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youth_showsfan

@youth_showsfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: mehraan
i had been reading all over the twitter..insta ...HE stopped smoking due to NAINA?!..wen was tat shown...As far as i remember Naina teased him in Mt abu during the chudail nite...n tat didnt stop her loving him bac despite knowing his harkatein...😆n she was cool abt it...n tat was the last thing shown in tat direction vich regards to tat habit...Regarding Karrak rog,she lectured him n .he was havng a puff on the terrace in the nxt scene...🤣 n resulted into the burning of lab...Again tat nvr crossed her mind once she fell for him..😆.Can anyone tell me when did he say he left smoking..or anything was hinted on...
PS...i dnt support his smoking...but want to kno wen it was showcased that he left it

exactly when did he leave smoking?😆

sameer hasnt changed... he was shown to be mischievous from start... its just he was blessed to hv good people around him... he promised naina not to show anger on his Family... when people are alone n depressed they try to find a way to be happy... in somani's house no one wants him nd his mother would never stand up for him... yesterday when vishakha was feeding sameer dadi didnt like it i am sure a drama will b there n sameer would feel dejected by seeing vishakha not supporting him... when u dont feel loved cared n wanted be people in home u try to find solace through other means such as drinking smoking drugs etc as dt makes u lose ur senses n u foret ur prob... some become so studious or into studies dt they dont think anything else apart from studies... sm get angry n frustrated nd keep breaking things...

sameer used to earlier speak his mind by showing anger but nw he cant b angry as he promised so he wont b able to share his feelings n dt would be bottled up nd would come out like this... roaming with lafange ppl will make him forget d feeling of loneliness...

also one should meet all types of people so dt u learn how to handle them... sameer in business will hv to meet such ppl good he would learn to handle such ppl... u only grow as person by meeting diff ppl n learning how to tackle/handle them...

also never believe in half baked stuff... samaina fight is an example... wt all v thought bt at d end it was not dt major... let d story unfold hv patience😳

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Priyanka

@priya_nka_yudkb

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: mehraan
i had been reading all over the twitter..insta ...HE stopped smoking due to NAINA?!..wen was tat shown...As far as i remember Naina teased him in Mt abu during the chudail nite...n tat didnt stop her loving him bac despite knowing his harkatein...😆n she was cool abt it...n tat was the last thing shown in tat direction vich regards to tat habit...Regarding Karrak rog,she lectured him n .he was havng a puff on the terrace in the nxt scene...🤣 n resulted into the burning of lab...Again tat nvr crossed her mind once she fell for him..😆.Can anyone tell me when did he say he left smoking..or anything was hinted on...
PS...i dnt support his smoking...but want to kno wen it was showcased that he left it

During mt Abu trip when Naina was teasing him, he said I left because some intelligent person told him it causes cancer... Something like that..

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appukrish

@appukrish

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Don't know why people are making a mountain out of a molehill.

Bash Sameer all you want, curse the makers, quit the show - but wait till the episodes are aired !

In general we see that girls mature faster than boys. And most kids at that age and especially boys learn by experience. That is what is happening with Sameer. What might start for him as a friendship with a "cool gang will unknowingly lead him to what we are terming as vices and eventually it will teach him to differentiate between right and wrong and choose the correct path.

Right now he is slowly warming up to the Delhi home and environment and we also saw how bored and restless he was. To kill time he might just hang out with those guys which will slowly lead to nastier stuff. Whether it's Daadi's plan or not he will or will be helped out of the mess with another bigger jhatka because his Ahm trip and using the fee money didn't get him in big trouble.

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mehraan

@mehraan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: RaDev_Fan1

During mt Abu trip when Naina was teasing him, he said I left because some intelligent person told him it causes cancer... Something like that..

Thanx dear...But i still firmly belueve tis habit of him was not at all curbed ..mayb to an xtent ...Mny guys smoke n drink casually wen in company of friends...For thm its no big deal n sme promises r 4gotten in the heat of the moment.😆😆...!!..Though im not supporting wat Sam is doin but can really understand the mindset of this 17 yr old goin astray ...Hve witnessed in my own family...my brother!

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star2010

@star2010

Navigator

Posted: 7 years ago

#15

i think fans r overreacting we have to wait n watch n than react me too feel so bad after that spoiler pic n precap but its too early to judge what exactly happen which force sameer to break his promise

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dakshaavi

@dakshaavi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Sameer is still a 17 year old boy...it's in this age where guys tend to get influenced by company and even do mistakes despite knowing it's wrong or should I say get carried away and they do correct themselves ...this is very natural and what we see in practical life...

But if er want to our hero as a perfect filmy hero with no flaws then no wonder we can't accept it...

Now we know what circumstances sameer is living in ...no school...no friends...important no one to even talk to...its ver obvious who ever he found didn't want to loose them .

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Samaina_1990

@Samaina_1990

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

#17

I can totally understand what you are feeling- this is disrespecting Naina. I'm a firm believer in the fact that age never defines a person or their character. Sameer spent all his life in hostel- away from any love or care. He started smoking- agreed. He got an urge to taste alcohol. I was okay with that too. But then if you remember, the way he reacted when Kamya literally threw herself upon him- he immediately lied to get away from there. And at that time, he hand't even completely fallen for Naina.

And then he falls in love- true, deep love. That changes him. Reforms him. Yes he did quite smoking due to Naina's influence- as his friend. He started respecting her ideas and beliefs. He knew that smoking causes cancer and hence stopped it. After all, he's not a chain smoker or anything.

These sudden changes in Sameer- so true- if someone can be so fickle minded, what is the guarantee that he would be faithful to Naina always. What if 5 years into their marriage, some hot lady comes and lures him and then will we say, it's okay...Sameer is just a young boy...Naina can forgive him. I would reiterate that had there been a girl in real life on whom a boy had placed a bet, there was hardly a chance that she would have forgiven him or loved him back. Sameer was extremely lucky there. And then I would put it down to his immense patience, acceptance of his folly, his genuine n selfless attempts to make Naina smile. He's so madly in love that he has eyes and ears for no one but Naina.

He was the one who got livid when he saw boys lusting over photographs of girls. And for that reason, he blasted Naina and broke the photograph. I understood his anger too, sided with him- though I still feel that was not enough a reason for him to leave Ahemdabad. And next week, we see Sameer leering at girls on a motorbike. What does he think of himself. I will be blunt here.If I had been in Naina's place here, I would never have accepted him back. Naina is in for another heartbreak. Why should she always suffer? She's nurturing her rose plant and Sameer is hardly bothering about it. And we are giving the excuse that Sameer is a teenager! I mean he's almost 18- July is nearing. Men got married at that age once! And what about Naina, isn't she a teenager as well? Why should she be the only one to show maturity? She is being loyal to him, focussing on her education. If this is how it is, then I would say, Sameer does not love Naina or care for her enough. It is a very forced drama I feel. Because once you love someone, out of sight does not mean out of mind. And if Sameer is indeed like this (which I'm 90% sure), even if he is redeemed, he loses the respect he got from me as a viewer.

Terribly disappointed. It's like boys will be boys.

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dakshaavi

@dakshaavi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: youth_showsfan

exactly when did he leave smoking?😆

sameer hasnt changed... he was shown to be mischievous from start... its just he was blessed to hv good people around him... he promised naina not to show anger on his Family... when people are alone n depressed they try to find a way to be happy... in somani's house no one wants him nd his mother would never stand up for him... yesterday when vishakha was feeding sameer dadi didnt like it i am sure a drama will b there n sameer would feel dejected by seeing vishakha not supporting him... when u dont feel loved cared n wanted be people in home u try to find solace through other means such as drinking smoking drugs etc as dt makes u lose ur senses n u foret ur prob... some become so studious or into studies dt they dont think anything else apart from studies... sm get angry n frustrated nd keep breaking things...

sameer used to earlier speak his mind by showing anger but nw he cant b angry as he promised so he wont b able to share his feelings n dt would be bottled up nd would come out like this... roaming with lafange ppl will make him forget d feeling of loneliness...

also one should meet all types of people so dt u learn how to handle them... sameer in business will hv to meet such ppl good he would learn to handle such ppl... u only grow as person by meeting diff ppl n learning how to tackle/handle them...

also never believe in half baked stuff... samaina fight is an example... wt all v thought bt at d end it was not dt major... let d story unfold hv patience😳

well said.

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Priyanka

@priya_nka_yudkb

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: mehraan

Thanx dear...But i still firmly belueve tis habit of him was not at all curbed ..mayb to an xtent ...Mny guys smoke n drink casually wen in company of friends...For thm its no big deal n sme promises r 4gotten in the heat of the moment.😆😆...!!..Though im not supporting wat Sam is doin but can really understand the mindset of this 17 yr old goin astray ...Hve witnessed in my own family...my brother!

I think in 90s smoking, drinking or eating non veg use to be big deal in marwari families atleast. These things were associated with your character. I agree that at his age boys would do these things for fun or peer pressure... But hasn't he had his share of fun with cigarettes and alcohol. He should have been passed that phase already...

Anyway based on the precap and pics that we have seen it's not certain what is gng to happen.

I m hopeful things would unfold completely opposite to our worries. think playing cards he would do that for fun. Fighting with other gang due to circumstances. I am sure he will not be supportive leave alone getting involved in Eve teasing, I have not seen any video or pic suggesting he was drinking. For smoking also just one pic, which might be like just one time which reminds him of kark rog and he throws the cigarette. myonly concern is the dried rose plant which means he forgot the promise made to Naina. 😭

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mms1980

@mms1980

Inactive

Posted: 7 years ago

#20

If he is talking to naina on phone and also letter communication how he started all this? Or are they going to show after shanti mam gets naina's letter , she will stop writting and then his frustration comes like this?? Really struggling to understand otherwise if he is in contact with naina and simultaneously doing all this... waiting for episodes to air..
sorry not spreading negativity

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