Why so many ppl in show keeps chanting that naina doesn't look good - Page 3

Originally posted by: haritha45

Not only sam but also sanjay tebrival loved her.Sanjay ne naina mein kya dekha?.Achayi or beauty?

Not only Sanjay Tebrival even Pandit found her cute 😳 remember that hawa hawai scene nah ? how Pandit was ghooring her 😳

Exactly! even I wanna knw why Taiji keeps taunting her abt her looks ? Taiji kaunsi Maduri hai ? Naina is pretty and has beautiful features then why calling her not good looking ? I guess Taiji needs glasses.

Originally posted by: .Khamosh.

Not only Sanjay Tebrival even Pandit found her cute 😳 remember that hawa hawai scene nah ? how Pandit was ghooring her 😳

Originally posted by: .Khamosh.

Exactly! even I wanna knw why Taiji keeps taunting her abt her looks ? Taiji kaunsi Maduri hai ? Naina is pretty and has beautiful features then why calling her not good looking ? I guess Taiji needs glasses.

Originally posted by: aardhan

Haritha, your question is valid but fact is in this show we are dealing with women who are not as educated and hail from small town or villages, like Taiji. Putting down other people was common then, older women considered that to be an act of showing concern. Yes, their way of talking was insensitive and hurtful to the person affected but listen to Taiji, she ends it with saying she is worried for Naina. Equality in a relationship was unheard of in their world... so considering a girl can support herself is an alien notion.

And in her world, either a girl has to be a stunning beauty like an actress or should have wealth... two situations where finding a groom is easier. In Naina's case, in Taiji's view she is ordinary looking and poor. Now Preeti is ordinary too but Anand has money to spend on a wedding, so she targets Naina.

And again, Naina is motherless and chachi can support only so much. Rakesh doesn't accord her the live and respect she deserves... he never praises her or brags about her achievements, so again Naina becomes an easy target.

Again education is what liberates people... and someone who has seen more of the world like Sameer recognizes the talent in Naina. His love for her is not superficial... he admires her, respects her and is proud of her achievements. Even during the debate he displayed that. He considers her an equal. And hence his confident manner in supporting her. I absolutely loved the way he delivered his message... calm, poised but very clear and yet sounding sweet and not hurtful.

Khoobsurati un aankhon ko dikhthi hai jinme uss chehre k liye pyaar ho, jazbaat ho aur unki ek jhalak mei dil dhadakne laga ho...

Originally posted by: rose1000

Aarti you have explained it so aptly. It is true that Taiji like relatives do exist. I have faced similar situations. And it exists even today. All that glitters is gold is tempting. Very few care to see the inner beauty which should be the standard for measuring beauty. IT is not just about eduction, it is also about enlightenment. I loved how Sam gave it back ever so politely although he was cleary pissed off with Taiji.

True. Such mentality exists. In fact it may be worse considering how every one wants to be a size zero. So it's the other extreme now.

And yes, Naina is positioned as a plain Jane, padaku girl. When Sameer was new he was influenced by all and he used to call her that as well. But he was smart enough to discover the real Naina, her intelligence when she was teaching him attracted him and soon she became a friend with whom he could discuss anything under the Sun on an equal footing, even movies and songs and such. He soon discovered that she was not at all boring and her appearance was deceptive. After which behenji stopped being derogatory for him.

Originally posted by: haritha45

Bet boys n kamya call her behenji

Taiji keeps telling iska na shakal hai na akal

Even in initial episodes munna pandit called her as behenji.

Chachi in initial episodes stated that naina ka acha roop nehi hai.

She looks cute then why everyone keeps chanting she doesn't look good.😡

IKR! it makes me so angry.. actually whenever anything comes out of taiji's mouth it makes me angry!
I think naina is beautiful, much much prettier than all the girls at her school and prettier than pooja too. naina has that simplicity and innocence which I regard as beautiful! loved it when nani bua told taji that all her mayka is better looking than her 😆. I hope the cvs shed some light on nainas mum and safari suits backstory