Sam anger is justified but does naina deserves this? - Page 2

They both are only teenagers who have just started seeing what life is...And what could a hardship means...

Both are right but now I think they don't need to drag breakup more can't see them like this. Sameer bhi galat nai hain but usne bhi same decision liya tha bina Naina
Ko kuch bataye bina manoosh track mein. It was only Naina who didn't giveup and went behind him. I wanted this dialogue for Naina when manoosh track was going. So sameer ko thoda uska point of view samach k samjana chaiye tha dheere dheere but unone jealousy ka path chuna joh Naina ka aur frustrate karta Gaya and upaa se bar bar chacha ka trust wala dialouge and Taiji ki sadhi ki baat ne bilkul thod diya use. Naina ne pehele kadam uthaya tha unke Pyar mein toh she should understand sameer's pain too. Uski family Chilayegi and thodi din baat thik honge, agarwals k pass unke Chiran hain but sameer k pass toh koi bhi nai. He is not able to think anything. I hope cvs won't drag this track now and end the breakup track coming week. But mein smaeer ki kal ki baat se 100% sehemat hu. I was waiting kab sameer yeh dialogue bolega and Maine yeh dialogue breakup start hone k baat same point of view diya tha. Naina thodi wrong toh hain, now she should understand ki suru usne kiya tha, aab oh sameer ko bich rashthe mein Nai chod sakti.

Originally posted by: isratnaina

but i have full trust on preeti... she'll make sure her sister get the happiness she deserve. if taiji fixed naina 's rista... then preeti will make sure that it was taiji only who broke this rista too.

Originally posted by: soniadutta

Naina is not wrong but yest she was harsh to him by telling

Family comes before U...so u better move on

She is under family pressure but that doesn't means ,she shuld give up so easily

It means she feels it's easy for her also to move on with other person ?

Today or tomorrow will sure think about her rishta with other person naa?

So she will able to spent whole life with him ?

Till now what actually she got from a family whom she thinking about too much .

Taijee taunt

Fathers ignorance .

Even chacha jee and Chachi jee also keep reminding her about sanskaar and emotionally blackmail her .

I hope once she talk about it to chachajee and take the decision ...

Naina stood for Sameer in mansooniyat track bcos that time he was only thinking about her good willing even though that was his total stupidity but here she giving the priority to family more.

I too feeling bad that now taijee will bring rishta for her and that will broken her much but I think ,this would be made her realise about not ever live happily life with other person and go back to sameer and then both will together bring the solution to comes out from it

Their intentions never be wrong but sometimes actions must

I love both of them .

Admires naina unconditional love for sameer ,but want her to stand against family for sameer once .

Does Naina deserve this... No she doesn't!

Originally posted by: shahz

Does Naina deserve this... No she doesn't!

but does Sameer deserve this... Definitely not!

Naina has chosen family over love that is totally understandable and she thinks breaking off now will be easier for Sameer. But she fails to understand that Sameer is already in that stage where he can't handle this break up he is breaking.

What Sameer asked Naina I as a viewers had the same questions so yes all that frustration needed to come out. till yesterday Sameer was just silently trying to mend everything yes taking up stupid advice from his friends but the guy is desperate so can't blame him. Naina came told him her decision and walked off like that's it.. Not even giving him a chance to put his heart out to her. And her rant... Bhool jao mujhe yah hum kabhi mile theh mere liye family se bar kar kuch bhi nahi are like daggers going through his heart which Naina keeps on throwing at him...he has placed Naina on the same pedestal as hes nanaji is for him so come on give the guy a break.

I felt what Naina said to Sameer was way more harsh than what Sameer said to her but that's my opinion.

If it was Sameer leaving Naina for family than Mark my word he would have been bashed left right and centre.Even during manhoosiyat track kithne galiya pareh Sameer ko we even wanted someone to slap some sense into him.. I understood his dillema but was not happy with his approach same here I understand Naina but I'm not happy with the way shes putting everything on Sameer and expecting him to quietly follow.

Just for the record I love both Naina and Sameer so I cant be biased... I said what I see and feel.

Originally posted by: haritha45

I understand n completely agree what ever naina is doing is wrong like forcing her decision on Sam that she wants breakup showing her family as reason n Sam asking such points is not wrong.Sam asking her to let both decide our future not alone me or alone u but did he realise that during Manhus track did Sam even ever explained his problem or reason to distance each other.At that time even he didn't gave naina any option .I'm not saying he is wrong but he should once go back n think whether he gave her choose or not?

During manhusyat track according to Sam fear "naina ko kuch hosakta hai aur kuch nehi bhi hosakta hai" like 50 - 50 chances but here she clearly saw SS attempting suicide. Naina's fear is justified

Both are wrong & both are right.Naina knowingly about her family went very far ahead.Sameer loosing his life on Naina is also not right.Anyways its a show so all will be well but in real life i hv seen loads of breakup for this reason specially in 90's & early 2000.I myself has refrained from all this at college also as i cant break anyones heart & i knew that i wasnt enough mature to go in a relationship.A boys heart breaks very badly when he is deep in love & depresion & suicidal is so common till now.Also some boys loose trust on girls & women which makes there future relationship too vulnerable.So falling in love shd also come with guts,committment & ability to stand.Otherwise love has no meaning.

Both are wrong ND right but Nainas has always selfish strick in her from the day one so can't agree with you

It is very difficult to portray the right and wrong here. Naina is completely broken but Sameer is shattered. Agree when one falls in love one does not understand the other things and same happened with Naina. Only when she saw her father committing suicide and dreamt of her Chacha attempting one did she realize the gravity of the situation. To add to it Shefali's words broke her confidence completely. Sameer also has a weakness here. I agree that he wanted to spend some time with his lady love and hence chose to make it special by driving far away from town. He should have understood when she denied knowing how conservative her family members are. This immediately after the movie fiasco. Meanwhile Naina I feel has not yet conveyed her father's attempt to hang himself (if I recollect the breakup in the car it just shows Arjun Shefali drama not Rakesh's suicide attempt). So Sameer's frustration at her ignorance is valid. Then to add to it her lashing out openly and blurting out that family is more important than him just hit the mark. This again happened because of the stupid plan by Pandit(I do not think it would have been triggered otherwise). Those words by Naina were pretty harsh and we have seen Naina during the bet stage. She can be one hell of a savage when angry. So ultimately the situation is to blame, in addition to teenage hormones in both Sameer and Naina which is leading to this impulsive behaviour. Not to mention, the pressure from both the families (if Taiji has started finding alliances mamaji also made a comment that marwadis may love anyone but will marry only the one that his family agrees to). Hence I would reiterate that it is difficult to point out who is right and who is wrong. I just hope CVs come up with a creative solution for their problem without too much OTT drama.