Sam baba unknowingly still hurting naina with his sorries??

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Sam want to come out his guilt that's what he is trying to manovo her but our Naina decided to remove sam from her heart n brain.It will be a big torture for her that she can neither forget him nor forgive him.Poor thing is she can't explain her situation to any one.Only her chacha can help her but she couldn't explain him😭.
Chalo manliya sam succeeded in his mission of "SORRY".What is next ahead
1) he'll ask her dosti wala friendship???.Naina truely loved sam.As far as my knowledge friendship ke baad dosti hosakta hai but true love ke baad friendship is highly impossible.
2)Ok if he is satisfied after getting sorry n want to stay away from her for her happiness.It will hurt her more becoz at that time she'll again get attached to him.

I am happy with this "SORRY" mission but I feel bad for naina.Sam is ready to do anything for her but isn't ready to give commitment or ready to name their relationship as "special friendship".Sam baba neither want to leave naina nor want to name their relationship is more than friendship😭


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Friendship is impossible after all these incidents!! Naina loved sameer & he is in her heart!! she will avoid him in all situations!! It is impossible for her to behave normally with him!! It will be embarrassing and awkward for her to be a friend after loving him so much as all the lovely moments that she had spent with him will haunt her!! Lets see what miracle happens!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Exactly!!!
1.he loves to spend time with her
2.he loves to get pampered by her
3.he loves to get cared by her
4.he loves to see her happy
5.He loves to do things for her
6.He loves to get compliments from her
7.He loves her attention
8.He loves her presence around him
But but he is not ready give name of "LOVE" because of commitment problem I guess.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: kb_always_96

Friendship is impossible after all these incidents!! Naina loved sameer & he is in her heart!! she will avoid him in all situations!! It is impossible for her to behave normally with him!! It will be embarrassing and awkward for her to be a friend after loving him so much as all the lovely moments that she had spent with him will haunt her!! Lets see what miracle happens!!



Completely agree. Most Naina will be able to do is accept his apology and then treat him as a classmate that she has minimal interactions with. She cannot be expected to even pretend to be friends with him. She should not subject herself to any more torture I trying to be a nice person.

Unless Sameer has clear strong feelings (other than good friends) for Naina and decided to pursue her, their story can't really progress.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Even I felt that...after today's episode we will know... what sameer actually wants...he just wants only her friendship back...or want his special friend back...


That will be again a torture for naina... she did this much to him and he still wants her just to be his friend...


Naina can never see sameer only as a friend...and now as she is avoiding herself from love...she will also avoid sameer...for her love will only remind her of sameer...that's why she will never forgive him till he keeps on roaming around her for friendship...


Naina can only forgive him when she will know that he too loves her...and what all he did was not only binded by guilt but also love...




Edited by ATH_KTM_543 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Haritha,

I have also similar views. I voiced it a couple of days ago but many seem skeptical and thought the question as negative.

I my views:

Sameer asking For forgiveness will be very SELFISH in many ways. And he is unknowingly again hurting Naina.

His forgiveness might be just to absolve his conscience from the guilt of the Sin he has committed. If that's the only emotion with which he is after Naina, then he is again thinking for himself. He just wants to get Naina's forgiveness by his actions. First all his actions were for bet. Now all his actions are for getting rid of his guilt. Both have selfish motive directed at only satisfying his emotions.

Suppose, Naina tiers of his attempts or again falling in to emotion of love (or believing Sameer has changed) forgives him. Sameer is free from his guilt. Then what???

They become friends again???

With all the feelings and passion Naina has for Sameer, she can never be just friends with Sameer.

In fact she will be expecting Sameers aknowledgement of her love and loving her back as much as she loves him.

If Sameer has indeed fallen in love by then - then all his actions will make sense. Infact he should already be in love with Naina.

If after all the bet, guilt, asking sorry and Naina's forgiveness- he is not yet in love then he is again going to hurt Naina. In fact he is not letting Naina move ahead in her life nor he is giving her the love that she truly deserves.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ATH_KTM_543



Even I felt that...after today's episode we will know... what sameer actually wants...he just wants only her friendship back...or want his special friend back...


That will be again a torture for naina... she did this much to him and he still wants her just to be his friend...


Naina can never see sameer only as a friend...and now as she is avoiding herself from love...she will also avoid sameer...for her love will only remind her of sameer...that's why she will never forgive him till he keeps on roaming around her for friendship...


Naina can only forgive him when she will know that he too loves her...and what all he did was not only binded by guilt but also love...




Exactly naina can forgive him when she senses true love for her from sam but l doubt even after that sam baba will chant friendship 😭
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dr.Don

Hi Haritha,

I have also similar views. I voiced it a couple of days ago but many seem skeptical and thought the question as negative.

I my views:

Sameer asking For forgiveness will be very SELFISH in many ways. And he is unknowingly again hurting Naina.

His forgiveness might be just to absolve his conscience from the guilt of the Sin he has committed. If that's the only emotion with which he is after Naina, then he is again thinking for himself. He just wants to get Naina's forgiveness by his actions. First all his actions were for bet. Now all his actions are for getting rid of his guilt. Both have selfish motive directed at only satisfying his emotions.

Suppose, Naina tiers of his attempts or again falling in to emotion of love (or believing Sameer has changed) forgives him. Sameer is free from his guilt. Then what???

They become friends again???

With all the feelings and passion Naina has for Sameer, she can never be just friends with Sameer.

In fact she will be expecting Sameers aknowledgement of her love and loving her back as much as she loves him.

If Sameer has indeed fallen in love by then - then all his actions will make sense. Infact he should already be in love with Naina.

If after all the bet, guilt, asking sorry and Naina's forgiveness- he is not yet in love then he is again going to hurt Naina. In fact he is not letting Naina move ahead in her life nor he is giving her the love that she truly deserves.

True ye bandha naina ko kabhi "MOVE ON " nehi karnedega with his cute gestures n will show her hell by making her more special but not giving commitment
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: haritha45


True ye bandha naina ko kabhi "MOVE ON " nehi karnedega with his cute gestures n will show her hell by making her more special but not giving commitment



To be frank I was never happy with this asking Sorry Track. Ideally they should have shown a period of silence between Naina and Sameer. In that time Sameer realises his love and guilt.

It should have been clear for the viewers too.

Then that makes the whole guiilt feelings, Sameer's request for forgiveness out of the fear of loosing the love of his life.

Then the whole track would have had much better sense and purpose behind it.

At the moment, I don't see any solid motive or purpose behind the tract. And in all this what will Naina gain ? A crappy point less SORRY ! with no commitment for future.

Either Naina forgives Sameer and closes the chapter. And the may be jealousy truck or just like that one day Sameer realises he has ATTRACTION LOVE WALA LOVE for Naina.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Well said...if Sameer doesn't love her (which is not true I hope)...a simple confession of truth n asking for forgiveness would make sense. Sameer cannot expect Naina to be just friends after all this. Maybe he's taking things slow n steady- one by one...that's good too in a way that once he decides he really wants her...he would do everything possible to win her back...My personal opinion is he is already in love with her, just in denial mode...he's been denied of love all his life...he was kind of scared to get hurt n developed an escapist tendency...see the disregard for rules, attention seeking behaviour...I think he knows he is in love as well...but a really strong trigger is needed to make him admit it...that's where I think they can bring in the jealousy angle...
PS: You don't become istri wala, hover under a girl's balcony or bring a bunch of beautiful red roses for her if you don't love her. Gosh, Sameee ought to know this at least...


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