I know we are going to have a plethora of opinions right now and Some people will soon also put themselves in camp Rudra and camp preesha (if they haven’t already) ...some without meaning to as well. We already have debates here I can see on who is more hurt? Who is more innocent? Excuses always made for ML in MU? FL getting more empathy because we relate to her more as women...etc
I know that we are discussing this in multiple place, but I thought it would be good to state some facts at least in a central place.
Now before you tag me to one of the camps, let me clarify I am team Rusha here.
so let’s have some facts out:
- both are fault of being directly or indirectly the cause pain for the other one. Pree is in pain because of Rudra’s accusations, words and behaviour. And Rudra is in pain because of Pree’s betrayal (that he has after much desperate fight been convinced off) because no one else doing this - not Yuvraj not Rahul not Balraj nor ahana - could have broken him down like preesha doing it.
- When you are emotionally broken and broken in soul you are going to sprout some bad words and your behaviour is not going to be perfect. This is a fact. Even in our real life when we have heated arguments, we do end up saying this we don’t mean and sometimes doing things that are not us nor thing that we would be okay with. You can’t get around this reality of humans. You can beat yourselves or the others later on for it, but you won’t be able to control it. This is call outburst and is not related to exercising your power on someone who is weak and can’t defend themselves. Expecting emotions to get boxed and reactions to be measured doesn’t happen in real life. I am sure all of us have lost someone close to us, may be a grand parent ...may even be someone non human like a pet, you can’t have measured reactions in grief. So remember that when it comes to both of them. Both of them.
- these are not your typical ML and FL. Here FL is not abla Nari. She can give back. She has support in form of saransh, Amma and appa and also maa who will be there with her in this. This ML is also not your typical ML. He is the vulnerable one and more lonely one in this show. In fact the lonely and actually physically abused person on the show. So they are not your typecast stereotype. Let’s not treat them as such. The one most clear in this is going to our FL in her goal In this track and the one most conflicted and unsure is going to be our ML. Our ML who thinks he is going to be doing the hurting is also going to be the most hurt one here after each action.
- please remember that during this track both are going to be immensely in love with each other. Our ML despite his hate and our FL because she realises it for the first time. So all those who want to punish the ML for his words and upcoming actions at the end of this track, please remember staying away again at the end after going through what they will go through, will not only be a punishment for ML ...but actually also for FL who will need her happiness back after all this. They are going to be together in this pain. Every hurt of one is the pain of other. So while you might want redemption track, the best redemption that can be there from FL perspective is him remembering this and never Doubting her again. Remember him showering love on her is going to happen anyway. Him in redemption thinking he is not good enough for her, doesn’t help even our FL in any remote way.
- their relationship is shattered and yet not completely. He still loves her deep inside his heart. And she has feelings for him which will not be more open. Him feeling dead and dying today is true and yet her love inside him will keep fighting to come out. So while it might seem as though they are starting negative or starting from scratch it won’t be case because those deep feeling exist and won’t get killed and will be very much active.
- there relation so far has not been based lies. I am not saying there are no secrets there. But they know the true person the other one is. They found each other despite prejudices on both sides. They have shared memories together which can not be undone. They might seem painful now but they will bring nostalgia and then fondness and yearning and then questions. It is going to be removing the Rahul-Yuvraj effect from what they already know in their heart.
- finally please remember both have made grave mistakes and will make them again in future. They are human. Remember to give them some benefit of doubt once in a while. Rudra made a mistake when that dance bar in s1 and now he will make some more which will hurt preesha. Pree made them when she misjudged him in Kaveri issue and now in her rush to resolve this for him. But worst one still is rajeev’s death one. I know why CVs won’t let it come out say time soon since Yuvraj is main villain. But from their relation perspective, he is her best friend not just her husband. She now knows what Rajeev means to him. For him not to know how his brother died, why (even if Yuvraj’s lies which she should be questioning already) and who is responsible, is unfair. That he needs to know....not to clarify she is innocent...no not for that. But more because he deserves to know the truth about his brothers end.
Open to your debate and thoughts,,.and even to know if you don’t think these things are fact.
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