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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysterious17

Well said
Hey!! U r a navya fan..me too

Yeah ,was a big of Navya/Anya
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Posted: 6 years ago
#12
I completely support your view point.. its not about wrong or right its about limits and boundries in relationships in any decade..
If the gal is not into intimacy or does not feel comfortable taking the relationship forward in any ways she is not comforatbale with .. the boy pushing for it is just not acceptable..

yes all have emotions and hormones surge.. but those who can tame them at the right time...go a long way in any relationship...

Samina are going to be watched closely by rival gang and it seems chachaji too... I dont think its right at this stage/second year of college for Sameer to take their relationship to this level...

Being in a relationship for 3 or 13 yrs does not give him right to be pushy...

I love his antics and if Naina is willing .. all's well.. but she is not.. and thats what I find a little difficult to digest for Sameer to go high speed ON with Kiss and blouse dori today...

just my POV.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#13
Though in today's episode we saw him tying dori with mischievous smile but he didn't touch her to make her uncomfortable... In fact he was just enjoying and admiring her lady love... Somewhere he sees her as already his wife and that's why is opening up now which is normal. On the other hand naina is still naive and under pressure and bound by promises so she is also right... And with this kind of increasing proximity its important that somebody should put some sense otherwise emotions have no limits ...
My POV.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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definitely she isn't wrong, being a girl from 90s era she is right, they are taught like that only and abhi bhi toh hamare parents bolte hain and hum dar bhi jate hain buy ignore karke physical relation hota hain lekin ush time mein toh nai hota tha, so Naina is definitely not wrong. And Sam is also not wrong, he just want hug and kiss and I think 90s k Bacche itne sanskari bhi nai the 3/4 sal mein relation mein padhne k baat hug and kiss toh hota tha, and hug and kiss buri baat bhi nai hain, yes agar kisi ne dekha toh hangama hota tha so dar hota tha, Naina bhi chahati hain but somewhere she is scared ki agar ko mistake hogaya toh, warna Kyun waise dream dekhti and canteen mein Bhi toh bola tha ki she want to hug Sam so she wants but usko joh sikhaya gaya oh teaching stop karraha hain. So neither of them are wrong, Sam jaisa ladka hain so I will say no one is wrong
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Sameer behaving like typical love stuck boy who just following his emotions 😆😆 And Naina acting as per the family instructions given since her childhood... 😃😃 Both are right and wrong 😳 Only time and events can make both come out of their phases
ultimately it will have to be Naina coming out of her boundaries a bit and Sameer realizing his boundaries a bit... so that both can balance out the relationship 😳
Actually that dori thing was big for a girl 😃😃 Iss harkat pe to Preeti bhi dekh leti to bahar nikaal deti Sameer ko 😆😆
Naina will be the one to Kiss first once she is comfortable to move forward 😳
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Agree that both are not wrong. They have different upbringing and understanding each other's comfort level and each other's wishes is what makes a relationship strong.

In 3 years these two have come a long way in falling deeper in their love but physical intimacy will have to come on its own to Naina or anyone and can't be forced. Sameer is constantly reminding her about the kiss and if he continues she will be dead scared to be alone with him. I hope today Sameer has understood her fear and how she considers the act as a sin.

From the looks of it either something will go wrong as in Sameer trying and she resisting and someone clicking pictures or Naina opening up for the hug/kiss and still someone taking pictures of them.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Naina is not wrong in her pavitra pyaar belief!! But she is wrong in punishing Sameer

It's a relationship.. Punishments pe nhi chalta rishta!! You need to understand each other's POV and put forth yours in a better way than punishing the other
Even if the punishment is as small as making him wear traditional gujju dress, but the intention of punishing him won't be small everytime
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Naina is not wrong neither Sameer. For Sameer, Naina is more like a wife than a girlfriend. So he is feeling that haq on her to demand kiss from her. On the other hand Naina also considers him as husband but she is bound by her conservative upbringing and promises that she made to Chachaji. Even though she was saying no to Sameer but was getting blushed so much that Sameer started enjoying that effect on her. It is clear in yesterday's episode that the more he was asking more she was blushing. But after dori scene he realized the real pain behind those blushing. He realized the situation of her and how much trouble he is giving her by repeatedly asking for kiss. That is why he accepted the punishment given by Naina.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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M actually enjoying being In this forum... Discussing things about relationship and intimacy... Feeling like love gurus.. 🤣
Jokes apart... I totally agree with @jaysee, @mehraan, @appukrish,@sushi99,and@myprimechicago. His looks and smile while accepting punishment was telling that he has understood naina's hesitation and pain and will now onwards he will take the things slow because for him her comfort is top priority. 😊
Edited by Mesmita - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#20
Like most of the responses here, I feel both are right in their respective places. Naina is coming from extremely conservative family where she can't even tell her chachi that she wants to get waxing done and Sam comes from a family where 2nd marriage is okay. There is a vast difference in the mindset of people. She's worried because she doesn't want to cross her limits and her limits start from hugging while Sameer feels that limits are not crossed by showing sweet gestures of love like a hug or a kiss on a cheek. I feel their love will find its way to intimacy when the right time comes as Sameer is not forcing anything on Naina. She will just find her way to it with Sameer being her guiding light. :)

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