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Posted: 6 years ago

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I m really sorry because I also beg to differ...

I have been saying this every where is why this public humiliation of Naina? Her failing in every Rasam is so unrealistic and on top of that the reaction that Vishakha is giving each time... when she pulled her out of Sameer's room she was so rude to call her utawali bahu...and snapping at her ke agar thodi bhi Sharm baki hai toh Subah tak yahi padi rehana...she is loving mother to Rohan and Deepika than not once did she feel she should make the new DIL comfortable with love..

.next day no one even bothered to tell her where the bathroom is...Vishakha just hands over a saree asking her whether she knows to wear a saree...Not even once she thought on checking if her DIL needs any help and then bring her for muh dikhayi or she should have appointed someone to assist Naina is getting ready...but no what she does is again is being rude to her..and tells her that she shouldn't give any excuse because wearing all sarees is just the same thing...with such an atmosphere around in the new house you feel so unwelcomed...

This poor girl is being constantly humiliated but saddest thing is she was being so harshly humiliated in front of her Chachaji and chachi and worst part is that they are being mocked for not teaching her anything...now how does it feel ...you can tolerate any amount of of taunts for yourself but when your parents are humiliated it becomes unbearable...what class do these people like MMS and Vishakha belong to?...And inke guests toh namune hai poore ke poore, making fun of new bride now who does that?...CC may not as rich as them but they deserve respect too...It is so heartbreaking to see your child go through so much taunting...can't even imagine how CC must have felt...

Yes We all know that life is not bed of roses...and everyone goes through their own challenges and we would also like to see them face their share together and grow strong...but what they are showing right now just just very bitter...any girl in such situation will like to run away from such a place where she doesn't have a single person by her side to support her...

I personally have had an intercaste arranged marriage, and my husband knew me for less then 3months before marriage but he was like a pillar by my side for every ritual and anytime I needed him...without hurting others he was and is my greatest support system...

Edited by meeranair - 6 years ago

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myprimechicago

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Posted: 6 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Sorry to disagree I didn't find it hilarious at all ..probably because I know what it is to get married into a different community and get taunts..and Sameer's initial reaction was fine , but he should have stood by her rather than run away from there. A man has to stand by his wife and never leave her alone to fight it all by herself. Well the question is if he cant save her from his own families taunt , how will he fight the world for her??

His character was butchered to the core...trust me its not easy to be in Naina's position. When we are there we will know how painful and alone we feel and that too after loving this man for four years and this is what he gave her after seeing a curled hair.

Even if he had laughed and then tried to understand what happened and consoled her it would have been fine.but this was too much...back to back humiliation for Naina.

Now there is Monday's halwa humiliation session for Naina and apparently her Chacha-chachi

Why can't he talk to Naina before adding sugar in it,,, as if he is expert in cooking and could save the drama?

CVs not only butchered Sameer's character but the whole shaadi track... can never dare to repeat this segment the way I keep watching Mt. Abu and pooja shaadi tracks

Hope they show Naina venting out her frustration on Sameer's immaturity once and make him realize the fact that he is husband and not a boyfriend anymore who can leave her in problem and walk away in anger

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soniadutta

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Posted: 6 years ago

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I have seen this kind of scenarios in real life as well, where u struck between family and wife and if sameer already knew about her condition ,shuld sure been reacted differently and that was only the matter of shock

And even sometimes parents too reacted like same if their kids experimented with their looks and even Some time gets angry and started bashing them in front of all and that doesn't means their love or support for them get lesser .

Sameer already fought and took stand for her so questioning his character for this reason is totally uncalled..I respect every one povs

Samaian were first Bf/GF and now situation is different so sure they would be get cope it with slowly slowly.

Yeah I too agree ,this humillation of naina shuld not be done continuously but for me sameer is not at all butchering.

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Abida_angel

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: soniadutta
I have seen this kind of scenarios in real life as well, where u struck between family and wife and if sameer already knew about her condition ,shuld sure been reacted differently and that was only the matter of shock
And even sometimes parents too reacted like same if their kids experimented with their looks and even Some time gets angry and started bashing them in front of all and that doesn't means their love or support for them get lesser .

Sameer already fought and took stand for her so questioning his character for this reason is totally uncalled..I respect every one povs

Samaian were first Bf/GF and now situation is different so sure they would be get cope it with slowly slowly.

Yeah I too agree ,this humillation of naina shuld not be done continuously but for me sameer is not at all butchering.

Agree on this...there is a differnce in being butchered and flawed..right now neither of them are butchered but both are flawed and that has been constant and thats make their caharcter more human rather than out and out fictional
Sadly reality is that not always yojr husband is able to stand for you...and not always your wife is able to live upto your families or ypur expectations..thats doesn't mean you don't love your partner or are not determined in your relationship

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soniadutta

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Abida_angel

Agree on this...there is a differnce in being butchered and flawed..right now neither of them are butchered but both are flawed and that has been constant and thats make their caharcter more human rather than out and out fictional
Sadly reality is that not always yojr husband is able to stand for you...and not always your wife is able to live upto your families or ypur expectations..thats doesn't mean you don't love your partner or are not determined in your relationship

Believe me ,even if u have been in relation for 4 years but after marriage, it's not remains the same mostly

But here both love each others and sure take stand too but right now it's all happening so quickly for them, an these kind of relatives seen in every where.

Even though if u are not in fault ,keep humialalting others

For sameer ,it's only vishkha who matters the most but she too seems so confused right now ,she helped naina in wearing saree and even after knowing this hair fiasco ,she didn't get angry much or insulted her and even chacha chachi also felt it's naina fault ,she shuld been discussed with them so atleat they could told to smaeer about it already ...

Yest all were in shock and didn't able to react much and I don't think for sameer, it's matters but every husband wants his wife to looks beautiful and he thought it was her foolish act that she told for permanent perming during the day of wedding and went wrong .

I think, he will sure comes with some solution soon .

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jhalak7

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
but he should have stood by her rather than run away from there. A man has to stand by his wife and never leave her alone to fight it all by herself. .

Yes! He should stand there for her than leave her alone. That I also agree. That was coward. You don't leave your partner when she is in danger. Marriage is partnership.
But I felt funny for the dialogues...I have mentioned it.
Story toh bahut depressing tha. But that was the truth of 90s. One mistake of bahu and millions of humiliation. Keya karien...jamana waisa tha. That's why today's kids are acting in different way. We ...who are elders now are also more civilized. We don't taunt a newly married wife this way nor take test after test to a new bride. But this show is not about 2019. Its 1994. This was common in any ordinary family at that time.

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