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I literally miss the days when everyone was so positive in the forum.
PS : This post is not for people who give constructive criticism which is always welcome. This post is for people who are so negative.
OK guys I tried to not to write this but could not stop myself.
1) Naina does not deserve sameer - yeah and why just because she was afraid that she would end up hurting the guy whom she loves so much just because she kept her family high ( basically her chacha ji because of whom she had become what she is ). Is it wrong to prioritize your family?. For god sake she is a teenager who is still dealing with her fears. Please don't except her to be a matured woman at this age and she will commit mistakes. Naina is not going to be any mahaant ki Murat girl. I understand guys after getting used of female leads being so perfect and bechari seeing a female lead who makes mistakes and is flawed is not easy to accept but still don't bash her. Your deserving or undeserving words will not change the fact that Naina and sameer are together after everything happily. I'm happy to find a flawed character like Naina who is flawed and impulsive just like me. I have been having a crush upon one boy from my 12th standard and I still does not have the guts to confess to him, one reason is that I fear rejection and second my family may not approve it. There was boy in ninth standard who was back of me, I liked him but never said yes because I knew the consequences I will pay for my yes. I know naina did not think about her family till some time and was living in her own bubble but the truth hit her too hurt and shefali's words had so much effect on her. She took her decision. She is domaint on sameer only because he gives her freedom that family never gave and sameer allows her because he feels happy that she claims her right on him.
2) sameer does not have self respect - There is thin line between ego, arrogance and self respect. Sameer was trying to fight for his love so he does not have self respect, naina did the same time in manhoos time so even she does not have self respect. Slow for this brilliant thinking. Naina was one person because of whom sameer dealt so much in life including nanu's death so he tried to fight for his love. So that's wrong. Yeah I know you people will be more happy if sameer would have manhandled Naina and abused her. You people can't digest the fact that how come the male lead is being so gentleman after what the female lead had put him through . How come he understands the female lead and her fears so well?. Sorry if you have signed a show where you want to see male lead all abusive and female lead bechari sorry you're in wrong place, you can see gul's shows for that. Sameer can be flawed male character but not abusive. He even can be little bit grey shaded but not someone who will manhandle women. Television audience has a illusion that if the lead hero abuses the female lead he is grey shaded character all thanks to gul Khan and her shows. Grey shaded character and abusive characters are so different. Siddhant sinha of yeh pyaar nahi toh kya hai is one of the grey shaded character and sso of ishqbaaz is abusive male lead and there lays the whole difference.
3) naina deserves someone like sharad : this is worst I have heard. I don't know what to write about this. I think you people like so much of abusive male leads. You have the same thinking which taiji and rakesh has. Your not less regressive than taiji's mindset. Congratulations but your wish will not turn truth anytime till sameer maheshwari is there and CVS are far better than doing this.
4) naina and sameer does not deserve each other : I signed up for a show where I wanted to see both male lead and female lead falling in love, making mistakes, learning from it. I did not want both of them to be flawless. I'm happy that this show has that. I'm happy sameer and Naina withstanding every storm with their love. I am happy sameer and Naina had done equal amount of mistakes and are balancing their love. Yeah I'm happy when one becomes weaker the other maintains the balance by putting more effects till the other becomes stable enough. I'm happy with each stage their relationship is becoming more stronger. Applauds for CVS for not getting discouraged by the negativity and portraying what they want to. Applauds for audience who sees the positivity in midst of little negativity.
I repeat don't except sameer and Naina to behave matured all of sudden. They are still teenagers they will behave like that and they will slowly turn matured but not all of sudden.
Yeh un dinno ki bateein is one show which I did not leave after 260 episodes and I don't plan to leave in future also because this show is a gem compared to all other shows on television and plus it gives equal importance to friendship also. It's not only about sameer and Naina, it's about all other bonds. It's about 90's society mentality. It's about how our society has not changed regarding girls and continues to be regressive. How people like taiji and rakesh exist in the society. Yeah I love sameer and Naina for being flawed. I will be always be grateful for shashi sumeet production and Sony TV for this show.
People who still can't understand sameer and Naina's love as the pov of Naina states the love which she and sameer had can't be found in today's world so no one can understand it in today's world . So it's ok people if you can't understand it. You're welcome to leave the show but please don't ruin the experience for others by your negativity. You can gracefully leave the forum because I want my forum which was filled with positivity .
Recently I read a post in forum which said naina could happily watch sameer jumping off the roof in front of family and move on after three days of shedding tears when her family finds other match. Wow which show was the person watching? It was the same Naina who burned her hands to feel sameer's pain? Naina agrawal could have died the next minute if sameer had done anything like that. Naina did not do any suicide drama in the terrace, it hit her hard that she put sameer through so much after munna's word and she could not tolerate munna questioning about her love. In her impulsiveness she took the decision. Naina had never taken sameer's love for granted dare anyone tell me about this. Sameer and Naina love each other equally and that's the truth.
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