Forget love is Sameer really ready for a relationship?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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The guy who is so disturbed due to his family background,his mom not giving him required attention, his whole and sole emotional support is only his Nanaji, his step father is a villan
His poetry suggests somewhere he still needs to find himself
So is he ready for a relationship where it's expected from him to give love giving his complexities?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know about his perspective about relationship.Even after watching too many episodes I couldn't understand what is d meaning of love for sameer. He keeps chanting that naina is not his type n she only is a good friend to him.If he is interested in looks then y did he rejected kamya.
1.love comes by attraction or affection than Wat type of love he is expecting??

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I think he is looking for someone exclusive to him. Who will support him in think and thin. He thinks Naina is not attractive but he is attached to her... He to not going to know her value till he loses her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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At the age of 17 no one is ready for responsibilities that prop up from relationship. Not even Naian is ready for it. But that is not the case with love. Love just happens. You can plan to start a relationship but You cant plan to fall in love .
So here let us not think too much into relationship goals..once in love people will take up responsibility of keeping your partner happy and safe . There by even with out their knowledge they slowly jot down their relationship goals..some will be said , some wont be said ...very couple will have their own set of relationship goals . No two couple and their goals are the same.
I think what Sameer at the moment needs is affection , appreciation and encouragement from people around him...to make him feel he is not a bad person...and he is capable for loving , protecting and nurturing another person.
As they say...it's the lady who teaches man to love, care and share...Naina will teach him the essence of life through her blind love for him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

At the age of 17 no one is ready for responsibilities that prop up from relationship. Not even Naian is ready for it. But that is not the case with love. Love just happens. You can plan to start a relationship but You cant plan to fall in love .
So here let us not think too much into relationship goals..once in love people will take up responsibility of keeping your partner happy and safe . There by even with out their knowledge they slowly jot down their relationship goals..some will be said , some wont be said ...very couple will have their own set of relationship goals . No two couple and their goals are the same.
I think what Sameer at the moment needs is affection , appreciation and encouragement from people around him...to make him feel he is not a bad person...and he is capable for loving , protecting and nurturing another person.
As they say...it's the lady who teaches man to love, care and share...Naina will teach him the essence of life through her blind love for him.



Perfectly said.

16/17 is too young and early for anyone to star planning for future responsibility. At that age when love is just blossoming, one should just enjoy the wonder and the beauty of all these never felt before emotions.

It's the first time someone other than your family becomes a huge part or rather the centre of your life. The first time you make a big choice for yourself.. the first time you feel the axis of your universe shifting! And the first time someone acknowledges that you are your own person worthy of being loved for just who you are.

As long as there is the intention to make this love and relationship last for a lifetime, the rest starts falling in place as the individuals mature and set about finding their path in life.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If we're willing to be wid someone in any case, responsibilities won't matter..just my POV
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SixteenAgain



Perfectly said.

16/17 is too young and early for anyone to star planning for future responsibility. At that age when love is just blossoming, one should just enjoy the wonder and the beauty of all these never felt before emotions.

It's the first time someone other than your family becomes a huge part or rather the centre of your life. The first time you make a big choice for yourself.. the first time you feel the axis of your universe shifting! And the first time someone acknowledges that you are your own person worthy of being loved for just who you are.

As long as there is the intention to make this love and relationship last for a lifetime, the rest starts falling in place as the individuals mature and set about finding their path in life.


N i must say U both perfectly put in...!!👏


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: nuckts

The guy who is so disturbed due to his family background,his mom not giving him required attention, his whole and sole emotional support is only his Nanaji, his step father is a villan

His poetry suggests somewhere he still needs to find himself
So is he ready for a relationship where it's expected from him to give love giving his complexities?

this post is brilliance..boht deep socha hai tumney 👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SixteenAgain



Perfectly said.

16/17 is too young and early for anyone to star planning for future responsibility. At that age when love is just blossoming, one should just enjoy the wonder and the beauty of all these never felt before emotions.

It's the first time someone other than your family becomes a huge part or rather the centre of your life. The first time you make a big choice for yourself.. the first time you feel the axis of your universe shifting! And the first time someone acknowledges that you are your own person worthy of being loved for just who you are.

As long as there is the intention to make this love and relationship last for a lifetime, the rest starts falling in place as the individuals mature and set about finding their path in life.



Also this story is about kids growing up to be young adults, how they find themselves, they make their future, understand relationships etc

Getting infatuated with the opposite sex or falling in love in a sweet innocent way is part of normal growing up.

I can surely say that most of us have had crushes, infatuations or even fallen in love at that age.

Many might not have ended up with our first love, but the experience is always worthy to cherish.

So let them rejoice this time where they are experiencing love for the first time.

If they are destined to be with each other, they will work it out. Or else let's just wait and watch what else is in store for these two.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SixteenAgain



Perfectly said.

16/17 is too young and early for anyone to star planning for future responsibility. At that age when love is just blossoming, one should just enjoy the wonder and the beauty of all these never felt before emotions.

It's the first time someone other than your family becomes a huge part or rather the centre of your life. The first time you make a big choice for yourself.. the first time you feel the axis of your universe shifting! And the first time someone acknowledges that you are your own person worthy of being loved for just who you are.

As long as there is the intention to make this love and relationship last for a lifetime, the rest starts falling in place as the individuals mature and set about finding their path in life.


Agree with both of you guys...they are just 16! You can't be practical when it comes to love- you can't plan it...it just happens...maybe that person would not have even one of the qualities you wanted in ur mr./ miss perfect...but it turns out you would still want them just the way they are...real love complements each other...helps bring out the best in each other...is there through all the hard times n good times...external appearance has no significance...n I'll tell...people who are really broken and devoid of love are those who realize its value the best...the ardent love n respect they'll shower on you- you'll be amazed...so yeah I think Sameer is perfectly ready for a relationship. Infact he needs one with Naina...she's made him so happy...both have discovered new aspects of each other n of themselves...they can make it work 😊 my POV 😃

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