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@AuthorSneha

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Posted: 7 years ago

Not supporting Roshini, yes she shouldn't have fell in love with Adi knowing that he is married. But as they say Juzbaat sahi ya galat nahi hote hai. Feelings r just feelings .She didn't purposely and deliberately fall for him.. It just happened. It was Adi and Roshini's mistake to sleep but I would blame Adi more in this case, bcz he was married and still chose to Cheat his wife .

Adi is a married man and Chose to have extra marital affair whereas Roshni was not married and didn't owe anything to anyone.

After that, she realised her mistake, and chose to stay away from him but He started stalking her and became obsessed with her. A man should understand that when a girl says NO, it means NO. But despite her refusal, he still didn't stop running behind her and troubling her.

Yes Ishita shot Adi to save Rosh, Is it Rosh's fault?? Did she say to shoot Adi?

Everyone in bhalla family is behaving as if Everything is only Rosh's fault. The only mistake she did was to fall in love with a married man , but she did realise her mistake and backed off.

Now the whole family is behind her only for the baby .how can someone be so evil to even think of seperating a mother from her child..

I have full sympathies for Alia and She is the actual grieved party here but Why do they all think that everything is Rosh's fault?

Is India still so patriarchal that we will blame a woman only jabki in this case Adi is equally at fault , if not more.

Just because he is dead, doesn't mean the entire blame now shifts to Roshni

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Harshita Srivastava

@harshiidiv

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Posted: 7 years ago

Well said dear

I'm agree with you

Everyone mocking roshni just bcoz she is a girl

I agree she commit a mistake but she is not alone in it adi too involved in it even he is more wrong in it..

Bhalla's(double standard ppl) never care for roshni in these 8 months but suddenly they comes to her to take her home just shake of baby i mean kaise log hai ye yaar one side mocking her & other side wants her child..

Now I really don't have any sympathy for aliya after knowing that she wants to take revenge from roshni by snatching her baby wowww I can see next shagun in her😡..

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SummerRain7

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Posted: 7 years ago

When a girl says NO, it means NO - Roshni actually made a mockery of this. She kept saying NO to Adi and ended up sleeping with him atleast twice. No wonder men keep saying that ladki ke naa mein hi Haan hota hai.

Having said that, I do agree that Adi is to be blamed more for this because at the end of the day he is the one who cheated on his wife. And Bhallas have always been a selfish cunning lot and right now the story lacks direction and common sense. Everybody has got their priorities and loyalties messed up. I am not sure what is worse, Bhallas running behind Roshni's baby or pretending to care for Aliya even while trampling all over her feelings. I honestly have stopped feeling bad for anyone, because I have no clue as to what each of them wants in life.

I honestly do not know why they want this baby. Even if they were to get this baby, who will take care of it? Do they expect Aliya to spend all her life in that hellhole taking care of that baby? If not who will care, Toshi ? Simmi Param? Romi Mihika? Raman - this man couldn't take care of his kids, now he wants to play grandfather - Diaper kaun change karega Bhai? Or will they hire Shagun , who will in turn outsource that job to the best aaya in the world - Ishita?

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FruitToasty

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Posted: 7 years ago

Adi and Roshni made a mistake, we all make mistakes, that's what makes us human but when we make mistake the only way to move on is realizing your mistake and apologizing to the "grieving party", of course Roshni is at fault, it was Adi's marriage, he is responsible for breaking his marriage but Roshni is responsible for the child, how can you be 30 years old and not use precaution when you are sleeping with a married man? If you are cheating, at least do one thing properly, a child doesn't deserve to be born into a broken family.
I'll tell you where Roshni is at fault

1 She slept with a married man, the man is at fault for breaking his marriage but think from POV of woman who's claiming to be in love with the man, is she ok being his mistress or she wants more? It's her life, Adi is not responsible for her life, she is an adult, we can't act like she's some teen who got pregnant.

2 If she fell in love with Adi, why didn't she anything to protect him or make an attempt to tell Ishita that she's pregnant with his baby? She was getting married to Shantanu, now she looks at Adi's picture and cry, but she could have saved him like she stopped Ishita from shooting herself by revealing her pregnancy.

3 Why keep the baby? This girl has no job nor anyway of supporting herself, how was she willing to take responsibility of a child, even if she wanted to keep the baby, she should have taken care of herself, but for her Ishita left her family and this girl doesn't even feel bad ordering her around, if she couldn't take care of the baby, she shouldn't have made a decision to keep it.

When it comes to Adi, he is dead, shot by his own mother for his crimes, how can he suffer more? The entire blame did not shift to Roshni, she chose to keep it on herself by breaking two families (Directly or indirectly).

So people are not only bashing Roshni because they are misogynistic or they have patriarchal mindset but because she's the only one being forced down their heads.

Edited by DracarysTrio - 7 years ago

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SQ.com

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio
Adi and Roshni made a mistake, we all make mistakes, that's what makes us human but when we make mistake the only way to move on is realizing your mistake and apologizing to the "grieving party", of course Roshni is at fault, it was Adi's marriage, he is responsible for breaking his marriage but Roshni is responsible for the child, how can you be 30 years old and not use precaution when you are sleeping with a married man? If you are cheating, at least do one thing properly, a child doesn't deserve to be born into a broken family.
I'll tell you where Roshni is at fault

1 She slept with a married man, the man is at fault for breaking his marriage but think from POV of woman who's claiming to be in love with the man, is she ok being his mistress or she wants more? It's her life, Adi is not responsible for her life, she is an adult, we can't act like she's some teen who got pregnant.

2 If she fell in love with Adi, why didn't she anything to protect him or make an attempt to tell Ishita that she's pregnant with his baby? She was getting married to Shantanu, now she looks at Adi's picture and cry, but she could have saved him like she stopped Ishita from shooting herself by revealing her pregnancy.

3 Why keep the baby? This girl has no job nor anyway of supporting herself, how was she willing to take responsibility of a child, even if she wanted to keep the baby, she should have taken care of herself, but for her Ishita left her family and this girl doesn't even feel bad ordering her around, if she couldn't take care of the baby, she shouldn't have made a decision to keep it.

When it comes to Adi, he is dead, shot by his own mother for his crimes, how can he suffer more? The entire blame did not shift to Roshni, she chose to keep it on herself by breaking two families (Directly or indirectly).

So people are not only bashing Roshni because they are misogynistic or they have patriarchal mindset but because she's the only one being forced down their heads.

ADi and Roshni both are to be blamed...

Adi got his punishment by being shot by his own mother

But Roshni is at fault too.

She KNEW that she was preagnant while marrying to Shantanu.

She slept with Adi then she realised that they are wrong and she just decides to part ways and marry Shantanu.Great.And what did she expect fron Shantanu?To take care of Adi's child.Its not like Adi raped her or she did not know that he was married.She not only knew Aliya but also the entire Bhalla family and Ishita.

She expects everyone in the family to except her baby and her.How can they?What about Aliya?

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abhilasha_dream

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: DracarysTrio
Adi and Roshni made a mistake, we all make mistakes, that's what makes us human but when we make mistake the only way to move on is realizing your mistake and apologizing to the "grieving party", of course Roshni is at fault, it was Adi's marriage, he is responsible for breaking his marriage but Roshni is responsible for the child, how can you be 30 years old and not use precaution when you are sleeping with a married man? If you are cheating, at least do one thing properly, a child doesn't deserve to be born into a broken family.
I'll tell you where Roshni is at fault

1 She slept with a married man, the man is at fault for breaking his marriage but think from POV of woman who's claiming to be in love with the man, is she ok being his mistress or she wants more? It's her life, Adi is not responsible for her life, she is an adult, we can't act like she's some teen who got pregnant.

2 If she fell in love with Adi, why didn't she anything to protect him or make an attempt to tell Ishita that she's pregnant with his baby? She was getting married to Shantanu, now she looks at Adi's picture and cry, but she could have saved him like she stopped Ishita from shooting herself by revealing her pregnancy.

3 Why keep the baby? This girl has no job nor anyway of supporting herself, how was she willing to take responsibility of a child, even if she wanted to keep the baby, she should have taken care of herself, but for her Ishita left her family and this girl doesn't even feel bad ordering her around, if she couldn't take care of the baby, she shouldn't have made a decision to keep it.

When it comes to Adi, he is dead, shot by his own mother for his crimes, how can he suffer more? The entire blame did not shift to Roshni, she chose to keep it on herself by breaking two families (Directly or indirectly).

So people are not only bashing Roshni because they are misogynistic or they have patriarchal mindset but because she's the only one being forced down their heads.

Very well said.

Just a few more points.

1) It isn't wrong to fall in love with someone but what is wrong is even while speaking NO u committ the sin. It was time and again seen that Roshini asked Adi to stay away but had no qualms meeting him every now and then. She had no problem painting the town red claiming herself to be Adi's wife. These were all encouraging signs and hence she indirectly led Adi more into her.

2) She slept with Adi, and then realized her folly and decided to get married to another man. Now Adi did not reach the level of obsession in a day. It was there and Roshini had herself witnessed it as Adi decided to slay his nerves if Roshini said NO and she gave in and slept with him. Now the very next day after sleeping with this type of person if you reject him - how do u think would he behave ? His behaviour would definitely not be normal and that is what we saw - obsession reached to next level. They would for sure seek revenge and Adi did just that. She needed to handle the situation tactfully but she did not.

Since Shagun was more in touch with her , she could have revealed what had transpired or else she could have told Ishita as she trusts her lot. She kept everybody in deception that it was Adi who is in love with her and she wasn't whereas the truth was she was equally a participant in making him believe strongly that if Aaliyah wouldn't have been there, she would go to him.

3) She is entitled to apologize to Bhalla family and specially to Aaliyah . She is aware that everybody hates her and is aware of the reason too but not once has she said the word "SORRY" to them. In fact she wants them running to her and pamper her. Like how she was fine when they came begging for GB and enjoyed it but the moment a few harsh truths were spoken she decided to play the game of doing a favour on them by coming there. That attitude needs to go.

4) Ishita has left her own kids to care of her but not once has she shown any kind of regret that she was one of the reasons why Bhalla family is away from her . She is happy ordering her around and make her run like an Aayah.

5) She wanted peace so she decided to get married to Shantanu then what forced her to keep the baby ? Was she not doing bigamy with Shantanu then ?

And coming down to Aaliyah - although she is a victim and everybody is wrong . cV's are sidelining it and busy painting a culprit - a victim and A victim - A culprit. This has led to more hatred for the character Rossini and Ishita as CV's are making people like Shagun and Romi touch the elephant in the room but are again and again suppressing it off by making Aaliyah support the wrong when after leap she was shown to be very righteous.

Edited by abhilasha_dream - 7 years ago

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Srividya

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Posted: 7 years ago

Lovely analysis by all respondents...

Roshni seems to be a case of optimism bias...someone who thought things would ultimately turn fine and as a society that accepts bigamy by celebrating the life of stars and politicians in such a state, Shagun who was married to Raman walked out with Ashok, used her children as pawns to manipulate Raman when Ashok dumped her lived with Manoj manipulated the Andachor as some called the doc and Raman to become the surrogate for Ishra s baby... Cared for Pihu but hoped to marry Raman...Married Mani for Pihus custody and was ready to walk away with Vidyuth...She today is world renowned social worker...In her optimistic state (delusioned ) she thinks she and Alia are no different from Shagun and Ishitha.

Ishitha picked up her worst adversary from the dustbin ...cared for her when she was pregnant with Pihu and later the mis carriage...She wanted Mihir to have his family around at his wedding and was manipulated by the mom and shagun...She has been senseless in her choices

She is upset she couldnt give Toshi her GKC and knows Mihika cant too. By shooting Adi she had taken away Toshis GKC. In her gult ridden state her mind heard only the line Adi ka Bachha...in the process as is her wont began to think of Roshnis care. Ishitha is so obsessed with the baby that she has even begun investing for its college education abroad...

I saw another serial by BTF set in Austria with an equally bizzare story line and revenge and strange marriages...

All characters are blameworthy for causing pain to their loved ones manipulating and messing around with the lives of others...in all this the story line and values are non existent.

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A HUGE FAN

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Posted: 7 years ago

Roshini made a mistake, tried to undue it by marrying someone else and told Adi to go be with his wife. However, Adi was the biggest culprit here by refusing and going crazy.

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sonal

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Posted: 7 years ago

Some days back i have posted it on some other thread now m copy pasting it...

First of all I just dont understand one thing , women blame women for breaking their homes , men blame women , society blames women , " sautan " " mistress " " dusri aurat " kya kya sunna parta hai.

But nobody says that the man was not supposed to entertain her , because its his marriage his home his family , his vows , So this is his responsibility...nobody said that adi was wrong most of the people still predict that he wasn't even adi n some says that roshini trapped him coz she knew he was obsessed with her but i don't get one thing why adi wasn't wrong...n if he was not wrong then roshini hi galat kyun...n i don't get one thing when adi rosh got married most of the people predicted alu negative hogi n now 100% roshini negative h...i mean seriously kya ek aurat ka negative hona zarori h...already she has done so much ab negativity ke liye reh kya gaya

Now i don't know whether roshini is negative or positive but one thing which i know is she is a mother n nobody has any right to snatch her baby if bhalla's want their GKC then that is their fault why to blame roshini...n most of the people say aliya should leave bhalla house...well i don't think this is a right thing to do woh kyun jaaye she is mrs aditya bhalla n she has every right to stay in bhalla house...Roshini is no one jiske ane se aliya ghar chodke jaaye

Roshini n adi cheated on aliya n adi got his punishment but roshini is still roaming freely...that's a different thing but lets not forget their baby is innocent n he or she deserves happiness but with her mom n if the whole bhalla clan want that kid toh they r wrong

In this whole mess the only innocent person is aliya n i feel sorry for her

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JaaneBhiDoYaaro

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Lol. Didn't mistress Roshni know how the abortion works?! She rather wanted to have this baby to rule the rich Bhallas... fortunately she's got a brainless assist in Ishita

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