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Run with Sameer and get married?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know this question might be weird for you people but I really want to know people's reply in this matter becoz what is happening in serial is happening wid me in real life for past 7 yrs. my parents not agreeing as my bf is brahmin and i m from kayastha community.he is good looking and even earning good income. my parents are behaving similarly ki society mein munh dikhane layak nahi rahenge. and my mama behaving like taiji. it has come to a deadlock. i cant leave my bf even when i used to warn him during earlier days that my parents wont agree. ab to wapis kadam lena bahut mushkil hai. mummy ka bolna hain ki wo jaan le lengi apna aur bf ka bolna hai ki wo agar mujhse shaadi nahi karega to zibdagi bhar shaadi nhi karega, i also cant overcome this guilt. initially i told my parents i wont marry but now they are pressuring me as i m 28. i can totally relate to naina. i really want to know your opinion and vote after keeping urself at my place, where u love family and bf immensely

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Now she can't keep quite and let sameer suffer. Look at his condition he is so broken. Usko yeh nai bolna chaiye tha family first, she was the one who started their lovestory. Till yesterday I was supporting Naina and I won't regert but after yesterday conformation I will support sameer. Kal tak Naina sahi thi and kal k baad sameer sahi hain. Now just waiting jaldi yeh track khatam ho. Aab Naina ko ya toh chacha ji ko sach bata na hoga ya phir sameer ka sath dena hoga, she can't leave him in the middle after being in relationship for 3 years and that too know about her family and all.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I feel she should tell everything to Chachaji
Before its too late that his trust is broken beyond repair, she needs to tell him about Sameer
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Oh dear... That's very sad ... You are 28.. haven't you seen enough to know what is right and what is wrong... I understand your parents have best for you in their mind...But even you would think the same for you...
If your relationship is so long ..8 years... That's quite a period to understand the other person ...Your boyfriend still wish to marry u...Then go for it...Get married...Atleast whatever may come you will have no regrets that u didn't tried...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjali33

I feel she should tell everything to Chachaji

Before its too late that his trust is broken beyond repair, she needs to tell him about Sameer


yes...she needs to tell chachaji... no matter how he reacted about cast deference... but when its come to her happiness he'll surely do something... even if it means to go against his two so called wise elder brother... n specially his pyaari bhabhiji.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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How to get permission to vote any poll as I'm not able to participate in any poll. It's stating an error that only members with permission can vote.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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She would face the consequences, without a doubt but it would be better if she informs everything to Chachajii...How many days will she live with the hurt eating up her mind!?
Edited by Mayashika - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@TM,
Voted for what majority thinks for Naina.


I don't know what you have thought before making this post as yours and Naina's situations are poles apart. She didn't share with either Sam or Chachaji.

If you want to get some advice here I will say you are incharge of your love story at this juncture. You should take some decision. Though it is not easy to be in another's shoe and as a guy I can't in your situation but still from where I see

You should go forward for rishta. Tell the truth to other guy either directly or indirectly, when 3-4-5-6 rishtas will be breaking then it will put pressure on your parents to married you off with the guy of your choice, badnaami is the only solution if you are tough to handle and can trust your BF.


But please don't marry another guy if you are emotionally invested in someone else and clear everything beforehand if you are still going forward for that.
Like you and your BF, the future guy too deserve mental peace and living with your BF by hook or by crook is the best solution, I suppose.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ross-

@TM,

Voted for what majority thinks for Naina.


I don't know what you have thought before making this post as yours and Naina's situations are poles apart. She didn't share with either Sam or Chachaji.

If you want to get some advice here I will say you are incharge of your love story at this juncture. You should take some decision. Though it is not easy to be in another's shoe and as a guy I can't in your situation but still from where I see

You should go forward for rishta. Tell the truth to other guy either directly or indirectly, when 3-4-5-6 rishtas will be breaking then it will put pressure on your parents to married you off with the guy of your choice, badnaami is the only solution if you are tough to handle and can trust your BF.


But please don't marry another guy if you are emotionally invested in someone else and clear everything beforehand if you are still going forward for that.
Like you and your BF, the future guy too deserve mental peace and living with your BF by hook or by crook is the best solution, I suppose.

Yeh toh Ross tumne filmy solution de diya problem ka 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey...
I did vote as per the situation for Naina.

But in your case, I think you should be the best person to judge. Being in such a beautiful relationship for so long, I think its high time you give it a go. Parents often tend to emotional blackmail when they feel its the last resort. Btw did you try to do the same with them

I think best way would be open up to your prospective grooms so that they reject you and you are already 28 which means parents would be under tremenduous pressure to get you married. When nothing would materialize they will accept your love for sure. I read the same experience being narrated by a fellow forum member who said she never agreed to her parents demands and chose to stay single and finally social pressure of her getting older made her parents accept it.

I hope this would help you as well.


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