Originally posted by: mcvra
Yes ishitha should be blamed becoz she saved roshni whose someone else daughter.If ishitha was saving ruhi all your logic would be in dust and all the bhallas/iyers/raman and ppl like you will be praising her. if ruhi was in the place of roshni and ruhi's boy friend in the place of adi even you will be supppoting ishitha without thinking logics and raman would have killed that guy.since roshni is someone else everyone is thinking logic. ishitha is a character who always sees everyone equal.she is characterized like that only.raman loved her for that only.and wat is your logic behind roshini being the culprit. adi and roshini were involved in a illegitimate relationship and once she realized she was wrong she agreed to what shagun said tried to move on.adi was adamant to possess roshini. also it was shagun who arranged roshini marriage all of a sudden without leaving anyone to think anything.
also you telling about ishitha being the problem for everything.both raman and ishitha have done equal amount of mistakes.
raman was the one who signed the custody papers without readiing and becoz of that ruhi was seperated from them and what about surrogacy ??he was the one to bring shagun back into their life.
also when he was in jail and was ready to be convicted under a murder case and did not utter the truth of vanditha's accident since he wanted to save shagun. atleast ishitha was saving pihu.
even raman has done many mistakes which are not acceptable so please dont blame ishitha alone for all the sufferings.
ishitha was equally bashed when she was doing a mistake. you should either blame a character based on the story line or you should blame the cvs for the characters.
you are justifying ramans character for his action by blaming that the track was done to bash raman but criticizing ishitha's character for her portrayal. even ishitha's character was compromised in numerous occasion.so blame the cvs when both the characters are doing a mistake not only when character raman is doing some mistake.
The fact that you don't see any mistake on Roshni's part and that deliberately led on Adi, encouraged him by sleeping with him and came inbtwn Adi and Aliya's marriage nullifies any chance of sensible debate with you! You are one of those modern women's rights lovers, who thinks that any and every problem is always a man's fault coz a woman can never ever be wrong Na? You can see Ishita's emotions and becharapan but you refuse to acknowledge Raman's loss and grief! He lost his son! Forever! Do u get that?
I am not saying what Adi did was right, I would never ever support such nonsense! But couldn't Ishita have shot his hand or legs? She had to shoot him in the chest? My problem is not with her saving Roshni, but failing to recognize that Roshni is not a victim, but a oppurtinist. Roshni knew what she was getting into and she did that with both eyes open!! No way is she blameless! She is equally to blame for Everything that happened! My problem is not with Ishita treating everyone as equal but with thinking that she can solve every problem by herself! When she most certainly is not capable of that. She is not a superwoman!
About Pihu. I have no problem with her taking the blame, any mother would do that. Even a horrible one and who doesn't deserve to be called mother, like Shagun did that for Adi. But my problem is with her saying she deliberately pushed Ananya. What nonsense is that? And she didn't respect Raman enough to tell him the truth! What double nonsense is that? Who did she save? Pihu? To be traumatized and hold the scars for life. And Raman almost lost his life and sanity for God's sake! Is that ok? Isn't that double standard when it comes to Raman?
And #flashnews I have never ever supported Shagun and I never ever will!!!
And no where in my comments have I said that I am ok with Raman talking all that crap! Please read properly before pointing your fingers! My problem is with the cvs for butchering and degrading Raman's character and making him jaanwar and making a scapegoat out of Adi to show Ishita as mahaan and bechari! I am sorry I don't find her either! Her problem of wanting to handle everything alone pushes her in the ditch everytime. She talks about trust, but has no trust on anyone!!
And by all this crap the audience automatically just sympathises on Ishita and name calls and abuses Raman, forgetting completely that he lost his child, his firstborn! His grief and emotions are always taken for granted. A father is as important as a mother! Our Indian serials forget that when they are bent upon glorifying mothers! No one can replace a mother for sure, but none can replace a father too. A father is not expendable nor is his grief!
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