Why did sameer defend naina today and not yesterday - Page 2

Agreed it was a conscious decision made by Naina to style her hair. But they didn't think it would be so bad.

And I feel if he knew of this before his anger would still be the same and Infact he wouldn't have done any ritual with her. The scene yesterday when her pallu fell and one look at her hair and he refused to eat the Prasad.

I think it's about keeping your anger aside and just being there for your spouse no matter what.

And those ladies with Mami as the leader were insulting right from the start. That night also in their room he kept quiet when they insulted her.

Pyar karta hoon tumse aur tumhara insult nahin sah sakta - why only on the last day last ritual.. why not before that

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

See I feel there are multiple readins for why he is angry about the hair also...
Firslty..he never wanted her to experiment and that too on her wedding day...shayed yeh kissi aur time oe hota toh itna react na jarta...

If she had managed to tell him he would have handeled it and maken sure the pallu doesn't slip

See if this was an out an out mishap he could have defended her..but clearly this was a concious desicion of doing an experiment gone wrong...
Also this led to the ladies making fun of her which he didn't like

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

I agree to all this...

But your last line is contradicting... He dint like ladies making fun of her and taunting her then he should have dragged her from there or taken stand for her... Snapping a chachi and walking off only showed others that they are open to treat her as an object of entertainment

See Sameer defo reacted in his typical style..the differnce is that before it used to be between samaina and the gang..sameer does react in anger and later realises it...however this time agtee it was infront of the ladies and that is what he has to learn as a husband...that even if she was at fault you should not leave her to answer...sameer knew the halwa being oversweet is not nainas fault and he did stand up...
This is what is called learning which comes with time and hence why I found sameers reactions in bith cases pretty human rather than fictionally perfect...
Even if he knew he is getting married and has responsibilities...you don't master it before you are in a situation...you fail to master your first attempt but you don't stop trying..

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

See Sameer defo reacted in his typical style..the differnce is that before it used to be between samaina and the gang..sameer does react in anger and later realises it...however this time agtee it was infront of the ladies and that is what he has to learn as a husband...that even if she was at fault you should not leave her to answer...sameer knew the halwa being oversweet is not nainas fault and he did stand up...
This is what is called learning which comes with time and hence why I found sameers reactions in bith cases pretty human rather than fictionally perfect...
Even if he knew he is getting married and has responsibilities...you don't master it before you are in a situation...you fail to master your first attempt but you don't stop trying..

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

See I feel there are multiple readins for why he is angry about the hair also...
Firslty..he never wanted her to experiment and that too on her wedding day...shayed yeh kissi aur time oe hota toh itna react na jarta...

If she had managed to tell him he would have handeled it and maken sure the pallu doesn't slip

See if this was an out an out mishap he could have defended her..but clearly this was a concious desicion of doing an experiment gone wrong...
Also this led to the ladies making fun of her which he didn't like

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

I agree to all this...

But your last line is contradicting... He dint like ladies making fun of her and taunting her then he should have dragged her from there or taken stand for her... Snapping a chachi and walking off only showed others that they are open to treat her as an object of entertainment

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

This is what is called learning which comes with time and hence why I found sameers reactions in bith cases pretty human rather than fictionally perfect...
Even if he knew he is getting married and has responsibilities...you don't master it before you are in a situation...you fail to master your first attempt but you don't stop trying..

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

Agree...

Also there is one thing i Felt...

Suddenly since shaadi I am seeing Sameer being more cribby, throwing baby like tantrums and taane to Naina...

Feels like a kid who suddenly got freedom to demand anything and everything... and in that happiness he cant control his emotions..starts reacting for any small thing not going in his favour 😆😆

He knows very well its one and only person- His Naina who will tolerate his tantrums and anger and now that she belongs to him he is using the license to fullest

Now Mr. Maheshwari will either do romance or nakhra 😃

Originally posted by: Anjali33

Totally agreed.

His anger was more because he couldn't do anything to control the situation

No ya I don't agree here. He did control the halwa situation. If he told everyone that he wanted her to have the curls and wanted her to perm instead of getting angry and make the situation worse

Originally posted by: Deepanand

No ya I don't agree here. He did control the halwa situation. If he told everyone that he wanted her to have the curls and wanted her to perm instead of getting angry and make the situation worse