Originally posted by: malikakas
@red.. I think for me that's an important issue. A lot of times girls and guys get excused or vilified because of gender and I don't think that is fair. I don't think a woman has anymore right to slap a man than a man has to slap a woman.But I kind of understand why Manvi slapped him. From Manvi's perspective she saw him give money to the guys that were harassing her and didn't hear the conversation. She had been manhandled by those goons and so him rewarding them makes no sense. She doesn't know he is a generous guy by nature after all he did force her to sign a contract. So in her mind he played a dirty trick with her so she slapped him. I've never slapped anyone but I can see how someone would do it in that setting. Plus its a hindi show and hindi shows tend to be slap happy.But she should stop misunderstanding him already-- because she has already been proven wrong several times about him.But I really think Rahul should've told her the truth. I don't think he needed to do it for his self respect per se but just to clear the air that he isn't this guy she is thinking he is.But I also see Rahul as a very empathetic guy. He puts himself in other people's shoes all the time. It was so easy for him to understand how much care someone took in choosing that music album. So I think he realized that if he had done something like that a slap wouldn't have been a crazy reaction so he didn't take it to heart. I think he is just confused as to why she thinks so badly of him.
Honestly, Manvi doesn't bother me much.. I kind of trying to understand her since the first epi.. That girl was literally brought up with all the negativity against Sabharwal's.. by his Dad ..
...and whatever she has been seeing are a bit convincing to MU him too.. I'm trying hard to empathize with her.. that's why I haven't said anything much about her yet ...
But after their face off.. things happening in a way, which could make her realize that Rahul isn't that worst like she thinks of... And even here too I'm trying to empathize with her that she needs some more time to know he is clean..
But what bothered me is his reaction after slap.. Being a good guy, he might have think in her perspective.. but what about some instant reaction like he could immediately have reacted by saying that he hasn't done anything.. he was like as if nothing happened or so he is so confused.. anyway I should forget it..I guess..
Ek really should stop showing slap as a small issue.. I think, even if a person whom you love the most slapped you.. then also it hurts you for a moment.. you will empathize with them later... but in the moment it is so much to take...