow. The situation is really delicate to begin with. Even an inkling of their plan would cause disaster and this is exactly what is going to happen. Ofcourse Budda seeing everything with her own eyes is the worst possible scenario, which no one thought of. All the rituals could have taken place in Kolkata also. I wished Lehar instead of agreeing with Abheer, tried to explain to him properly the possible outcome if things went wrong. I am sure Abheer would have understood and not enacted on his plan. Instead of the phone conversation, they could have had a face to face meeting on the terrace. It would have been easier for her to explain to him.

I can understand if there were days left for marriage and Abheer came up with a plan to help Madhav, but the fact is that today is the marriage day. How can they take any risk. From the very first meeting of both sides, things have gone wrong and now the situation was worst. This is a good enough reason not to take any risk on the marriage day. I hope when it is time for AbHer, they think about the repercussions first. I do not want to see any hasty, immature, or impulsive decisions that time. Like Nupur said, please do not become blind in love. I know sometimes impulsive decisions can prove to be good too, but with Boodha around, one must be extremely cautious.

One last thing, I hope that now Lehar does not get mad at Abheer or AbHer relationship suffers due to this plan. Lehar trusted Abheer blindly out here, and looking at the precap for Monday, if Madhav does not speak up, things could really get out of control. Hopefully this incident might somehow help in the progress of AbHer relationship. Some good better come out of all this drama, which will take place on Monday.



I really really hope that creatives do not disappoint us on Monday. Madhav please speak up.
Edited by Anvi2009 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Anvi2009 and tasshamsi -Thanks too much for your replies .

As regarding Abeer's fault is concerned ,he tries too hard to keep everyone happy and surroundings good. But one thing he does not understand is that if you try to keep each and everyone happy ,you will end up angering everyone.

And in this case Madhav always keep telling Abeer with crying face his problems and how desperately he wants Bengali Rasm to be done here .He expects Abeer to solve his problems with his oh so desperste face . And what happens is there is always a spanner in the plan and blame comes on to the shoulders of Abeer while what is happening is that Madhav is shooting the bullet while using Abeer's shoulders .

I do not understand why could M-R stay away from mis-adventures and let the marriage happen with whatever peace is left. (But then how will story will be made !😃) .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Severus Snape, this time I think Madhav will speak up. Creatives created this bengali ritual drama so that finally Madhav looses his cool and speaks in defense of Rashmi and her family in front of everyone. I wished he spoke earlier then itna drama nahin hota. I wonder what repercussions Madhav speaking up now will have. Will Boodha and Shuklian become quiet and let the marriage take place peacefully or will they create more problems. With the big fat ego that dadi and Shuklian have, it is impossible for the marriage to take place smoothly. In fact the more you hurt dadi, the more she will react in the worst way possible. For example see the grudge she now holds against Rashmi. She is willing to destroy her life. But yes if Madhav speaks up, atleast Rashmi for a change will feel proud of him and will save Majumdars some more insults from Boodha.

I just hope that Abheer's name is not dragged in all this and if it is dragged, for once I want Madhav to speak in defense of Abheer also. LOL Madhav has a big task in front of him on Monday, aakir shaadi toh uski hain na.
Edited by Anvi2009 - 15 years ago

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