I'm done with negativity and my point of pov - Page 3

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Posted: 7 years ago
#21
Loved it loved it. You are really bang on. Thank you for the wonderful update. Hopre people will stop negativity here after. Nicely written. People are forgetting the fact that we are here for samaina not for sameer alone or for naina alone.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Dil le lo! Beautiful post. Kudos for spreading positivity. I agree woth each and every word of the post.
There is no place for ego in a relationship. People who bring ego into one either stay unhappy, make theor partner unhappy or just end up alone.

It was Naina's guilt that drove her towards such irrational behaviour. Who aaid she was happy after leaving Sam...she was dying inside each and every day. How scary and horrifying it would have been for her to be suddenly pushed into an unwanted alliance. The thought of living with some one except Sam for the rest of her life must have been so scary!!!

The emotions portrayed helplessness, jealousy, guilt etc were so real.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Loved reading the positive post and also knowing that so many of us support this view!! Really some are writing so much negative about Naina that I get pissed off reading them..calling her psycho, manipulative and what not!!
Yes, both Naina and Sameer have flaws in them but the most important thing is they both are madly in love with each other. And when you love someone so madly there is nothing like ego, self respect etc. And wherever these things crop up between lovers, husband and wife, partners, misunderstanding starts and people start drifting apart. This is what I feel.

So we should be happy that our leads are till now not touched by those emotions. Even during the separation, even if Naina heard Sameer talking so bad about her, she understood Sameer and never nursed any ill feelings for him in her heart. Same with Sameer. Even if Naina rejected his proposal at one moment, the next moment he was there beating the shit out of Sharad as he had dared to hit his naina!!!

So let's keep the positivity in the forum and keep loving the beautiful characters of our show!!

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you so much for this post, this was so needed..it seems people have decided here that one character is so good that he can do no wrong and the other no matter what seem to be doing it all wrong..who are we to judge her? Those who care for her understood her and are not bashing her but we have become the judges and are going on a continuous war against her!
Ah I feel sorry for this view..
It's odd, you don't feel like reading posts and comments because they are disturbing..I so wish we get our happy forum back..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with all of you. The moment we bring ego in a relationship then that means it is the end of that relationship. The side of Naina that Sameer knows is completely different from all others because she reveals it only to him. Same with Sameer also. If we remember even during the school days when there was only one sided love from Naina they shared those details of their life which even their close friends don't know (debate preparation episode).Those letters during Delhi phase and late night calls on most of the days helped them to know each other a lot. In real life also it is same. We know that face of our partner which entire world is not aware of, let it be good or bad. So our understanding level of each other is also different from others.
It is because of this understanding Samaina can read each other's mind without uttering a word. That's why even if they say wrong about each other they still know that it is not from their heart and they ignore those words and will be there to help each other.
Even if it was not shown we all know what all Naina did for Sameer. She was the first one to give a caring hand towards him in the form of sweater and by taking care of Nanaji and subsequently taking all punishments from Kumud teacher for not being there for debate. These two incidents created such a huge impact in Sameer. Then came the roti incident. When his hand got burn while making roti in Mt. Abu, it was Naina who shared her roti with him. Even before that also she shared her food when she came to know that he is not having enough food. Then came the incident in which she made him sleep in her room ignoring all its consequences. Sameer, who always craved for love and care got it from Naina. The basement of their love is made up of these incidents. There is no place for ego in their relationship.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Wowww lovely post ...much needed one amidst all the bashing and negativity ...
I loved last week's episodes... except Monday ...
But other four compensated it beautifully ...

The only grouse I hv is that they hvnt had a clear conversation ,but I am sure it will come up some time
CV'S are not fools to let go off such grave situation ...

We all were banging our heads about the card
Didn't that make a come back ?

Even this jumping off the building attempt by Naina will surely come up again
PL hv faith in the CV'S and let them do their job
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Excellent post and I totally agree with all points...I just love YUDKBH and I just love how real our Sameer and Naina are compared to leads from other shows..these are genuine...a dream love story of 2 totally different people but they have accepted each other with all the flaws ...fandom here is so used to seeing abusive arrogant men cornering the meek woman and women being submissive they can't fathom some real characters. I am no way quitting the show but the makers should not take the fans for granted too.
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