Upbringing! - Page 2

First of all, hats off to u Minu, for writing such a brilliant post!!👏

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First of all thank you for making this post! Very much needed lesson to this generation parents! I don't blame anything because everything has a solution however, the current generation parents are mostly working with no time left for their children and this makes very difficult for them to imbibe good virtues in their child. Nevertheless, nothing is impossible and they can do it according to their convenience. It would be very difficult to change the bad habits and attain the good ones later on in life so this is extremely crucial. Thus, if someone asks my opinion on this matter, I would say being strict is not depriving kids from the entertainment they want to get instead that is going to help them later on. The technology is playing the main villian with parents giving away mobiles to even toddlers when they cry just to stop them from crying! Giving such materialistic things when they cry or demand eventually makes them think that money can buy happiness and also money is the most important thing in life. Parents are actually teaching them that human relations and values are not at all important!

Looking to the show, you are absolutely correct about Pralay and Deepika and how their upbringing reflects on their behaviour at such a young age! Children definitely grasp more than adults and they become aware of the surroundings they are brought up in!

I may sound strict and weird but scolding children is not always a wrong thing. What western countries have taught children that call the police if parents beat or scold you is absolutely stupid! It isn't good to beat them but scolding is definitely healthy. This is my POV.


P.S. By far the most amazing topic which the 2000s era parents need to understand!

Originally posted by: KashafZaroon30

Firstly a beautiful post...how can you write so effortlessly...

Parenting is an art...an art which every parent performs/draws in his own way...to be more precise according to his convenience and situation ...
It is always convenient for a person to take out flaws and correct people...the only thing which he is expected to do is change this behavior when he becomes a parent...Vishakha as a mother didn't change herself...she remained on the convenient path of taking out flaws...She didn't change for her child but she expected her child to change... but how can a child change himself when she didn't teach him to do so...She just put her demands on the table for Sameer but teach with him love and care on how to fulfill these..
Nanu on the other hand corrected him with love and a proper explanation on why cheating was wrong and that's why till date he hasn't committed the crime of cheating...
As mentioned by you, children imitate adults. We all have done that as kids because as a kid we think it to be the most appropriate thing to do, imitate the adults whom we look up to.
Rakesh whose ultimate goal in life is to just be big and rich, and get things done by hook or crook, couldn't teach his son to get things in life ethically. His son eventually just imitates him and gets things in life without even thinking about ethics.
Naina who hasn't got love from her father, also has exhibited initially a minute streak of selfishness in her character, because of the lack of security from both the parents. But fortunately getting shielded by Bela and Anand's love, she has turned out to be a lovable and understanding human being. So finally what was Rakesh supposed to give his children was love, security, care, integrity and morality but he couldn't give it, just like Vishakha.

Infact I believe Parents can make or break nations. A nation is known by the mentality and thinking of its younger and new generation, who brought up well by their parents can change the world or be a part in destroying the world.

Beautifully you have elucidated all.Your analysis of Naina is lit.👏👏 Thank you dear 😃

It's a wonderful post minu

Hey Minu, again a brilliantly written and expressed post! Like always hum toh aapke sabse badde fan hai😳

@TM
Excellent post by you, dear! ⭐️