Settling in period - Page 2

Originally posted by: anvi84

Isn't settling in period supposed to happen post-honeymoon. Samiana'shoneymoon should have been about getting closer and just appreciating the fact that they are finally together and alone without any social restrictions after being in a relationship for 4 years...almost all of which was in secret. I am loving their lovey-dovey scenes but Sameer's taunts leave a bitter taste after or before each beautiful scene.

And frankly speaking, Naina has not screwed up or done any blunder throughout the HM except washing clothes. I mean she wore sports shoes, but her legs were aching which she shared with Sameer. His anger should have melted there. Then, she ate chakri, what is the freaking big deal about it. He realized it himself when he organized the breakfast the next day. Even the kiss, Naina is more than ready. About her clothes, she changed them as soon as Sameer expressed his opinion. In fact, he is the one who chose her clothes.

During the bf-gf stage, their different personalities did clash but they always found their balance in the limited time they had together in college or on phone. Let's see how they balance each other out as husband and wife when they are together 24/7 with all the time in the world. I hope they do not start to take each other for granted. But the clash does not have to be shown in an insulting or demeaning way. Having arguments about how to spend money is one thing, but Sameer taunting Naina's middle-class status is not right. In fact I am looking forward to how they will balance each other out in their marriage. I wish cvs do it tactfully, and not damage Sameer's and Naina's inherent character. They have always been sensitive to each other's emotions and feelings. That should not change post-marriage.

One thing I can say from personal experience is in a love marriage and that too where the love started in teens settling in sometimes kicks in during honeymoon itself 😊

I agree that Naina except for washing clothes and wearing the sport shoes Naina dis not make any mistakes. Nothing else was her fault. I have seen growth in terms of physical relationship as well. Sameer had this picture of a perfect honeymoon and he is not able to haldle the disappointment.
I myself could not digest him getting irritated even when Naina had cold, this is so against the character CVs have built until now.

I agree that every relationship including marriage requires some time to settle. Doesn't matter if its love or arranged marriage. After marriage it all falls into the same track in some months. Only the initial months might be lil different. Here considering the fact that they were lover's for four years makes it a lil difficult to believe either of their behaviours. I still havnt understood why CVs had to play so differently with Sameer and Naina's core characters . Also there is something called as "BASIC INSTINCTS" which went for a complete toss . That's is where the logic failed miserably.

1) Two people in love for 4 years. I agree its 90s period but post marriage the need for intimacy ..to mate is natural. Naina's behavior beats me. Yes , there will be hesitance. Lack of knowledge and how to respond to such a move from her man is something that she wouldn't know. But as a woman in love the basic instincts in her to mate will definitely ignite the feeling to explore. It comes naturally. She wouldn't run away from it. She would allow her man to come to her... She will be shy but the need , that arises in her will make her stay put. This is not an arranged marriage. This is a love marriage and that too after so many hard ships. The first instincts will be to have a hug.
2) Sameer's behavior of not being bothered about her cold. A man who could climb the balcony to give her medicine is not least bit bothered about her health. Cant happen at all. If she is his life they even a single sneeze from her will affect him for sure. I understand he is frustrated because of the lack of intimacy but that doesn't mean he will ignore her health.
3) Him getting multiple oppurtunities to hold her close to him , but he gives away all those , they show him cribbing about the room , her dressing sense etc etc . If they were trying to tell the viewers that there is nothing called as perfect honeymoon , my take is they failed miserably to translate that on to the screen because they played with core characteristics of the leads and people got confused.
4) Niana being shown as absolute dumb girl. Cant agree to this. Someone who showed the maturity to handle many aspects in the relationship and a book lover can never behave this way. I cant believe when they say she didn't know what happens during honeymoon.
5) Not even once they had shown Sameer interested in her dressing and they had always shown Naina sensibly dressing up. So now why this sudden change.
6) Editing . This group of backend support for the show needs to relook at their work. Goofs up royally not once but multiple times. Sometimes it forces me to think that they really destroy the efforts of the actors by their poor editing and I cant understand why the PH and channel is quiet about it.

Sorry for my early morning crib. I am not saying that Sameer and Naina moments weren't good. Where ever they tried to induce romance, RANDEEP AND ASHI has done full justice to it . The thing is I had loads of expectations from this honeymoon track but like their marriage track they were not able to do complete justice to it. At least not for viewers like me. I understand the TRP is high and am happy about it . But somewhere deep down , I felt my show has changed for ever.

THE ONLY REASON I WATCH THIS SHOW IS FOR RANDEEP, ASHI and THEIR ROMANCE and NOT for the STORY or THE PLOT.

I totally agree with you guys the CVs ruin hm track completely the way they are showing naina completely dumb and sameer so frustrated was out of control.

In love marriage expectations are sky high from our partner and when those are not fulfilled creates a tiff