Can't feel sameers love!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: mehraan

As i said i feel disconnect cos we dnt get to see him talk abt her with himself...i had this thing goin in my mind aftr the confession...its his instropection n reflection to all thse moments he spent with her which is gone missing..hence the lost touch..ve heard VO,v heard him talking to his frends,Nanu but wat abt to himself...I still feel tis is the factor that is causing a wedge in sme of our thought process😆😆.Chandni raat hai had him emoting n xpressig his love verbally through his eyes n gestures ...where i find that spark missing now ..The detailing to Sams thought process his monologues n feelings..r not projected well...Small scenes do mke a difference n this is where i feel the content is lost.

Originally posted by: dilse99

I just watched the episode, and I both agree and disagree with what you are saying. After his confession, I was really hoping for Sameer or his voiceover to speak of his feelings for Naina - what he loves about her, reminiscing moments with her. But that didn't happen. Meher had mentioned that she wanted to see anxious Sameer before he stepped foot into the Agarwal house. Him worrying about what it would be like to be in her house for so long, his nervousness to see her, be around her - these were all aspects that could have been highlighted. Without that, the characterization seemed incomplete. So I feel the fault is more in the writing than in the direction.

Originally posted by: Infofan

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Originally posted by: aardhan

I kind of agree and disagree.

I think there were two chances after the hospital when Sameer could have reminisced about Naina which the cvs missed... one when he developed the photos and two when he recorded the poem. Obviously he remembered all those things, he made a poem about it, it would have been nice to see the old shots with each line he uttered.

Having said that this Sameer in sasuraal phase is definitely not the time for him to be romantic. First he has Naina who is either unresponsive or annoyed to even look at him or just plain stays out of sight. Then he has Arjun who is literally breathing down his throat, so Sameer has to maintain a neutral expression. Finally there is all the family around him who have made it clear that they are barely tolerating him for Rakesh and would rather see the back of him. In this instance he is doing everything he can to downplay his feelings for Naina. He also realizes that both Naina and Arjun think what he did was only for bet and Sameer has no real feelings for her. Even today Arjun warned him of that.

Inspite of this there are moments, like the chai when the song plays and both are affected for a second before she shuts down. And now the Precap... he is drawn to her but look at her face she is clearly annoyed to see him at her doorstep. She was almost hoping Rakesh would send the trip back but didn't happen. And he is taking his fill of her but at the same time showing her his determination in his eyes.

I also think it's his whole thought process if you notice he is always talking about making her happy again. In his private confession he clearly says even if she didn't love him back. It's always Nanu and friends who talk of getting her back. I think somewhere he fears he has lost that love forever, never to get it back. So he doesn't want to build up his hopes towards love. For now, he has buried it deep inside him. It will come out in unguarded moments, it will come out when he does something to show his care For her but it will not be obvious. That will be his way of expressing his love. Also, he's a guy, not too expressive at that. He writes poetry as a means of letting out his feelings... then he has his friends and Nanu to talk to, so a private time is rare for him now. But yes, I do want to see that one rare moment from him when he realizes when he started falling for her or what was it that caught his attention...

Originally posted by: SixteenAgain

Very apt thread.

Most of the time Sam seems to be emoting uncertainty and confusion during his scenes with Naina. I understand that he knows he is on shaky ground with Naina at the moment.. but if we as audience cannot see a glimpse of his love shining through every now and then how is Naina expected to realise? But again it's just been 1 day since he has entered her house.. so that may change in the next couple of episodes.

More importantly, the real disconnect has been bcoz of lack of any alone time with Sameer and what he is thinking or doing.. previously we got to him expressing his emotions - either impatience to get Naina to fall for him or anger when she wasn't answering his calls.. so many instances.

But now they have Mundit in every scene with Sameer. Even his day dreams/dance feature them 🤣 Are we expected to interpret this as his way of trying to not hope for a reciprocal of his love? As an audience I am confused...