Upto what extent Naina's behaviour is justified? - Page 2

Originally posted by: A_ChaoticSoul

Naina is hurt, fine. She slapped him, fine. She said those words, fine. I won't point out what she should have said and what not.

But don't you think Naina today has proved Vishaka right in Sameer's view? Why this Practical-emotional point is so highlighted these days?

What you guys think, upto what extent her behaviour is justified?

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Naina's hurt is understandable.She is hurt that Sameer hid such a big thing from her and also failed in his exams.But her reaction is not justified.Before shouting at him and slapping him she did not spend even a second thinking about the pain and hurt that Sameer would have endured all these days.She did not convey any sympathy or comfort him either.Even if she had comforted him after shouting at him it would have been ok,but she never did that.

And most importantly she accused him of being selfish when ,in fact,Sameer's biggest fault is that he is selfless..He is stupid,no doubt,but he is utterly selfless.

I was surprised when she accused him of being selfish saying "Main main main.meri zindagi,mera faisla"...when actually Sameer had only thought of Naina while making the decision.And she followed this up by saying "Tumne kabhi socha ki iske baare mein jab mujhe pata chalega to mujhe kitna bura lagega.Main kaise is bojh ke saath jeeongi ki tum meri wajah se fail hue"...So who is being more selfish here?Sameer or Naina?..The first thought that enters her mind(after all Sameer has done for her) is how she will live with this burden.Never does she think how Sameer lived with this burden for so many days...

Wah re Naina,Maan gaye..Aapka sach mein topper wala dimaag hai...

Secondly if she loves Sameer so much as she claims,why doesn't she go now and tell the principal that she was the girl in the room?Maybe the princi might forgive Sameer and let him write the supplementary papers...If she doesn't let him write it,then Naina should share the punishment with Sameer,right?After all,she told Sameer"tumhi meri zaroorat the,zaroorat ho aur rahoge"..When they are two halves,then why not share his punishment?Then the so called guilt of living with the burden that Sameer failed because of her will also be reduced for Naina Devi...But Naina won't tell the princi because she thinks with her head..She will shout at Sameer,the emotional fool,and hold him responsible for her pain,but when it comes to sharing his pain,Naina is nowhere to be seen.

Naina has indeed proved Vishaka right..Naina is always head over heart...She will never understand Sameer,who ,unfortunately,is an emotional fool.

I somehow think that after this reaction Naina has lost Sameer...this time there will be judaai..aur lambi waali...and the judaai will be initiated by Sameer and Naina might have to repent at leisure for her hasty reaction...just my thought...

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Naina's hurt is understandable.She is hurt that Sameer hid such a big thing from her and also failed in his exams.But her reaction is not justified.Before shouting at him and slapping him she did not spend even a second thinking about the pain and hurt that Sameer would have endured all these days.She did not convey any sympathy or comfort him either.Even if she had comforted him after shouting at him it would have been ok,but she never did that.

And most importantly she accused him of being selfish when ,in fact,Sameer's biggest fault is that he is selfless..He is stupid,no doubt,but he is utterly selfless.

I was surprised when she accused him of being selfish saying "Main main main.meri zindagi,mera faisla"...when actually Sameer had only thought of Naina while making the decision.And she followed this up by saying "Tumne kabhi socha ki iske baare mein jab mujhe pata chalega to mujhe kitna bura lagega.Main kaise is bojh ke saath jeeongi ki tum meri wajah se fail hue"...So who is being more selfish here?Sameer or Naina?..The first thought that enters her mind(after all Sameer has done for her) is how she will live with this burden.Never does she think how Sameer lived with this burden for so many days...

Wah re Naina,Maan gaye..Aapka sach mein topper wala dimaag hai...

Secondly if she loves Sameer so much as she claims,why doesn't she go now and tell the principal that she was the girl in the room?Maybe the princi might forgive Sameer and let him write the supplementary papers...If she doesn't let him write it,then Naina should share the punishment with Sameer,right?After all,she told Sameer"tumhi meri zaroorat the,zaroorat ho aur rahoge"..When they are two halves,then why not share his punishment?Then the so called guilt of living with the burden that Sameer failed because of her will also be reduced for Naina Devi...But Naina won't tell the princi because she thinks with her head..She will shout at Sameer,the emotional fool,and hold him responsible for her pain,but when it comes to sharing his pain,Naina is nowhere to be seen.

Naina has indeed proved Vishaka right..Naina is always head over heart...She will never understand Sameer,who ,unfortunately,is an emotional fool.

I somehow think that after this reaction Naina has lost Sameer...this time there will be judaai..aur lambi waali...and the judaai will be initiated by Sameer and Naina might have to repent at leisure for her hasty reaction...just my thought...

Originally posted by: ruchi3179

Her anger was OK but slapping no.I can't justify it just because the girl slapped. If she is right than man also can be justified girl slapping if angry.so no.and she called sameer selfish which I didn't understand why.There shd nt be breakup but introspection shd be there in there problems. WHY SAMEER is unable to share his problems with her.

Originally posted by: A_ChaoticSoul

Naina is hurt, fine. She slapped him, fine. She said those words, fine. I won't point out what she should have said and what not.

But don't you think Naina today has proved Vishaka right in Sameer's view? Why this Practical-emotional point is so highlighted these days?

What you guys think, upto what extent her behaviour is justified?

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Naina's hurt is understandable.She is hurt that Sameer hid such a big thing from her and also failed in his exams.But her reaction is not justified.Before shouting at him and slapping him she did not spend even a second thinking about the pain and hurt that Sameer would have endured all these days.She did not convey any sympathy or comfort him either.Even if she had comforted him after shouting at him it would have been ok,but she never did that.

And most importantly she accused him of being selfish when ,in fact,Sameer's biggest fault is that he is selfless..He is stupid,no doubt,but he is utterly selfless.

I was surprised when she accused him of being selfish saying "Main main main.meri zindagi,mera faisla"...when actually Sameer had only thought of Naina while making the decision.And she followed this up by saying "Tumne kabhi socha ki iske baare mein jab mujhe pata chalega to mujhe kitna bura lagega.Main kaise is bojh ke saath jeeongi ki tum meri wajah se fail hue"...So who is being more selfish here?Sameer or Naina?..The first thought that enters her mind(after all Sameer has done for her) is how she will live with this burden.Never does she think how Sameer lived with this burden for so many days...

Wah re Naina,Maan gaye..Aapka sach mein topper wala dimaag hai...

Secondly if she loves Sameer so much as she claims,why doesn't she go now and tell the principal that she was the girl in the room?Maybe the princi might forgive Sameer and let him write the supplementary papers...If she doesn't let him write it,then Naina should share the punishment with Sameer,right?After all,she told Sameer"tumhi meri zaroorat the,zaroorat ho aur rahoge"..When they are two halves,then why not share his punishment?Then the so called guilt of living with the burden that Sameer failed because of her will also be reduced for Naina Devi...But Naina won't tell the princi because she thinks with her head..She will shout at Sameer,the emotional fool,and hold him responsible for her pain,but when it comes to sharing his pain,Naina is nowhere to be seen.

Naina has indeed proved Vishaka right..Naina is always head over heart...She will never understand Sameer,who ,unfortunately,is an emotional fool.

I somehow think that after this reaction Naina has lost Sameer...this time there will be judaai..aur lambi waali...and the judaai will be initiated by Sameer and Naina might have to repent at leisure for her hasty reaction...just my thought...

Originally posted by: rock&roll

And most importantly she accused him of being selfish when ,in fact,Sameer's biggest fault is that he is selfless..He is stupid,no doubt,but he is utterly selfless.

I was surprised when she accused him of being selfish saying "Main main main.meri zindagi,mera faisla"...when actually Sameer had only thought of Naina while making the decision.And she followed this up by saying "Tumne kabhi socha ki iske baare mein jab mujhe pata chalega to mujhe kitna bura lagega.Main kaise is bojh ke saath jeeongi ki tum meri wajah se fail hue"...So who is being more selfish here?Sameer or Naina?..The first thought that enters her mind(after all Sameer has done for her) is how she will live with this burden.Never does she think how Sameer lived with this burden for so many days...

Wah re Naina,Maan gaye..Aapka sach mein topper wala dimaag hai...

Secondly if she loves Sameer so much as she claims,why doesn't she go now and tell the principal that she was the girl in the room?Maybe the princi might forgive Sameer and let him write the supplementary papers...If she doesn't let him write it,then Naina should share the punishment with Sameer,right?After all,she told Sameer"tumhi meri zaroorat the,zaroorat ho aur rahoge"..When they are two halves,then why not share his punishment?Then the so called guilt of living with the burden that Sameer failed because of her will also be reduced for Naina Devi...But Naina won't tell the princi because she thinks with her head..She will shout at Sameer,the emotional fool,and hold him responsible for her pain,but when it comes to sharing his pain,Naina is nowhere to be seen.

Naina has indeed proved Vishaka right..Naina is always head over heart...She will never understand Sameer,who ,unfortunately,is an emotional fool.

I somehow think that after this reaction Naina has lost Sameer...this time there will be judaai..aur lambi waali...and the judaai will be initiated by Sameer and Naina might have to repent at leisure for her hasty reaction...just my thought...