Upto what extent Naina's behaviour is justified? - Page 3

Originally posted by: AMereWanderer

I think it's not the characters that are to be blamed, but the situation.

Both Sameer and Naina haven't been just emotional or just practical ever since they started being in a relationship. There have been instances where Naina has listened to her heart and Sameer has preferred logic (such as when Kartik and Sunaina had locked them both in the principal's office; Sameer wanted to break the glass so that they could escape however Naina decided to accept her love in front of the whole world and was ready to face the consequences.)

It's never about how emotional or practical you or your partner is in that relationship, it's about the balance between the two. Both Sameer and Naina love each other unconditionally, and thus wouldn't want to see the other suffer in any way. What Naina did yesterday wasn't entirely right, because it was the anger in her tone that reflected more than the slight hint of pain. However, she was upset because he had sacrificed his academics for her. She was mad at him, but angrier at herself for indirectly being the reason behind his failure. For a moment, she had been in awe of his selfless love, but the next moment her senses took over as she realized he had suffered academically because of her, for her. I still do long for a reconciliation where Sameer and Naina can both justify themselves and clear their misunderstandings.

As far as Vishakha is concerned, her words seem to echo in his mind every time it shouldn't. But that's the reality, we tend to remember those memories that give us pain more than those that give us happiness. Just how Sameer had always considered Dadi's cruel words during the manhoosiyat track over everyone else's. His heart and mind had been in constant battle even then, even then he had felt he wasn't right for Naina. But she had ended his darkness even then, and will do the same now too. (fingers crossed)

Just my opinion; my intention was not to offend or critique anyone. 😊

Originally posted by: AMereWanderer

I think it's not the characters that are to be blamed, but the situation.

Both Sameer and Naina haven't been just emotional or just practical ever since they started being in a relationship. There have been instances where Naina has listened to her heart and Sameer has preferred logic (such as when Kartik and Sunaina had locked them both in the principal's office; Sameer wanted to break the glass so that they could escape however Naina decided to accept her love in front of the whole world and was ready to face the consequences.)

It's never about how emotional or practical you or your partner is in that relationship, it's about the balance between the two. Both Sameer and Naina love each other unconditionally, and thus wouldn't want to see the other suffer in any way. What Naina did yesterday wasn't entirely right, because it was the anger in her tone that reflected more than the slight hint of pain. However, she was upset because he had sacrificed his academics for her. She was mad at him, but angrier at herself for indirectly being the reason behind his failure. For a moment, she had been in awe of his selfless love, but the next moment her senses took over as she realized he had suffered academically because of her, for her. I still do long for a reconciliation where Sameer and Naina can both justify themselves and clear their misunderstandings.

As far as Vishakha is concerned, her words seem to echo in his mind every time it shouldn't. But that's the reality, we tend to remember those memories that give us pain more than those that give us happiness. Just how Sameer had always considered Dadi's cruel words during the manhoosiyat track over everyone else's. His heart and mind had been in constant battle even then, even then he had felt he wasn't right for Naina. But she had ended his darkness even then, and will do the same now too. (fingers crossed)

Just my opinion; my intention was not to offend or critique anyone. 😊

Originally posted by: kb_always_96

@BOLD1 She didn't mean it that way! Its selfish in being selfless! He didn't consult or share it with Naina bcoz both were involved in it and he risked his career! It was his decision totally & only he couldn't give exams whereas Naina gave! So basically what he did was like his faisla and bcoz its his zindagi which is at stake!

@BOLD2 TBH she has the right to feel guilty bcoz Sameer couldn't give exams and she was one of the reason for it! Anybody will feel guilty! Why should she admit now, that too after a long time! That would be a stupid decision, instead some other thing could be done! Regarding supplementary exams, my college didn't have such, so i'm not sure!

@BOLD3 At some situations you need to think from head! Its not her fault, both didn't understand each other properly! Both of them have some insecurities and they need to sort out especially Sameer! Vishaka's words are ringing like anything in his head!

Originally posted by: meenachem

Maybe Naina's reaction was a bit too much but she is right in a sense. At least she realized that this act landed them up in trouble and Sameer lost a year. Both of them made a mistake of 'romancing' at their college. But, tbh, this was Sameer's fault for continously ignoring Naina when she tried to talk it out with him outside the premises of the college. Had he tried to talk with her instead of increasing the volumes of his radio and putting earphones, this situation wouldn't be cropped up.

Karthik had hugged her intentionally and Sameer knows Karthik and his behavior for a very long time. And, Vishaka is at fault here because she judged Naina in one-go. Without Naina's influence, Sameer would've become Karthik 2.0 even in his college years. Naina is imperfect but at least she thinks rationally at the same time. Sameer is ready to pay anything just to be with Naina but Sameer should realize that he is also studying as well.

Originally posted by: meenachem

Maybe Naina's reaction was a bit too much but she is right in a sense. At least she realized that this act landed them up in trouble and Sameer lost a year. Both of them made a mistake of 'romancing' at their college. But, tbh, this was Sameer's fault for continously ignoring Naina when she tried to talk it out with him outside the premises of the college. Had he tried to talk with her instead of increasing the volumes of his radio and putting earphones, this situation wouldn't be cropped up.

Karthik had hugged her intentionally and Sameer knows Karthik and his behavior for a very long time. And, Vishaka is at fault here because she judged Naina in one-go. Without Naina's influence, Sameer would've become Karthik 2.0 even in his college years. Naina is imperfect but at least she thinks rationally at the same time. Sameer is ready to pay anything just to be with Naina but Sameer should realize that he is also studying as well.

Originally posted by: meenachem

^Hey, what i meant is that he would continue to bet on girls just like he did in his teenage years before transforming into a better person.