Sam anger is justified but does naina deserves this?

Sam anger is justified but that doesn't mean naina is wrong or she is not feeling his pain.What would Sam do if he is in naina's place n Vishaka is in SS place n Vishaka tries to attempt sucide? At least she cleared things n accepted that she wanted to end this relationship because of her family but during Manhusyat track when he returned from delhi did he clarified naina why he want to distance from her.During manhusyat track even naina made many trails to bring him back but not not even once naina felt to anger on Sam like she won't think talk to him or see his face etc etc. During manhusyat track Sam spent quality time with mundit but now did anyone found naina spending quality time with her friends. Even naina was not a toy at that time.She is also broken after all Sam is only man who treated her with love n respect .She is all lost n not even trying to find other means to move on

Pyar kabhi soch samaj ke kiya nehi jata. Agar 3 years pehle naina ko pata chalta ki Agarwals n Maheshwari's mein kabhi rishta nehi hoti toh she would have never dreamt about Sam n same way agar Sam ko pehle pata hota ki he'll fall for padaku bhenji boring ladki se pyar karega would he ever made a bet? No doubt naina loved Sam from day1 but she never tried to express her feeling until bet is started. Sam was saying naina started this love story as for him it was only a bet. But without bet naina would have never confessed her feelings. The only mistake naina did is deciding to end relationship on side without taking Sam opinion but Sam too did same with naina in manhusyat track .At that time even she was not a toy n she also deserves make decision regarding separation but she understood sam understood his state of mind n never felt ditched.Sam was not wrong but he should go back n think once what he had did

As of now naina not only thinking about her family trust family reputation but also don't want hurt Sam by giving him more hopes. I still remember during manhusyat track once when Naina visted Sam home to convince him to join in same college he was scared that koi dekhlenge(family members).Now he made naina rishta talk in front of taiji n chachi where arjun's khand is on full swing in their family.Now taiji is planning to naina get married soon after this rishta talk.Does naina deserves this?

Sry for long post Sam anger is justified but that doesn't mean that naina is treating him like a toy or she is happily chilling in her life. End of d day we all want Samina together

P.S :- As far as onscreen I love both Sam n naina equally but being a girl can't hear that naina is selfish or not understanding Sam .Don't call me Sam hater or naina lover.Hope healthy discussions

Both are right from their point of view. Both are bleeding equally.

Currently situation is real villain.

Love between a man and a woman is a selfish one . They will never like to share each other with any one. That's the nature of love between life partners!! So , you will tend to see selfish traits in this track. May it be Naina deciding to break the relationship , may it be Sameer wanting to be in this relationship.
This storm is started by Naina. According to me , there was no need to raise one. It's her brother who messed up the situation why should she destroy her life because of that. When she saw her brother not standing by Shefali ,father trying to commit suicide and Shefali questioning her loyalty in love , she got confused. This is not a matter of life and death. She could wait a lil while to take a decision.THE RULE OF LIFE IS WHEN CONFUSED IN SUCH CASES NEVER HURRY IN TAKING DECISION. PLAY IT SLOW , else , 99% it will lead to trouble.
If she had decided to live her life with out taking such a drastic step , rather talking about her fears to Sameer and telling him that she needed a lil time to figure out things...as she is scared..this much of mess up wouldn't have happened. She has lied many a times even to chacha and chachi..so one more lie how does it matter?? Do you think later when they get to know about this they will forgive thinking she has sacrificed her love for them...I doubt. Chacha Chachi will never open their mouth in front of the elders of their family in such cases. This is 90s conservative middle-class family!! Elders are always right !!.
She should have learnt from what Sameer had done to her just out of fear of loosing her. She is repeating the mistake , its her fear which is making her do all this. She is screaming loud saying that she doesn't want to hurt chacha chachi but that is only a small part of the truth. Her affection to them is more of obligation and not entirely love.
LOVE IS FOR SAMEER BECAUSE SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO SEE HIM SAD AND BROKEN WHEN HER OBLIGATION WILL FORCE HER TO CHOOSE HER FAMILY. THIS IS A MAJOR MISTAKE!! BECAUSE NOW SHE WILL SEE A BROKEN SAMEER!! THE THING THAT SHE WAS FEARING AND WAS RUNNING AWAY FROM WILL BE THERE RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER. HER OWN GUILT WILL NEVER LET HER BE HAPPY.
I felt bad for her as she was not able to see logic . The weight of obligation and affection was blinding her in such a way that she was not able to do justice to herself, her family or to her love.

Originally posted by: kranti

Currently situation is real villain.

Naina and Sameer both are too much in pain.. Both can't understand what to do to be forever with each other with consent of family specially naina.. She is in too much family pressure.. .

Sameer is shattered because his life entirely revolves around only naina .its like she is her his eyes and someone is taking his eyes and he could not see anything without her..

Actually both are in too much love to leave each other or drew apart..

Naina rishta is Only initiated by her tayji and chacha chachi are unaware of same.. I think as per yesterday's iv of tayji and chachiji along with Naina go to restaurant to meet Grooms's family where Sameer along with his family is also there where he will silently watch entire thing and how Naina is in pressure by family members.

Naina is not wrong but yest she was harsh to him by telling

Originally posted by: haritha45

Sam anger is justified but that doesn't mean naina is wrong or she is not feeling his pain.What would Sam do if he is in naina's place n Vishaka is in SS place n Vishaka tries to attempt sucide? At least she cleared things n accepted that she wanted to end this relationship because of her family but during Manhusyat track when he returned from delhi did he clarified naina why he want to distance from her.In during manhusyat track even naina made many trails to bring him back but not not even once naina felt to anger on Sam like she won't think habout him etc etc. During manhusyat track Sam spent quality track with mundit but now did anyone found naina spending time quality time with her friends. Even naina was not a toy at that time.She is also broken after all Sam is only man who treated with love n respect .She is all lost n not even trying to find other means to move on

Pyar kabhi soch samaj ke kiya nehi jata. Agar 3 years pehle naina ko pata chalta ki Agarwals n Maheshwari's mein kabhi rishta nehi hoti toh she would have never dreamt about Sam n same way agar Sam ko pehle pata hota ki he'll fall for for padaku bhenji boring ladki se pyar karega would he ever made a bet? No doubt naina loved Sam from day1 but she never tried to express her feeling until bet is started. Sam was saying naina started this love story as for him it was only a bet. But without bet naina would have never confessed her feelings. The only mistake naina did is deciding to end relationship on side without taking Sam opinion but Sam to did same with naina in manhusyat track .At that time even she was not a toy n she also deserves make decision regarding separation but she understood sam understood state of mind n never felt ditched.Sam was not wrong but he should go back n think once what he had did

As of now naina not only thinking about her family trust family reputation but also don't want hurt Sam by giving him more hopes. I still remember during manhusyat track once when Naina visted Sam home to convince him to join in same college he was scared that koi dekhlenge(family members).Now he made naina rishta talk in front of taiji n chachi where arjun's khand is on full swing in their family.Now taiji is planning to naina get married soon after this rishta talk.Does naina deserves this?

Sry for long post Sam anger is justified but that doesn't mean that naina is treating him like a toy or she is happily chilling in her life. End of d day we all want Samina together

P.S :- As far as onscreen I love both Sam n naina equally but being a girl can't hear that naina is selfish or not understanding Sam .Don't call me Sam heter or naina lover.Hope healthy discussions

Originally posted by: haritha45

Naina is in family pressure .If sam faces same situation what will he do?I'm not saying he is wrong but rishta talk with taiji is really a dangerous move now if once naina rishta is fixed with other boy she will definitely won't accept that boy according to her wish n she also can't elope with Sam keeping her family reputation in mind.In deed in such situations girls attempt suicide as they can't imagine as their husband

At least Sam has mama mami n mundit to reduce his pain if once naiina rishita is fixed then chacha chachi n preeti can't help her.If she commits suicide then can Sam ever come out of his guilt?

yeap... even i have a strong feelings that something like this naina will try if her marriage was fixed... but we shouldn't forget our biggest samaina shipper SS...may be he'll disagree about samaina 's marriage initially but if he get to know that taiji doesn't want naina get married to a rich family otherwise he'll showoff his rich sil...then i think he'll be the 1st one who agreed for their marriage.

Originally posted by: haritha45

Naina is in family pressure .If sam faces same situation what will he do?I'm not saying he is wrong but rishta talk with taiji is really a dangerous move now if once naina rishta is fixed with other boy she will definitely won't accept that boy according to her wish n she also can't elope with Sam keeping her family reputation in mind.In deed in such situations girls attempt suicide as they can't imagine as their husband

At least Sam has mama mami n mundit to reduce his pain if once naiina rishita is fixed then chacha chachi n preeti can't help her.If she commits suicide then can Sam ever come out of his guilt?

but i have full trust on preeti... she'll make sure her sister get the happiness she deserve. if taiji fixed naina 's rista... then preeti will make sure that it was taiji only who broke this rista too.