Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 10

Originally posted by: zohakhan7

Bhikaripanti phir se chalu hogai cv ki🥱

Kp had to wear his own blue kurta for Lohri which he wore for his cousin sister sangeet

But he is looking hot in that blue kurta😳😛

Originally posted by: eclipse123

Well if we are going to question who is right & who is wrong then we will not get any answer from YHM. The question mark will be remain as a question mark only. Two days back me & Priya were discussing how can cvs make a raman to take help from another women when his character was not like that & in no where in our post we bash raman but we were talking about cvs & there way of giving lollipop. If we are going to discuss about logic then the whole track is logic less.

And here ishita is helping ashok & she is taking ashok's help. Let me tell u Ishita Vishwantan Iyer/Ishita Raman Kumar Bhalla was like that mainly after the marriage with raman because the ishita we introduced for a month was a straight forward women then they gave re-birth to this ishita. This ishita is the one who raman loved always this was the same women who loved raman with all his good & bad this was the same women who accept all the pain from the families,his enemies ex etc. And this was the same women who gave a roof for his enemies & ex too. So from the start ishita was like this.Because if sihita wasn't like that then ishra will not be there in the first place. And it's not a new thing that she is helping her enemies. Here i'm telling she did right by taking care of ashok but the character ishita is like that we can't do anything for that.

And about taking help from shagun/ashok i think both ishra will do anything for family but ishita will do for her enemies too that is only difference with raman & ishita. Raman did take ashok's help when he was jobless for his family raman did take shaguns help many times & chuha's kaand have his hand too with shagun...anyways first one who started is ishita itself. Now too if we see raman is taking shagun's help,yesterday she was in his room,at budapest track she was with him after that too.And ishita is also taking shagun's help we know yhm is show with full of nepotist so whole yhm track was dedicated to one character & for the same character this kasam thing too is happening & that's why they made all other charterers dumb. And they already showed raman taking care of shagun when she got miscarriage with man's baby & then ishita needed him the most because she lost her sister & her family disown her all this happened for raman but at that time too raman had a no reason to not tell the truth but to give ss to certain character they did that tarck.

It's true if a patient like who is going through all this can't handle all the things. But the biggest truth taklu can write anything according to his convenience & when he want he will make him patient otherwise he will act normal like today. So, i don't he will get a nervous breakdown because of ish-ok...because logically it is ideal scenario but to taklu he want masala & he will make raman to say I LUV U to ishita that's it. This is not the first track where he mocked things, he did mocked a women's biggest sensitive topic infertility using surrogacy now he is mocking raman's ML which is one of the most sensitive topic. But nothing will happen like we think till taklu wants.

Here i was not trying to say ishita is right or raman but wanted to say what lesson YHM & cvs gave me. And at the end for me both ishra are wrong & both are right at the same time& the main thing is ashok,shagun,subbu,mani,nidhi anyone one can come to their life but ishra will love each other till the end of this story & they will be with each other.

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Well written Pooja. Agree with you for most of the part. But then have a slightly different opinion on a few points too

@bold - Nope, even after marriage with Raman, it was not Raman, but Ishita herself who chose to forgive or magnanimous enough to accommodate shagun, once when she was drunk and the next time she was in the dustbin. Raman was strongly against it that time too. So it was not that she was majboor to do it for Raman's sake, because he vehemently hated Shagun then. Ishita did for Adi when Shagun was in the bin, but at the same time, we did not see a bechari Ishita. She was adjusting, understanding, yet drew her lines and when shagun tried crossing the line, she sternly warned shagun to be in her limits lest she had to face Ishita's wrath, as she is not going to tolerate shagun interfering in her marital relationship with Raman or with her relationship with family. That is the sign of a strong and a practical woman who knows her priorities in life.

We got to see that Ishita after ages in Budapest, where her priorities were very clear. She knew everyone had problems, but she let them solve their own problems with a note that she was there to help them out, be it Adi or Alia or Romi in the beginning. She was ready to delegate the problems to people and take help of people like Alia, Ruhi and Ashok and not jump on to do everything on her own. But now, she is even unclear of what to do because there are so many things in her plate and she wants to do everything herself. Agree, for Raman and Pihu she is needed the most and hence we can accept her shanno avatar. But why bother about Simmi and her condition when Simmi was the one who is responsible for this condition of her family and husband? Agreed, Ashok helped her and it is ok to help him too to the extent of keeping a check on his health. Why not appoint a reliable nurse to him who can stay put with him 24*7 and with whom she can be in touch to know his health? Why she needs to be physically present every time Ashok is unwell?😕. She is only complicating things further for herself by being so generous and ever-forgiving types. She can still forgive and be grateful, yet stick to her priorities and be clear of where she is required and where she is not.

@red - This is where I feel thinking only about your family and doing anything to family and friends is much better than thinking& doing for everyone including your enemies and forgiving them every single time, specifically when such acts has only caused problems &pain for everyone around in your own family.There is nothing wrong in being selfish for one's own family in my opinion. For me, I can't get on to the society and enemies and do things for them, if my own family needs me badly because of much bigger problems. I am not saying I won't do for outsiders, but I would still do things for them to the extent that would not be a stumbling block in me performing my duty as a daughter, wife, sister, or friend. So there is nothing wrong in Raman being selfish for his family, because that man also has gone to extremes for the sake of his own family as much as Ishita has gone. Only thing he cannot be a mahaan like her, but I guess no person, rather a woman, in real world can be as jagat mata types like Ishita, because frankly that looks too much of interference in other's life rather than generosity and helping tendency, beyond a certain point.

No offence to anyone but that is my frank opinion.

Originally posted by: bscorp13

Perfectly put...that explains the entire blandness that had started coming through post the start of this shanno chapter too despite very goid performances by KP and DT. Quite like the gulabo track ..whilr the premise was great...of a man going to any extent for his wife and children...essence was killed when characters stopped being what they actually were written to be and loved by all of us .

Ditto with the shanno track...had the track been closer to even what the promo promised ..of ishita working to protect Raman and shield him and pihu from param simmi and exposing them ...while also being a ear for Ramans feelings fpt ishita..it could have been a interesting watch..

Now with shanno pushing Raman towards ishita through a jealousy angle..ishita running away from Raman cos of kasam and now thw fear of shanno being discovered ...and simmi being redeemed...the track has lost its way...and so has ishita as a character ..Raman was already in the confused and unpredictable state...😕

Originally posted by: ishitaruhi

Well ashok start his chemotherapy by next day as per ishita dialogue

So will she go there too for supporting ashok ?

And like mani was stubborn to not start his treatment (during mani treatment in Australia ) till ishita comes, will ashok also insist?

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Well written Pooja. Agree with you for most of the part. But then have a slightly different opinion on a few points too

@bold - Nope, even after marriage with Raman, it was not Raman, but Ishita herself who chose to forgive or magnanimous enough to accommodate shagun, once when she was drunk and the next time she was in the dustbin. Raman was strongly against it that time too. So it was not that she was majboor to do it for Raman's sake, because he vehemently hated Shagun then. Ishita did for Adi when Shagun was in the bin, but at the same time, we did not see a bechari Ishita. She was adjusting, understanding, yet drew her lines and when shagun tried crossing the line, she sternly warned shagun to be in her limits lest she had to face Ishita's wrath, as she is not going to tolerate shagun interfering in her marital relationship with Raman or with her relationship with family. That is the sign of a strong and a practical woman who knows her priorities in life.

We got to see that Ishita after ages in Budapest, where her priorities were very clear. She knew everyone had problems, but she let them solve their own problems with a note that she was there to help them out, be it Adi or Alia or Romi in the beginning. She was ready to delegate the problems to people and take help of people like Alia, Ruhi and Ashok and not jump on to do everything on her own. But now, she is even unclear of what to do because there are so many things in her plate and she wants to do everything herself. Agree, for Raman and Pihu she is needed the most and hence we can accept her shanno avatar. But why bother about Simmi and her condition when Simmi was the one who is responsible for this condition of her family and husband? Agreed, Ashok helped her and it is ok to help him too to the extent of keeping a check on his health. Why not appoint a reliable nurse to him who can stay put with him 24*7 and with whom she can be in touch to know his health? Why she needs to be physically present every time Ashok is unwell?😕. She is only complicating things further for herself by being so generous and ever-forgiving types. She can still forgive and be grateful, yet stick to her priorities and be clear of where she is required and where she is not.

@red - This is where I feel thinking only about your family and doing anything to family and friends is much better than thinking& doing for everyone including your enemies and forgiving them every single time, specifically when such acts has only caused problems &pain for everyone around in your own family.There is nothing wrong in being selfish for one's own family in my opinion. For me, I can't get on to the society and enemies and do things for them, if my own family needs me badly because of much bigger problems. I am not saying I won't do for outsiders, but I would still do things for them to the extent that would not be a stumbling block in me performing my duty as a daughter, wife, sister, or friend. So there is nothing wrong in Raman being selfish for his family, because that man also has gone to extremes for the sake of his own family as much as Ishita has gone. Only thing he cannot be a mahaan like her, but I guess no person, rather a woman, in real world can be as jagat mata types like Ishita, because frankly that looks too much of interference in other's life rather than generosity and helping tendency, beyond a certain point.

No offence to anyone but that is my frank opinion.