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Wow hats off to CVs stupidity. Just to allow V to reject Naina they created such a stupid, negative image of Naina in yesterday's episode. She came across as an over confident, selfish, obsessed & cunning girl in that conversation. I would have been surprised if V had accepted Naina after that.
I agree Naina has many faults. She is stubborn, practical & also under confident about herself. Her low self confidence was the reason why she broke up with Sameer after SheJun fiasco. This self worth got degraded by everyone during the Sharad engagement fiasco- be it her in laws, her own family, her friends & even Sameer. Only Preeti stood by her during that trying phase. She has now just started realising her self worth after she has gained her Chacha's & Sameer's unconditional support. So the writers showed her in a negative light deliberately so that V can reject her. They could have shown V rejecting N just based on how S went in depression after their break up. But they went the extreme route just for creating more drama & misunderstandings in the future. S lied to N about V's acceptance, Mama Mami also against N & Sunaina confusion is still there. All this just to have S family against SN relationship.
Both S & N have many faults. N's major fault was when she tried to commit suicide to get S back. Other than that I have always understood N's logic behind decisions- even breaking up with S & her subservient behaviour with Sharad & her own family.
Similarly S has many faults. He has no serious plans about his career or studies yet. He clearly avoids taking tough decisions & is entirely too dependent on N for his happiness. He is smart but never takes any interest in anything for his own growth. He is a marvellous BF but love alone is not everything. He also has done many stupid things after N broke up with him. N broke up with him because she was afraid of her family's reaction to their relationship. S could have tried harder to calm down her fears by asking her to inform about their relationship to Chachaji together. This assurance was what was needed by N for her to be back with S wholeheartedly as we have seen after Chachaji approval. But S went on a different tangent- he begged, pleaded, tried to make her jealous & who can forget dating Sunaina. But all these incidents are overlooked because S is portrayed as a great lover for N. And generally female audience are more critical of FL than that of ML. That's the truth. They are always given a pass because they are so in love but the FL is always in the wrong.
Also I hate how CVs have shown S thinking that N was after him. When was she after him? Yes she had a crush on him, admired him, helped him & even gave blank calls to him. But she did all this from afar & never pursued S. She only showed her feelings openly to him once S reciprocated her feelings. Though he did it for bet but N was unaware of it. So I never get this that N S ke piche padi thi dialogue.
In fact right from start S is after N. If we see early episodes, S was the one who saw N first in the market. N was not even aware of him then. Based on his smile when passing the sorry note to her for chewing him you can see that he was affected by her then also & during their first face to face famous twirl meet, S was also mesmerized looking at N. After that when N was called to verify whether S was involved in the fight & N said yes he was, he deliberately focused his revenge plan on her. Ideally he should have taken revenge from that bet guy who actually provoked him to fight. N did not deliberately go & complaint about him. She was called upon as witness & she told the truth only. Why did S want to take revenge from her? I think sub consciously he already liked N, so any time N was involved in any negative incidents against him, he focussed on taking revenge from her only. When N & S had fall out after the paper cheating fiasco, even before bet was made S was trying to go after N. He was hurt that N could have low opinion about him. He expressed his hurt to her even in the market & later in school was deliberately trying to talk with her & give explanation & expected explanation from N as well. After that during bet phase it was clearly shown how he started falling for N.
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