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A lot of discussion has been done about Naina and her sanskaar...and I was thinking of the same amd wanted to inderstand it better.Bcoz only then we will be able to relate to her...otherwise its difficult to digest the hypocrisy.
First of all..it was quite normal for a girl however sanskaari she is...to have a crush on a boy...that too a very very handsome boy like Sameer...everybody would have had untold crushes in their mind...and would have done small helping gestures for them...out of that fondness...so Naina has also done that...But for bigger issues...she has sought the advice of chachaji...like teaching Sameer and all...
I personally didn't like the samskaari Naina giving blank calls for a boy...even Swathi or Kamya didn't do that...who are head over heels on Sameer.So Naina had the guts to leave her sanskaar code in that thing...but then I pacified myself thinking that she didn't do any gandi talking or flirting with him through the blank calls...but just played songs to motivate him...It may be bcoz she had an inner regret that she cheated him by stopping teaching him in the middle due to her father...when she was his only hope in studies...so the only thing she could find to help him was motivate him...which she did by the songs...
Then Naina who was intereated in him tried to crush her feelings when he stole the key and papers.In fact its not always possible that our first crush will be our soul mate...Our crush might have a crush on another girl...or might not be interested in us and all...So its quite real that...we will have mixed feelings about that person. ...confused about whether to forget him or love him...and mostly we will start to forget the feelings when the boys commits to another girl...so letting others know about iur feelings might finally become ourselves making a fool infront of others...so its better that a relationship be kept secret till its pucca sure that they will marry at all cost.
Naina letting go of her emotions for Sameer has occured due to her regret...that she caused a big insult for him whem he was innocent.She didn't even want to hear the tape Sameer gave and was trying to wash away her feelings for him...but when she got to knoe that he is innocent she is sure to have softcorner...waise bhi ...koi bhi ladki Sameer ki charm me girega hi...But I think though Naina fall for his looks at first...after the stealimg incident she was moved by his gestures. ...and finally knowing that she had tortured an innicent person will surely melt her heart.
But I think Naina should reveal the real culprit one day...not to the whole school but to.Sameer...and uts upto Sameer to make the story spread or not. ...Or Naina should try to patch up.Sameer and his mom...bcoz he lost her bcoz of it...I wouldn't want Niana to reveal.the truth to the entire school...but she could have told it to chachaji at least...or to her father...Actually he should know it more than anyone else...
Regarding the kiss incident...Naina was quite bold in her approach to Sameer...she told him not to.kiss Swathi and wanted to become juliet herself...Any boy will.think that the girl wants to get herself kissed...But may be Naina must have just thought to stop Swathi kiss...and was desperate to become juliet due to that...and she might have found a way to.avoid her kiss tooo...she don't evwn say the word kiss...I think Sameer was tooo foolish to do kiss when they have not even confessed and he deserves that thappad...He really considered her a girl desperate for kiss...
On one side there was swathinand ither girls who have no problem in hetting kissed in drama...and in other side there is Naina who behaves like a lover but doesnot allow to kiss...😆
I think Niana was right about Sameer's upbringing. ...bcoz...even in the earlier episodes when Naina complained about him he wanted to take revenge and he atole her shoes.Here Sameer has been insulted a lot due to Naina...but for that he could have given a good thappad...or tried to insult her in other ways...but playing love drama and emotions and finally spoiling the reputation was a bad idea...so his aoch is giri hui...Of course Naina insulted him.
..but in other schools also he has never cared to keep a good reputation...he have always done his manmarzi...He havent got affection...but Naina has also not got affection from her father...and she doeant have a mother as well...but still she is the best student in the school...So it is afterall.our choice to take our life in positive or negative way...like Naina's chachaji sameer had his Nanu as a guide. ...
So loving person is one thing and spreading the love story in orhers ears and spreading it in the whole school and finally causing bad name for the family is another thing...I think we can always love a person till that love doesnt makes us do shameful acts and cause shame for others...Its a pleasure to love and to be loved...without harming others...
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