Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU
Somewhere I feel the reason behind every ''disgust'' feeling is ignorance. I sometimes wonder whats the harm in knowing things?Why certain things are labelled forbidden? And the teenage is such a phase where curiousity is the biggest devil. The urge is there to know everything..literally everything under universe.
And this curiousity coupled with ignorance sometimes do not gel well.Sexual abuses and juvenile rapes growing in India is due to this.Parents should make aware their children about the growing up thing.Its no harm to know theoretically before hand.Just that practical demos can be reserved for later legal limits.
Like others I just wish she asks him atlest the question.He would not be able to answer but the convo should be there.They have grown big enough to atlest know about physicality.
Sometimes treating Naina as a toddler with ignorance can go overboard.
This is Strictly my POV.
Minu...I would not lie, but somewhere I also treated intimacy with disgust. I used to feel how can people do this. But then I understood, if two people are in love, they share a unique bond...when they share each other, they develop a strange trust, a different affection towards each other...it's like a promise like I am giving myself to you...what more can you ask for...it is a beautiful feeling, but mind you, I feel only when these emotions stem from pure n pristine love.
I guess we were made to believe it's wrong to be so close or touch guys, for fear...that in such a young age, we may not be able to differentiate between right n wrong...or to be relate with the consequences of our actions...n of course, un dinon rishton ka daayara hota tha...
Sexual abuses ka ye bhi kaaran ho sakta hai...you are right...when teenagers are exploring their sexuality, they would tend to get curious n many rapes esp with juveniles happened due to this. But more than that, I feel the perpetrators are people with corrupt mindsets...who treat women, men or children as objects of deriving pleasure...education can tell you the difference between right n wrong, but it can never morally steer you to the right path...
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