selfish and irresponsible

Mumbai sameer ki journey hai. Apni responsibility par wo naina ko laya hai. rakesh unki request par help karne aaya hai. apni lifestyle chodh kar aaya hai to sameer naina ki responsibility hai unki taraf.

Wo es umar mein weight utha rahe the. Chalo wo ziddi hai unhone wo kaam le lia lekin awaj dene par sameer ko padi bhi nahi thi unki. 😑

Abhi shifting chal rahi hai to us par dhyan do. wo sameer ka ghar h uski zimmedari.

Ek beti aur bahu me sabse bada difference ye hota hai ki beti bachpan se apne papa ke sath rhi hai. Use unki sari aadat pata hoti h. Mere papa subh 5:30 pr chai pite hai mujhe pata hai. kabhi mom bimar hoti h to main subh ka alarm laga kar unhe 5:30 par hi chai deti hu. Bahu ko ye sab janne mein aur sikhne mein time lagta hai. Naina kya esliye rakesh ko layi thi Mumbai.

Papa the to kuch nahi bole wahi sasur hote to hungama ho jata. sameer naina ko rakesh ki taraf aur responsible hona hoga.

Though we enjoy samaina romance and take up rakeshs antics as funny...i do agree with you samaina need to take proper care and give attention to his needs...yahi koi sasuraal walla hota too naina ko bahut sunna padta

I agree. I was thinking the same

Although I agree with you on the Furniture point I have some different thoughts on that tea thing. First of all, both Sameer and Naina were tired because of the journey and moving in. It is very normal that they overslept.

Secondly, every person regardless man and woman should be able to manage things on their own. Making tea is the most simple job of a household. I don't drink tea but I know how make a cup of tea. I know it is the 90s but Rakesh should be able to make a cup of tea for himself.

Don't get me wrong. But think about the time when your Dad is alone and neither you nor your Mom is with him. So should he suffer just because he can't make a cup of tea or he should just learn how to make a cup of tea?

I agree. lekin purani soch wale log ek din mein nahi badalte. Shayad meri shaadi ke baad mere papa badal jaye ya aur independent ho jaye lekin abhi to kabhi aisa mauka aaya hi nahi. Same rakesh ke sath hai. wo kis lifestyle se aaye hai ek din mein change nahi honge. shayad mumbai mein reh kar dheere dheere unki soch badal jaye.

I do partly agree with you. Sameer did say he was going along but Rakesh rather irritated commanded him to stay back. I felt it was not right to keep romancing and not go out to his shouts. Granted Rakesh is always shouting unnecessarily but he could be in trouble. Regarding the tea thing, I dont actually blame Naina and Sameer.

Rakesh has never lived with Naina. Since childhood they have lived separately in different apartments so its expected that Naina doesnt know his routine. Before Sameer actually made the effort to get Rakesh to attend Sangeet, Rakesh rarely showed affection towards Naina. In fact it looked like Naina was a burden on him he wanted to get rid off. He was even willing to marry her off to Sharad after knowing that he was an abuser.

He has changed alot now but since they have been kind of estranged their entire lives how would Naina actually know things about Rakesh? But from the upcoming it seems that Naina will make efforts to care for Rakesh and Sameer will do the same.

Aisa possible hai. Phir mujhe Naina aur rakesh ki thodi deep conversations chahiye. Pehli baar wo apne papa ke sath reh rahi hai. uska bachpan ka sapna poora hua hai.

Originally posted by: IamIbe

I do partly agree with you. Sameer did say he was going along but Rakesh rather irritated commanded him to stay back. I felt it was not right to keep romancing and not go out to his shouts. Granted Rakesh is always shouting unnecessarily but he could be in trouble. Regarding the tea thing, I dont actually blame Naina and Sameer.

Rakesh has never lived with Naina. Since childhood they have lived separately in different apartments so its expected that Naina doesnt know his routine. Before Sameer actually made the effort to get Rakesh to attend Sangeet, Rakesh rarely showed affection towards Naina. In fact it looked like Naina was a burden on him he wanted to get rid off. He was even willing to marry her off to Sharad after knowing that he was an abuser.

He has changed alot now but since they have been kind of estranged their entire lives how would Naina actually know things about Rakesh? But from the upcoming it seems that Naina will make efforts to care for Rakesh and Sameer will do the same.

Even I agree with Samaina's ignorance to Rakesh's screams... at thisage Rakesh is moving such heavy furniture then Sameer should be standing outside to support or atleast check things... after all its Samaina's house and their responsibility

For the morning tea... as they were used to staying alone in Ahmedabad its acceptible that they usually wake up late... Should eventually learn to be more responsible

I don't think samaina are self and irresponsible because

1) Rakesh himself told sameer not to come with him.

2) Samaina knows Rakesh nature he always shouts so thought not to push him much.

3) About Tea Rakesh and Naina never lived with each other though they were neighbours but it was Rakesh who never accepted Naina as his daughter. It was Rakesh who never been around his daughter so its natural for Naina that she is unaware of his habits.

4) About getting up late was also normal as they were tried and might that was their regular time to wake up in their house as they were managing alone for almost a year.

Regards,

Tanvi