Unrealistic Expectations as Fans? Just enjoying the show? - Page 2

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

wait shruti is his girlfriend? thats sweet! i watched the show! he was very good in it. thats y i watch yhc. soz no social. but again i understand that people getting emotional about things but if the girl is his girlfriend then thats his business no? whereas sargun is just a co-star maybe not even very close as friends. thus to me it makes sense that my partner would take a stand for me before his colleague. and if his girlfriend is liking all this then thats their issue to deal with. if sargun doesnt come out and complain about shruti nor oppose working with abrar then its none of our issue. we can say- oh she is too good to do that. but then thats her issue. its not our job to defend an adult woman who is clearly very capable. ppl only complicate things for actors like this. for all you know, she doesnt even care. did she post on social that she is mad? was there verified news that abrar's gf bothers her? if it doesnt seem to bother her then no need for me to be butt hurt about this.

anyways, point is that i do not wish to engage in all this cos its literally none of my business as a fan to be so involved in their personal lives. but the forum is literally half the time only talking about his social and talking about ending his career because he is not living his life according to them. thats poisonous speech. they're entertainers. unless committing crimes in their personal lives, they dont owe us beyond the hours they put in to give us 30mins of happiness. we as fans should be ashamed for demanding anything more. sorry but im too old to think otherwise. and would really appreciate if we rather spoke more about the show and less about the actors' personal life.

Agreed that we don’t have say in his personal life. My intention has never been to question Abrar’s choice in his personal life. What he does with Sruti is their business. All I can talk about is the actors of this show. I simply didn’t like how Sruti kept liking hate posts directed towards Sargun.

You might say that we shouldn’t be bothered about it, but hey I guess that’s a part and parcel of being a fan of an actor. Being a celebrity has its downsides one being that your personal life will be dissected by media and audience. Not saying they deserve it or something but just stating how things usually are.

BTW, it is not clear what Sruti is to Abrar. But it does seem like they are in a relationship. Hence the ‘’ around the girl friend tab.
To conclude, we can always ignore conversations about off screen drama if we don’t want to get involved. There are other threads where people discuss about the show in this forum. So let’s just keep reading the threads we like.

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

wait shruti is his girlfriend? thats sweet! i watched the show! he was very good in it. thats y i watch yhc. soz no social. but again i understand that people getting emotional about things but if the girl is his girlfriend then thats his business no? whereas sargun is just a co-star maybe not even very close as friends. thus to me it makes sense that my partner would take a stand for me before his colleague. and if his girlfriend is liking all this then thats their issue to deal with. if sargun doesnt come out and complain about shruti nor oppose working with abrar then its none of our issue. we can say- oh she is too good to do that. but then thats her issue. its not our job to defend an adult woman who is clearly very capable. ppl only complicate things for actors like this. for all you know, she doesnt even care. did she post on social that she is mad? was there verified news that abrar's gf bothers her? if it doesnt seem to bother her then no need for me to be butt hurt about this.

anyways, point is that i do not wish to engage in all this cos its literally none of my business as a fan to be so involved in their personal lives. but the forum is literally half the time only talking about his social and talking about ending his career because he is not living his life according to them. thats poisonous speech. they're entertainers. unless committing crimes in their personal lives, they dont owe us beyond the hours they put in to give us 30mins of happiness. we as fans should be ashamed for demanding anything more. sorry but im too old to think otherwise. and would really appreciate if we rather spoke more about the show and less about the actors' personal life.

Celebrity DJ like loved n pampered by their fans so in return fans too can ask certain realistic things from their celebrity...

here we just expect to promote t show n Jodi like any other shows couple. considering today's time it z SM networking promotion everywhere...so we too expected t same from him.

He promoted his first show too much on SM..either he did or SS asked him to do we dont know..so we expected t same here but he did not..so he only showed step behaviour here.

Being a loyal fan if we suggested for certain change in t way how he perceived t things ,which can be fruitful for his future projects too ,what mistake s ter..Manana ya na manana it z totally upto him...

SS liked hate posts /mocking posts regarding sargun (girl who took stand for SS) , n Abrar taking stand for SS..how n y anyYHC fan will show respect to SS ..

N he did not show t courtesy to show gratitude to his fans for completion of 100 episodes inspire being tagged in many posts regarding 100 episodes..rather posted offscreen video with SS (or Ss did ..)..

So we fans did not vent our anger just like that..

N conclusion post also has been made to avoid such clash in future...

As it has been written already that there are many thread in this forum ..so any fan can choose f topic of their interest.