Stop eve teasing justification in the name of peer pressure - Page 2

Originally posted by: mehraan

Wen the track proceeds we get 2 c tat dear...I think v r jumping too soon...im not in support of myself wat hes doin but i think his mindset is AS far as im not doing it...im not rong ...I think i relate to the many aspects of teen who by word twist their position to show much better wen in comparison!

i trust the CVS thy wud cme about showing the right message thry intend to showcase through SAMEER

Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s

they are very much there today also. wen they show smoking, drinking they put up the line that it kills... i firmly believe this medium (TV) has wider reach and can cater to things where they can show wrong is wrong... so again i repeat if a character like Dadi from Kekta style show could b there then why not showcase things which wud send right message.

theres always been huge cry for paper stealing then why not eve teasing???

Dhruvi, I think the same. TV is a very large platform. It should be used to make people learn. Right from Arjun walking away happily after cheating in exams as well as cricket match to this silent witnessing of eve teasing by Sameer (Though he does stop his friends but in the end unhi ke paas chala bhi jata hai) should not have been shown.

Originally posted by: angelic567

Bang on post dhruvi

Every show has this habit of justifying whatever the male lead does using his upbringing or bad childhood as an excuse... People buy it easily too which is disturbing to the core.

Yes u r right... We as a nation is still struggling with women's rights even after having so many laws in favour of women... Its because of those mute spectators too who doesn't stand up against wrong things... Each and every person are responsible for this... As a women, i can say that almost all the women have been a victim of some kind of abuse in their lives.

Boys will be boys is the most abused phrase to justify the actions of boys/men... For whatever reason, they shouldn't have shown sameer supporting those guys.

What is more shocking is that this is the same Sameer who was ok to get trashed by Rakesh to save Naina's honor.

Just pasting my ans to ur comment from my thread..



I agree eveteasing is wrong and supporting it is definitely wrong..

but this is 90s show and the awareness and openness to take a firm stand that we have these days was not present then..

yes.. if that girl is related to u or known to u.. the boys would definitely take a strong stance.. like the brother of that girl did..

but to take a stance for a girl unknown in an unknown city was never heard of.. in that era.. ppl were in general wary to get into such ruckus for danger of their lives..

I don't know abt Delhi.. but Gujarat was quiet a safer place for girls..so I cannot really comment on boys behaviour in general of that era.. but as per what I had seen in films, eve teasing was taken as a trivial thing.. unless it went out of hand.. and resorted to serious molesting..

so yeah.. I m being okay with him regretting that stance today.. for me his stance was okay considering that era..

If it were Naina, his mom or his sis or any of those girls he knew personally he would've definitely taken a strong stance..

also do u remember Arjun not taking a stance for Shefali in cricket practice? At least this boy had guts to accept the misbehaviour of his friends and ask for sorry..



This is my view point abt this issue..

but before judging him or CVs any further on this issue I would like to see the complete track.. 😳



This is just my POV on this subject and I don't want to rake this issue any further than this.. 😳

Originally posted by: violette

Just pasting my ans to ur comment from my thread..



I agree eveteasing is wrong and supporting it is definitely wrong..

but this is 90s show and the awareness and openness to take a firm stand that we have these days was not present then..

yes.. if that girl is related to u or known to u.. the boys would definitely take a strong stance.. like the brother of that girl did..

but to take a stance for a girl unknown in an unknown city was never heard of.. in that era.. ppl were in general wary to get into such ruckus for danger of their lives..

I don't know abt Delhi.. but Gujarat was quiet a safer place for girls..so I cannot really comment on boys behaviour in general of that era.. but as per what I had seen in films, eve teasing was taken as a trivial thing.. unless it went out of hand.. and resorted to serious molesting..

so yeah.. I m being okay with him regretting that stance today.. for me his stance was okay considering that era..

If it were Naina, his mom or his sis or any of those girls he knew personally he would've definitely taken a strong stance..

also do u remember Arjun not taking a stance for Shefali in cricket practice? At least this boy had guts to accept the misbehaviour of his friends and ask for sorry..



This is my view point abt this issue..

but before judging him or CVs any further on this issue I would like to see the complete track.. 😳



This is just my POV on this subject and I don't want to rake this issue any further than this.. 😳

Originally posted by: canapoem

What is more shocking is that this is the same Sameer who was ok to get trashed by Rakesh to save Naina's honor.

And he beat up the bet boys when they spoke badly about Naina

Even when Kamya confessed her love for him, he behaved like a gentleman

Today him seeing in the gang of molesters is very disturbing.

The attitude that till it hurts someone I know, I will be a mute spectator is such a bad example to show on national TV

Is this the principal men should follow? If so, very unfortunate.

Originally posted by: mehraan

Wen the track proceeds we get 2 c tat dear...I think v r jumping too soon...im not in support of myself wat hes doin but i think his mindset is AS far as im not doing it...im not rong ...I think i relate to the many aspects of teen who by word twist their position to show much better wen in comparison!

i trust the CVS thy wud cme about showing the right message thry intend to showcase through SAMEER

@Correct Mehraan:

If anything, the films of 70s, 80s and 90s promoted teasing, objectifying women, having derogatory misogynistic remarks, comments, dialogues abt females characters.. let alone heroines..

cannot see a single film without cringing today..

but I remember enjoying those very songs for the catchy beats of it.. 😆

Dhruvi,I respect your statement, but however CVS might have analyzed before showing it on screen

Originally posted by: samanthana

Dhruvi,I respect your statement, but however CVS might have analyzed before showing it on screen

1. Thy r showing how the innocent soul is enrouting to different route and not showing eve teasing girls

2. Thy have also showed how sameer vo is depending for the action

3 . we have to wait for CVS to unfold .

4 . this track is unlike mt. Abu track so fans need to hold the patience ,how everyone is going yo MU sameer .

Thy have shown very limit, n this is happening today also how guys comments on girls .