Sharad-Too good to be true?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Seeing the jet speed at which Naina's rishta is happening,I have a strong feeling that something is wrong with Sharad or his family.I am talking purely from a practical perspective,ie,real life scenario.
The rishta basically seems too good to be true and experience tells us that if something seems too good to be true,it probably is not true.

These are the reasons I smell a rat

1)Rishta was brought in by Taiji.

We know that Taiji cares two hoots for Naina.She would be least bothered about her welfare or getting her into a good family

2) The proposal came up way too fast.
Taiji had hardly started looking when the proposal came up.And Sharad's family liked Naina's photo and almost rushed to meet her the very next day. Isn't that really rushing things?
It is almost like "Let us look at this girl and fix things up before someone else takes her away".Now why would they be in such a hurry?

3) They agreed to the marriage within seconds.
Now why would ANYBODY in his/her right mind do that?In a typical arranged marriage scenario,people look at the girl and then go home and think about it.

They discuss the details with their relatives and sometimes the boy and girl enquire about each other discreetly.Then (after 2-3 days or more),they give an answer.

But Sharad's family is acting like Prithviraj Chauhan coming to whisk away Samyukta.They saw Naina ,had a 40 second discussion right there and made the decision then and there.Shagun bhi ho gaya...Why the hurry?Are they afraid that delaying might reveal some unpleasant truths?

4)No Dowry:
Don't get me wrong,but from the way Taiji went on about "No demands",I understand that it was a big deal to find a family that made no demands in the 1990s.
Now the question is why are they going against the grain and making no demands?There are two possibilities
a)They are genuinely very good people and don't believe in dowry
b)They have something to hide and want this marriage to go through ASAP.

If they are really good people,then they would have options galore.
The family seemed middle class to me.Sharad is actually good looking and very young(21 maybe?).He is doing his CA and has bright prospects.He is the only son.Plus there are no demands. Sone pe Suhaga. So the family has almost no downside.In that case,they can pick and choose their girl.They will really scour the market for girls and will not be in a hurry to finalize anything

.I am not saying that there is something wrong with Naina,but what I am saying is that a boy like Sharad will have so many rishtas coming for him.There will be so much to choose and compare.In fact,such people will even end up looking at 3-4 girls in a span of 2 days.So why the hasty decision?it simply doesn't fit.

The reason for the hasty decision could be that they have been scouring the ,market for ages but didn't find a suitable girl.That begs the question .When the family is so perfect,why didn't they find a girl?Is it because there is something about them that Naina's people don't know but others came to know?I strongly believe so. Sharad wale Daal mein pucca kuch kaala hai.


I have a feeling that they will try to hurry up the marriage too .This is when some unpleasant truth about them will come to light.How will that happen?Hmm,my guess...Sam will find out something about the family(coincidentally or by digging around,after all his Mama is so well connected and knows everyone in the city).He will inform Chachaji(the only sane person in the household who can listen to logic)...and the rishta is broken...😃..I am not sure,the latter part is wishful thinking,of course.

But I do believe that the rishta will be broken at the eleventh hour because there will be some problem with Sharad's family/Sharad.This will cause a lot of badnaami for the Agrawals.It will also effectively put an end to Taiji looking for rishtas for Naina.

Do share your views on how you think things will proceed.


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Samaina12 thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sharad is below average looking.
In 90s there were families that did not take dowry too but that' not the point we needd to worry about.

The pace at which ladki dekhna- sharad's creepy looks - mcp behaviour of only his approval matters - shagun on the same day indicates foulplay from tthe boy's side.

At the outset people here may think the guy is husband
Material by middle class standards, but its quite normal in 90s or even today that people whootherwise appear
ideal are neither ideal nor remotely good.

Its not because of ekta soaps but because i have seen such ideal looking men and women turn out
to be fraudsters that i feel this sharad is neither good looking nor a good human to begin with.

Being brutally honest, his parents give me pimp kind of vibes. Specially the father.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very true but baad mein chahe unlogo ki waja se ristha kyun na tute but sunna toh Naina ko padega coz ph ek ladki hai. Bhar walo ki toh chodo ghar k andar sochte hain, taiji toh bichari ko jinda maregi, Rakesh kuch der naina phar se hone ka and uske upar boz Honeka realize karwayega, Sam ka pata nai, dono k bich thik hua ya nai agar nai hua toh sam ka ignorance and taunt k saath saath mundit ka taunt bhi sunna padega. Cvs please yesa mat dikhana already bahut toot Chuki hain
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I also got same kind of bad vibes by seeing Sharad and family. Everything is happening too fast.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi RnR
You seem to be right, why they are in so much hurry?

But Anand is a CA, he can contact Mr.Virani and find out about the guy but CVs deliberately put him aside during ridhta thing?Why so?
Maybe Anand will be one who will find the truth.


But on personally, I don't want this tried and tested formula by almost all Indian CVs when they make third angle bad and hence it's easier for two good protagonists.
I want something creative idea from CVs

I predict some Kundali mein dosh thing will be planted in Groom's side by Sam and Co and this will break the rishta.
They didn't check Kundali, right? It was only pic and rishta happened.
And who is the best person to do so than baba SM himself?😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ross-

Hi RnR

You seem to be right, why they are in so much hurry?

But Anand is a CA, he can contact Mr.Virani and find out about the guy but CVs deliberately put him aside during ridhta thing?Why so?
Maybe Anand will be one who will find the truth.


But on personally, I don't want this tried and tested formula by almost all Indian CVs when they make third angle bad and hence it's easier for two good protagonists.
I want something creative idea from CVs

I predict some Kundali mein dosh thing will be planted in Groom's side by Sam and Co and this will break the rishta.
They didn't check Kundali, right? It was only pic and rishta happened.
And who is the best person to do so than baba SM himself?😉

it's not about indian soaps showing 3rd angle in bad light .but in cases where shagun/ engagement is done without proper investigations, 99.9% of them turn out to be fraud. I have examples in family and friends..where in one case bride turned out to be fraud and in another groom. But then they found out after wedding so both marriages ended in bitter divorces.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina12

it's not about indian soaps showing 3rd angle in bad light .but in cases where shagun/ engagement is done without proper investigations, 99.9% of them turn out to be fraud. I have examples in family and friends..where in one case bride turned out to be fraud and in another groom. But then they found out after wedding so both marriages ended in bitter divorces.


And I really want this groom to be a fraudster. Firstly, I want a big blow to those three devils in Agarwal house and secondly he was too much demanding with Naina.

If they show kundali dosh, Taiji will keep on ranting that Naina is born to be unlucky and all. I hate whenever she starts that bin maa ki bacchi jaap.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Rock & Roll.

You have stated very practical points. That is going to be the most probable way for this separation & marriage tack to end.

I am just extending it a little further as would like your view on "How it will proceed after that if it plays out like you said.

As you stated the post in a practical way, I would love to know how you view the following questions.

Sam might help in breaking the marriage but at the same time he would have witnessed Naina sitting on the marriage alter with another guy.

Sameer though might save Naina but he is bound to feel that Naina did eventually select her family and their decision, completely overlooking the immense pain and void he is going through. It was as if she was not bothered what happens to him.

In a practical sense, he would realise that when it came to choose between him and her so called family, he was no where in picture. Naina did discard him from her life like a dirt, irrespective whether she was hurting or not.

Do you think, he will still be so mad in love that he would forget everything and run after Naina again?

Wouldn't Sameer lose the immense trust he had and develop a pragmatic way of looking at Naina ?

And, Naina, How would she react ? She will escape the marriage and in few days will start expecting Sameer to forget all the pain she gave and be friends again (eventually claiming her love)

As you stated how you think the marriage will be halted, so would be nice to know how you feel the dynamics will process after that ?

Regards
Edited by Dr.Don - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very logical point, rock&roll.
Since Naina is not doing much to prevent the shaadi so some miracle has to happen. Sharad wali daal kaali hone se hee kuchh ho sakta hai. Otherwise Naina would be doing teej and karva chauth for her patidev jo Dilip Virani se bhi bada CA banega! And Baba Bholuram Pune ke ashram mei manjeere baja rahe honge.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Right now I will be happy with anything that unites samaina ...Be it anything...Yesterday precap was heartbreaking ...

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