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Posted: 7 years ago
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What a fantastic n path-breaking OS Minu👏
It's like a stereotype nowadays that boys hv no problems.. No tabooed issues.. Nothing to feel uncomfortable while discussing about.. But that's not the truth!! They too hv problems.. They too are normal humans like girls!!

If we expect boys to understand the periods topic n not make girls feel uncomfortable about that.. Talk freely about it with the women in their lives.. Then even girls hv to do the same.. Even girls should understand a boy's problem n not make fun of it!!

I don't hv much knowledge about it so won't give a long comment.. But hv to say that this story was also a first for many of us😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Res!
Have read it, would unres in a while :)
Unres!

I will start by saying it's quite amazing how you came up with this idea. We all know how the issue of periods is a taboo, but no one even cares about the changes or problems boys face. Not just that, I have often wondered why kids aren't educated by parents on these issues, I wasn't, Google, books, shows, and my boyfriend made me know about these things!

I loved the way Naina understood he has some issue, even without knowing about it, even without being aware of it, she listened so attentively, although yes her first reaction was laughter which is obvious!

The fact that you wrote it so well, without any inhibitions and handled it so so well, I am still thinking how can I review this the way you deserve. 👏

I'll just say you did full justice! I got what you were hinting at when naina was suspicious of his frequent visits to the washroom, but I was like would you really highlight this topic, when sameer talked about wet pants, I became sure and seriously wanted to applaud your vision and your way of writing , perfectly captured. Then Naina's reaction and suggesting meeting a doctor, wish people thought this realistically in life too. :)

On a side note, would love them to watch a Srk-Juhi movie at home 😳

I am proud to be your reader and friend after reading this piece of work! 😃

Love
Aayushi <3
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Posted: 7 years ago
#13
Minu di actually i was nt able to visit if and read stories due to study but luckily i visited today and read ur story.It was beyond a masterpiece.
In india there r many tabooed topics like periods in girls but this one was totally different which i dont knew exactly whats it but u just made everything clear.sameer discussing this prob with naina this is what we want understanding sharing problems in a relationship.
No movie has shown this but u presented in such a beautiful way.
What i loved naina took him to doctor and also went with him so that he doesnt feel alienated.
U r really a wonderful writer.many of the girls dont know abt this topic and u wrote on this hats off to u..

I was missing sameer hindi me bolo na and u gave it

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Posted: 7 years ago
#14
It was simply perfect
You depicted such a sensitive issue in the most subtle way possible ..
I'm seriously amezed .. I've never read anything like this
According to me its the first of its kind
Take a bow for your this amezing attempt in this line

This would be the case of most of the teenagers specially in 90s where their was no google
Sameer's insecurity and fear was aptly presented
And what I loved was Naina not for once felt scared or embarrassed talking such personal things and literally pestering him for details ..this surely was the highlight

The only complain I have .. It was too short
While reading I was just hoping " it can't be the end " and then finally it ended
I was fully engrossed in this story and my food was long forgotten
Thank you for this wonderful piece of work
Waiting to read more from you

Love
Laalchi reader
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Very well written on such a sensitive topic...
Girl's problems though taboo is still discussed but this one hasn't ever been discussed. I though guys would know about it... But you showed a different version, you put the whole story in such a subtle manner...
I am dying to know how is sameer now going to explain to naina about this...
You should definitely give us a second shot please...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dreamyp

First of all dear ssly hats off.. the topic u picked it needs courage to speak on it.. u r a girl still u wrote about it so beautifully..

If I say about myself m 23 yrs old n the plc where I belong we dnt even talk much about periods.. tumhari aadhi likhi hui baten saly mere sir ke upr se gyi bcz neither I har any bf nor m married so pta hi nh inn cheejo ke bare me.. I still didn't understand wat happened with sam but yeah may b it's some boys problem.. naina was outstanding, apne bf ka aise sath dena.. ssly every girl should do this.. if u dnt mind write next part too n show how they deal with the problem, wat doctor said bcz muje b janna h ye prblm kaise theek hogi..

N yeah from today m ur Fan cooler AC sab hihi u r an award winning writer. Love u lots..

Minakshi!Thank you for appreciation and the love.😊
But few things I would like to clear here.A girl can definitely write about wet dreams while a boy can write about periods beautifully.The writer in you counts.

I am 23 too and taboo is always a taboo.My region is no different rather would say no region.Thats why they are called taboos.And yes! to know about our bodies (male and female) we don't necessarily need to be having boyfriend or get married.Do you think my boyfriend or any male told me about this?Its all about our own interest in learning.I would say never depend upon others to impart you knowledge.Go for it on your own.You are too a budding writer so knowledge on various topics will aid you.

I would not pen down what happens next because that would tone down the entire charm of this story.It would be more like biology class.I would suggest you to type-'Nocturnal Emissions' on google and get complete idea about the topic.Its all available in details.

With love-
Minu

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: toshibelekar



Nice writings. And the doctor should suggest solution as Marriage with Naina, so no bad dreams 🤣🤣

Waiting for update.

Hi Toshi!
Let me clear you that no doctor shall say that.Never.Do you think Sex is the ultimate solution to wet dreams?Then people would have got married the time ;as soon as they hit puberty i.e. 12 years-14 yrs.or young adulthood days i.e.before 24 years.

I think you are ignorant about the whole topic.
It is not unusual or abnormal for a sexually active male to experience wet dreams, or nocturnal emissions. While it's true that wet dreams are much more common in adolescent males who are not stimulating themselves to orgasm or having sex with others, wet dreams still may occur in "young adults", twenty to thirty-five years old. Wet dreams can occur due to stress,insomnia and food habits also.

Men usually have wet dreams when they are not discharging their semen through ejaculation, either with intercourse or masturbation.

See what would happen if one is not masturbating or having intercourse for a while, say a week or two. Maybe a wet dream would occur. Maybe not. The body knows when and how to best take care of itself in this regard.

Its only when wet dreams get consistent then only one should visit a doctor/Urologist as we say.

You know 97% male experience wet dreams in life and it includes married people also... I sincerely suggest you to take up the subject and treat with seriousness.

With love-
Minu.
Edited by TereLiyeMINU - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: mystique123

Minu...❤️

Firstly, I applaud you wholeheartedly dear for presenting such a sensitive issue in the bestest way I could ever think of. Till today, I have never ever come across someone who have wrote about it... leave alone handling it in this manner. This is indeed a brilliant effort.👏👏👏

Thank you Isha for the appreciation😃. Issues needs to be addressed and somebody obviously has to be first..Right?

Before getting into the socially relevant topic, I admire the character sketch of Naina not because of her selfless love but also for the independent girl she is for she convinced him to split the bills, she believes in being equal partners in a relationship.⭐️

Well charity begins at home.If seen from logical point of view..Sameer doesnot earn.So how much a non-earning teenage boy can spend?Definitely he cannot be a spendthrift.So in a relationship where non earns its wise to split.Glad you liked it.😳

So Sameer was too much worried about common adolescent issue of the wet dreams that he perceived it as nearing his last days. But yeah what more could you expect from a teenager living in a society where there is none: neither family nor friends not even teachers who could guide him in understanding the biological changes. In our society Taboo itself is a taboo.

I am sure this helplessness would be the case with 99% teenagers, no matter how much information they garner from outside world, it can be deceiving at times and they tend to end up in having blind faiths instead they should be guided well by the ones to be healthier human beings.

Today times have got relatively easy and people can be well informative.At the click of mouse consultations to solution..everything is at our disposal.But set in 90s outside source was truly deceiving and still I believe Parents/guardians need to impart proper sex education to their children...Ignorance can be dangerous.


Coming to Samaina, Sameer is super duper lucky to have Naina in his life. Normally people tend to lose the power to think when they hear their loved ones in pain. But here I adore Naina for the way she heard him out, though she was clueless she calmed him down, her topper brain got activated immediately to consult a doctor and even accompanied him to the hospital. Even in hospital she made sure he is composed enough to present his worries to the doctor and the simple gesture of smoothening his hair had all the assurance he ever needs in his life,She is the angel, Sameer is blessed with ❤️

Can't agree more that Love is not just the flittery, flirty feeling as in movies.It is truly caring about another human being's existence and welfare, wanting to be there for them, to support them and help them grow; to make a difference in their life and care for their happiness and struggles other than your own and win all the battles.😊

Man evolves with the theory of -Survival of fittest.So first survive under unfavourable climate and then love and flirty feelings can follow.We tend to get away from the basic ,natural things seeking grandeur,which turns into a double trouble.We discuss growth of everything but not about basic natural ways of growing up.How ironic!

And now I understood why you chose Samaina as characters to this well thought concept : because if a character in the story is able to pull the right chord it would leave a lasting imprint on the readers forever and who could find a better way of expressing than through Samaina for us. Such an amazing writer you are, I would definitely say you are well ahead of time⭐️

Yes!The success of the story depends on how much it has impacted the reader.SamAina definitely is the best way to propagate the idea and make people aware that taboos and streotypes exist for both the sexes.If girls have periods,boy have wet dreams..So are other things.Thanks for appreciating my effort and loving this story in whole.😳

Lots and Lots of Love🤗

With love-🤗
Minu


My replies in RED.Thank you once again.😃
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: moumita04

Minu my Sweetheart...!! 😃

Sweetheart 🤗
This IF needs to install more smileys alike on WhatsApp..😆


I am amazed and awed by your talent, courage and understanding... I am not present in person with you but please imagine a huge round of applause and standing ovation from my side for this piece... 👏

Ahhh!I can imagine it..☺️☺️

Indeed, life is so different from what they show in movies... More than fighting external villains it's about fighting the internal demons...

Sameer felt troubled with his nocturnal emissions because be it those days or these days there are very few sets of parents who take the step to enlighten their kids about the kind of changes a human body goes through.

First of all a big hug and THANK YOU for mentioning the term and letting others read ignorants know what actually the topic is all about.This note definitely is like a Post Script.

The feeling of fear, anxiety, thoughts of being rejected by his own family and lover caused him to hide it... He had nobody with whom he could talk openly about this.

Like menstruation is a topic girls feel uncomfortable to discuss, lucid dreaming is one where boys are more uneasy. Girls also experience this, but the emissions are less frequent, and hence quite often females grow up without even knowing the about the issue.

Yeah...Unisex problem it is..Girls cannot differentiate.but in boys its vivid and you better know it in expertise.😳

I would say you have done full justice to the feeling of helplessness felt by Sameer... Luckily, he had Naina by his side, who observed his unusual behaviour and was open-minded enough to talk to him about it... With some care and concern, he could immediately empty his heart out...spell the fears and dreams that were haunting him... And Naina dealt with it in such a matured way that for a moment even left me speechless.


Thank you darling.You are right.All he needed was a confidante.Munna could have been but he laughed it off but she knew him and the type of talks they had she could perceive its not natural bed wetting.And that something which needs understanding.Our physical pains are wounds but emotional pains are scars..And this she ensured that he is left with no scars.

I absolutely loved the fact that she went with him to the hospital... and was not shy or skeptical about the issue her lover was facing. Then and there, nothing mattered to her more than Sameer's health, and she wanted to ease his fear. Sameer though still scared, started to feel hope because of her, and the lost smile made its way back on his lips... 😳

Just because he is a boy we all tend to think he would take care of everything but people forget that he is just a vulnerable teenager also.Not even full fledged adult.He definitely needed a support and that support was his own love..accepting him with all his imperfections,perfections,illness and well being.What can be more fulfiling than to see your love smiling whole heartedly.😳

This is a brilliant piece of work...!! And for certain, parents or guardians need to explain to kids that such things are part of growing up... There is nothing you can do to control or stop it, because it is natural... and there is nothing wrong about it...

Again blushing with such kind words of appreciation ☺️.Yeah from nature we are ,will be back to nature only..So grandeur and fancy can camouflage but not inhibit.

Great writing as usual... and Thank You for this masterpiece... 🤗

Hugs and Kisses.🤗❤️

Love,
Mou



My replies in RED...Thank you sweetheart..

With love-
Minu
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Posted: 7 years ago
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