Originally posted by: IFLove
Majority of u all seem to be against Mani n neither m I his fan. But I don't find anything wrong in what he said yesterday except blaming ishita for killing Adi. I mean his blaming ishita in the matters regarding Aliya can not be compared with anything he has done in regards with pihu. This time he was not blaming his best friend but he was blaming his daughters mother. Pihu is only his best friend's daughter n his wife's surrogate child...she is not his daughter nor has he ever had that kinda relationship with her. So his snatching pihu away from ishita in the past or not thinking about pihu's happiness due to Ishita's return has nothing to do here. He surely has been a backstabber n a preaching friend n all...but yesterday he wasn't wrong. He had clearly told ishita that he is helping her only to keep roshni away from Aliya. U can't blame him for aliya's stupid decision of staying at bhallas...he has talked to her enough number of times, offered her new business to distract her, brought her a marriage alliance...what else can he do? He had given her responsibility to ishita some 10 odd years back, rather ishita had taken over that responsibility n since then Aliya had been more close to her, ishita being the best mother knew better to handle her than Mani, so even if he is upset with ishita for ignoring Aliya, he time n again goes to her for help. Isn't that what parents do...they try all the possible ways to help their children out, even if it takes help of those people whom u hate? N whatever he said was a harsh truth, till he gave ishita a piece of mind, she was totally ignorant about the impact this case shall have on Aliya. Only after that she started dying thinking about Aliya. None of Raman n ishita discussed about Aliya while deciding to stay together.
N I don't think either of Mani or Aliya are against ishita staying at bhallas, they are only against roshni staying there. Sure they r upset with her for siding with roshni, but they don't hate her for killing Adi unlike others. All they want is roshni away from their life. So I don't think Mani was selfish not thinking about Ishita's daughters happiness due to this decision. As Raman taunted the other day n as we all are saying, there were many other ways for IshRa to reunite n had ishita shifted to bhallas by any of those ways, Mani wouldn't have blamed her... yesterday he did, only because roshni too was involved.
N we can not blame the parents for what their children do. If we didn't blame IshRa for ruhi's manmaani n adi's affair, we can not blame Mani for not being able to convince Aliya to move on from Adi.
Finally, at least one sensible comment from not a really blind fan. I was wondering whether I am the only one who is supporting Mani. đ
It's beyond childishness if we compare Pihu & Aliya's state.
Mani has never told Pihu that he is her father. On every occasion, Ishita said she is Aliya's mother & she would protect her. Has she done that?
If we are blaming Mani for snatching Pihu then we should also remember it was Raman who took the first wrong decision to name Shagun as her mother in a fit of anger. Ishita was the one who got him married to Shagun. So when Adi himself confessed he had thrown acid on Aliya - even if it was to protect Ruhi, what should have Mani done? Kiss Adi on the forehead & say - BETA KYA KAMAL KA KAM KIYA HAI TUNE!!!
As far as Pihu is concerned, he did come to have a conversation with Ishita & propose something that would make sure the kid would get both her mothers. First of all, IshRa were way too idiotic to handle the situation & Pihu herself didn't want to come to Ishita.
We always glorify the situation where Ruhi chose Ishita over ShaRam. Didn't IshRa fail big time as parents that their daughter chose Shagun over them? And instead of listening to Mani, Raman as usual tried to thrash him, tried to destroy AdiLiya's relation when Adi had to stand up against him to show him the mirror.
Even if we agree Mani is a backstabber, didn't Ishita do the same thing. She planted Vidyut in Shagun's life & when Mani was enraged then again become JAGATMATA & tried to convince him. Did she really think of Mani? No, for any parent it's first her child & then his/her so called friend.
If Mani is a backstabber so is Ishita.
And here the question is on her motherhood but not on friendship.
Aliya has been the only & most loyal child who has always stood beside her. Even when Ishita stood against her relationship with Mihir - she was confused, turned to Shagun but never disrespected Ishita. During Raman & Mani's clash she raised her voice against Mani but not against Ishita. During her wedding when everyone was blaming Ishita, she understood that Ishita wanted her best & didn't point a finger on her. After their weddingwhen Ishita became the typical saas, she tried to maintain the peace between Adi & Raman. Even when Adi had beaten her, she chose to stay behind because she thought her Amma would protect her. She didn't even blame har for killing Adi like everyone else.
But what has Ishita done for her. Supported a mistress because she was carrying Adi's ANSH. Would she do the same if Ruhi was in Aliya's place. Definitely not.
This show is about IshRa so we love them unconditionally. But it's also a truth that post the very first leap, IshRa as individual characters, as parents, as a couple - have failed in every section.
Blaming others wouldn't make them saints.
Edited by nushy1995 - 7 years ago
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