Physical Comfort Level (Thanks Isa, your post inspired this one)

So far one of the most notable thing was the physical comfort level Aru shared with Mukhi.

And we are not talking about a (supposedly) naive (and in reality dumb) female lead who keeps on getting too close to Male Lead in spite of being supposedly chui mui and then keep on feeling that (again so called) attraction.

The way half the female leads pant in the romantic serials, it can make you worry about their respiratory function.

But coming back to the point, Aru is confident but not stupid. She did felt discomfort when Arjan tired to get too close (That is a sharp man, he changed tactics really fast and done it well too) in initial meetings, before he knew who she was.

But Mukhi is a genteel soul and in some ways, she does look at him as a muchowala uncle. Do not beat me up for this, but his being older without being creepy does make a difference. Also the most interactions which she saw of him were with his sisters, especially Mishri.

He treated Mishri like his child and Aru being closer to her age. It was difficult for both of them to look at other differently. Just a ceremony of marriage done without explicit consent and willingness on both their parts is not going to change it.

That was one of the reasons when Aru never feels too much discomfort in touching him or even giving him his towel or laughing at his "Janghiya comment.

But it will take a few soft and a few weird moments to get the awareness needed to accept each other as a man and a woman.

Originally posted by: ..wateva..

I agree, she has always seen his interaction with other women(mainly his sisters). This incident might lead her to think about him in a different light. Like I said earlier, she felt embarrassed that he found her in that state which is very very natural. Like you said she didn't react like a silly person and started blaming him or imagining worst of things or come to wrong conclusions. She was still mindful of what might have happened, I loved that she had that confidence on Mukhi which is why she didn't even think he might have taken advantage of her.. which is a very good sign for me😃

I'm kinda sure that she might feel awkward for sometime and Mukhi will notice and understand why she is behaving that way and will clear this up, which might help her to see him as a pure gentle man(which she already does, this incident will boost her respect for him).😊

-Isabel

Originally posted by: Tshaheen

You are very right and I think in this situation Mukhi will definitely make her comfortable, cos he is not thinking or looking the other way, he is really worried about her well being ( his demag ka batti khula ) So let's see how YMMkD team protrait their face to face interactions, I have faith on our gentleman Mukhiji. Mostly it will be Aru who is going to freak out!!

Originally posted by: C0raline

Respect a key ingredient to a close relationship which sadly, a lot of us have stopped realising.

And sadly the way Indian TV portray women, we start thinking it is high handed of a woman to ask for respect, and I mean even the respect a human deserves from another.

And Mukhi is one of few male leads in recent time on TV which inspire respect.

And the thought that he might have taken advantage never even crossing her mind shows how much she trusts this man's integrity.

We all joked and speculated about the proximity scene but we all wished that he did not do anything which he will not do when she was awake.