How much should we expect from Sameer? Please give it a thought. - Page 2

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Absolutely Brilliant Post !! Loved it !! Loved it !! Loved it!!

The question is should we expect anything from Sameer?? I would say NO...The question should be what should Sameer expect himself to do to get back his image and Naina??

As you said , we don't need to choose difficult path to solve things when we don't have the capacity to do those ..So If I where in Sameers place the first thing I would do is cut my hair short ...the bet was to make her say I LOVE YOU else cut the hair...to prove to the world and Naina that I lost the bet...reality is different which he Niana and some ppl around know...Because Naina was in love with him and would have said those three magical words...so by cutting his hair ...he proves to Naina that she is much more important to him and he could give away anything for her affection...

Second to talk to her and tell her what made him accept the bet. She needs to understand her one thoughtless statement made him loose his image and also lost his mom forever ...She needs to feel guilty about it. Sameer even now doesn't know that Arjun was the one who stole the paper. So its a very tricky situation...his confession abt the pain that she and her father inflicted and the loss that he had in his personal life will make Naina come out of her filmy world.

She loves him but is not at a stage where she trusts him completely...once the talk happens ...rest will fall in place with time...time heals the wound but leaves a scar to remind you of your mistakes so that you wont repeat them.

Originally posted by: Santiago24

What a lovely profound post!! Loved it! 👏

Those lines from Dear Zindagi are so impactful.. its true isnt it? One is told that to be truly creative, one needs to understand pain, heartbreak.. the conventional gives you just that... conventional, one has to go under the axe, bear the grind - just look at the language itself..everything is difficult about it..

Rightly said😊

Ok, now coming to our Sameer - he is an orphan. Period. A rich orphan who has all the hollowness of wealth and yet has not even an iota of love from his dearest ones, well except ofcourse his nanu. For someone like that, I must say that Sameer is an amazingly well turned out boy who still has his moral compass pointed in the right direction. The earlier instances of strife with Naina is something which cant be solely attributed to him.. things have not always been fair for him.. being misjudged, jumping to quick conclusions, stereotyped coz of his background, Sameer has been at the receiving end always.. and yet, given the space of time, he is one who can appreciate the truth of the matter too.

I agree...most of the times Naina and Rakesh are the ones who contributed to the chaos

This guy is a gem.. silly bets as a teenager etc are somethings that I will totally discard in the overall scheme of things.. So far, he has beaten all expectations as given his state of mind and independent access to wealth, he had all the typical ingredients to be a spoilt, arrogant guy with no values.

In comparison to Naina too, I would hold Sameer a stead higher. Naina was first infatuated with his looks, was attracted to him.. typical puppy love.. despite his obvious flaws howsoever misconceived she had a sfot spot for him for this reason.. On the other hand, Sameer talks of her heart, her values, her nurturing character, having taken his time to understand her.. I hold this in higher stead..

I rambled on.. does it make sense?

I loved your comment and it really touched me... you have nicely analysed the two people really...thanks😃

Originally posted by: padmalaya30

@bold.. you stole my words..😊

It is really sickening to see her keeping mum all the time..if she is like this then how she will tell about her to love to the family in future..

It is time to reveal that key incident..hope she does after breakup😕😕

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Absolutely Brilliant Post !! Loved it !! Loved it !! Loved it!!

The question is should we expect anything from Sameer?? I would say NO...The question should be what should Sameer expect himself to do to get back his image and Naina??

As you said , we don't need to choose difficult path to solve things when we don't have the capacity to do those ..So If I where in Sameers place the first thing I would do is cut my hair short ...the bet was to make her say I LOVE YOU else cut the hair...to prove to the world and Naina that I lost the bet...reality is different which he Niana and some ppl around know...Because Naina was in love with him and would have said those three magical words...so by cutting his hair ...he proves to Naina that she is much more important to him and he could give away anything for her affection...

Second to talk to her and tell her what made him accept the bet. She needs to understand her one thoughtless statement made him loose his image and also lost his mom forever ...She needs to feel guilty about it. Sameer even now doesn't know that Arjun was the one who stole the paper. So its a very tricky situation...his confession abt the pain that she and her father inflicted and the loss that he had in his personal life will make Naina come out of her filmy world.

She loves him but is not at a stage where she trusts him completely...once the talk happens ...rest will fall in place with time...time heals the wound but leaves a scar to remind you of your mistakes so that you wont repeat them.

Originally posted by: dixie123

Your post makes me want to cry for Sameer, Manisha

He is in a very difficult situation, has a uphill task. Getting her to talk to him and listen to his story will be the most difficult thing for him..

Like @Werocktheworld said, it will be nice to see if he gets his hair cut because he did say he actaully felt good losing the bet yesterday in his monologue. But, his taking blame for Naina will be a big thing..that can't be part of the bet I hope someone can point to her.

And yes, the he has to tell her that the sanskaar jaap her father keeps making is what made him take the bet.

Originally posted by: SammP

I always love ur thoughts but today i want to say something about paper episode. Agreed Naina didn't tell about Arjun's cheating but the fact is Munna & Pandit did steal paper for Sameer. It was Sameer who chose not to cheat but paper was stolen and Naina did see key falling from his pocket. So actually other than hiding Arjun's cheating Naina did nothing to make Sameer away from his mother. What she saw she said at that moment.

Originally posted by: SammP

Manisha your posts are one of few ones that I love to read but I hardly comment as I am not good when it comes to writing.

I believe Sammer is going to be more serious about his life. This break up is technically gonna make him more strong. He will start performing well in his life and I have doubt that probably he will top the class also. Sometime some kind of failures are very much needed to motivate you and this break up is one of them. His seriousness is actually will be direct hint for Naina that he is no more old Sameer and not here for any more prank or bet and he genuinely loves her.