Does anyone feels Naina is wrong

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Posted: 6 years ago
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After watching today's episode somewhere I feel Sameer has still not understood the limit or intimacy in their relationship. In those days acceptance of relationship specially for love marriages were big thing. Although I love Sameer's character, he has been a awesome boyfriend,,, but somewhere he needs to slow down in the intimacy part to understand her.

I can understand Chachajis reluctancy, today for the first time the fear he sensed if Naina and Sameer gets carried away in there relationship.

No bashing pls just put forth my point.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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As I'm a 90s kid I totally agree with Naina. We were brought up like that. I don't think there's much change these days too. It's true there were hormonal surges but we were always aware of society and family restrictions so never ever tried to cross the limits.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I can understand what you mean. I think Sameer has understood the limits but after being in a relationship with Naina for three years, he has seen their comfort level progress. We need to understand that Sameer is extremely aware in terms of intimacy and its limits whereas Naina seems to have minimal knowledge.
Him trying to push that limit doesn't just hint at raging hormones but also shows that he wants to open that door for Naina. To make her realise that hugging and kissing on the cheek are not the all it of intimacy. It stretches far beyond. That there are deeper levels which I believe Sameer will never cross.
Edited by IamIbe - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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No naina is nt wrong we girls don't go by flow we have some inhibitions
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonika.divyansh

No naina is nt wrong we girls don't go by flow we have some inhibitions

neither of them is wrong, they just need to find a footing to balance between desire and love
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think ,sameer is wrong too
As they are been relation for 3yrs so little intimacy is not wrong and he is not forcing anything on her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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For me both sameer n naina are right in their respective places.. The upbringing both have is totally different here bt it doesn't mean that sameer upbringing is totally making him demand intimacy or he is brought in much cooler way than naina so he feels Ohk to kiss n hug it's just a boy thing n a lil bit of upbringing matters to I am here nt demeaning sameer Upbringing just trying to say his grandfather Ws his friend, his grandfather made her daughter get married again which speaks a lot abt sameer different perspective of life or abt life whereas naina comes from a conservative family where a girl isn't allowed to speak their opinion plus girls do hesitate to get intimate even today . Sameer is a growing adult n be it 90's or today's times boys after certain period of time in their relationship demands intimacy we girls tends to hesitant, feels shy or think it's inappropriate to do it before marriage bt if girls have a boy like sameer they do give in n shed their inhibitions.. Bt I guess I am loving this process of intimacy between samaina it's absolutely real what they are showing.. I am loving it n want to see what romance is lying ahead.. N trust me CVS better show naina taking advances towards sameer as Zamana chahe Jo ho a girl is equally physically attracted like a boy is bt ways of expressing is different n I want sameer to mke naina realise what they are doing is nt crossing line if they don't it I will be fine bt I want like sameer naina should feel physical attraction as its also a imp aspect of a healthy relationship. .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: soniadutta

I don't think ,sameer is wrong too

As they are been relation for 3yrs so little intimacy is not wrong and he is not forcing anything on her.

Well said
Hey!! U r a navya fan..me too
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Posted: 6 years ago
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If you look at the dori scene, Sam confesses that even though he was asking for a kiss from Naina he froze for a moment seeing Naina like that and he could not move. That shows how he is also very much a 90s kid with good upbringing. And whatever he does he respects Naina's wishes and it's a slow progression. Naina will also realise about the physical aspects and it will be a journey for both of them. Can't wait..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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It shows the mindset of 2 diff personalities, backgrounds thy come from...They are gals like Su, kamya who jumped on physicality without delving deeper into constraints... n they are gals like Naina n preeti who are ingrained right from start the limits ...the conservative nature n the dos n donts what is right n rong...the societal pressures ...I dont blame Sam nor Naina...Both r right at their places n stance...!!For Sam he is ready to jump ahead , progress in his relationship...He has been keeping his desires on a hold for a long while n its normal from his side to xpress it out...For Naina...shes being this naive sheltered gal who has not been xposed to ideas of intimacy n with every step coming in proximity wit Sam...shes finding it anew whole xperience of love that is fluttering her from inside...making her alive ...but at the other side shes fighting the temptation not to sway in easily ...its absolutely justified from her stand...She wud progress with baby steps...😆😆 n Sam wud be the willing teacher 😉
Edited by mehraan - 6 years ago

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