Can't feel sameers love!! - Page 5

Munna pandit are good. But I guess we need just "Sameer time". Like you guys mentioned... It would be so nice to see him write a poem thinking of her. Sigh.

Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

Agreed Meher...I was just about to quote the chandani raat scene...when you are in love, you don't have to make any efforts to show it...on.the contrary trying to hide it is a task...ur eyes, ur talks, ur body language all reveal it despite urself...it's not a question of being cautious...not wanting Sameer to be flirty here...see the campfire night, kavita scenes, dil deewana shirt, boating scene...the guy was just not in control...this is how a man in love should be...what's worrying me is I feel Randeep is too good with his eye n facial expressions...n yes a monologue, him dreaming about their moments together in pvt, looking at the Mt. Abu pics lovingly

Naina ki love ki baat hi chod do yaar it was completely magical ride for us..

See.. Naina had been crushing on Sameer for a long while now, we were able to see it's progression, as each episode ran, with diff scenarios.. she basically fell head over heels over Sameer, and it honestly started because of physical attraction. In the case of Sameer, it was the opposite..

Sameer didn't see Naina in that manner because she wasn't attractive to him. He saw her as paraku, behengi type.. and Sameer being the modern type as well, never could relate to Naina, no matter how much care or obvious 'love' she had shown him before.. It was ONLY in Mount Abu, when he was getting sick, he first hand could see, witness Naina's genuine love and care for him. When she took care of him, covering him in blankets, giving him medicines. When she comforted him in his weak moments, that's when his eyes (and his heart's eyes) opened towards her! He didn't even realise he was falling in love with her, till much much later..! He in fact.. JUST realised it.. For him, it isn't "head over heels, mad and crazy" kinda love. His 'love' began or started out of respect for Naina, after understanding her character and appreciating her as a person well. So, you wouldn't see the kind of similar love in his eyes, same as you saw, depicted by Naina.

Also on top of that, him receiving a cold shoulder from Naina, just after his feeling realisation made him hold his feelings back. Naina's rude behaviour kinda acted as a 'turn off' to him. That doesn't mean he doesn't love her now.. but, it just means, his love for her isn't being watered yet..

For Sameer things are at a very intial stage.. where he is first time dealing with such feelings, and with such a girl who genuinely cares and loves him.. He wants to win her forgiveness first.. then slowly develop something.

Love is a two way street.. if Naina isn't gonna warm up to him, it is going to be difficult for him to express himself even when he wants to..

Anytime he tries to be soft with her or friendly.. he gets met with resistance from Naina.. any person would feel held back, when the person you love, you try to talk with, be warm with, but they are rude with you, you'd feel your emotions be stagnant.. on hold. So you can't blame him! He doesn't want to get hurt.. he is also protecting his heart!

Also, remember, when we are physically attracted to someone our eyes light up at the sight of them.. or when we have shared love and interest with that person. But when it's love found through personality.. it takes work to develop the relationship from both sides. Sameer fell for her goodness, not because of her looks. So, it's gonna be a diff kinda love notice, from him!

Originally posted by: mehraan

Tis is wat im harping around...His lone moments are gone for a toss...Pasting pics or.Either wen hes writing the shayari recollecting her...now his Nanu has joined in😆😆...thy r all 2gther ...I wnted him to write it 4 her in privacy...tat is him n her memories.

BE it any scene at his place...his impatience,restlessness...even anger or irritation that shes ignoring him...unless n until v dont get to pry into his frame of mind ...how we will understand n connect😆

For me the blunder was straight aftr confession...the wonderment ..the shock feeling that sinking in him...that he is in love completel y not emphaissed...i wnted him to understand the enormity of that situation ...the depth of those feelings that he outwritted her as a frend!!...All thse memories flashing to him at his lone time...

yeah, they completely lost the opportunity to cover something that it so relevant to their story and Sameer's transition from realisation to acceptance and acting on it..

words like Naina's boyfriend should have been shown running through his thoughts.. even if with an amount of uncertainty of the outcome.. but some wishful thinking!

At least show him gazing at their sunrise pics together! That moment was so beautiful! Their carefree spirits together.. and how they can bring out the best in each other..

Makes me wonder is this due to the change in director? Maybe the new one does not want to highlight some of the best stuff produced by the previous guy??

Hi

Very interesting points raised in this thread and some very engaging replies.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Very interesting points raised in this thread and some very engaging replies.

Just reiterating some of the points I felt were valid too.

I agree there were some interesting possibilities in the plot that were missed out by the writer perhaps. But I must confess I have never felt that Sameer's love is not expressed. Somehow, it was just woven subtly over days. I think they rushed through his realisation a little fast. One day he was saying, he wanted to make it upto his friend, the next day he stated he must feel like this because he loved her.

I am still not sure if Sameer himself knows the intensity of his feelings for Naina. If he did, he wouldn't declare that a smile on her face is all he wants. Of course, he must want more than that, he just hasn't processed what it is that he wants, because he has never thought about the concept of love prior to this.

Sameer not verbalising his feelings, or remembering those days with Naina- I look at it as a sign of respect for her feelings. Naina is hurting, due to those very same episodes...she curses those moments...and Sameer can't cherish them, unless Naina does too. All of it was not fake from his side, but Sameer can only remember the harshness of his betrayal, until Naina forgives him. One day he would have to tell her how exactly he felt through the journey, only then would Naina be able to recover those moments for both of them. I don't know if the show will review that chapter.

For now, Sameer can only hold on to the sweater as a token of her love for him. Any other memory would only make him feel the pain of Naina's suffering and make him feel guilty. He has done quite a bit of regretting for now, so I guess he wants her forgiveness first and foremost. He can't touch those memories or revel in his love, until Naina is happy too. But he will continue to blush when his friends or Nanu tease him. And give respect to her unreasonable father...and feel guilty whenever he accidentally brings up something from their past that hurts Naina. All that is love too.

Soupster, thanks for replying. I lau u immensely but I am not sure this is quite what I was looking for... 😆 Kidding. I guess I wanted validation. But girl you always put things in perspective and how.
I see your point. Seriously, amazing post.

Edit - I have a slightly different POVon a few things, will try and post later.

Originally posted by: Infofan

Soupster, thanks for replying. I lau u immensely but I am not sure this is quite what I was looking for... 😆 Kidding. I guess I wanted validation. But girl you always put things in perspective and how.
I see your point. Seriously, amazing post.

Edit - I have a slightly different POVon a few things, will try and post later.

Interesting thread...and interesting perspectives...😊